sex, 7th grade Options

[BOLIN_Vee]

uuhhh ok i think boys r perverts.....not all but....the hot ones that i know.

so one day me and my friend were at this place were like everyone from 5 diff schools come and hang out, and we were just drinking water and stuff and then these guys that we knew....about...6 of them sat with us. 2 of them go to me and my friends camp and i thought that this guy was really HOT. he goes to my camp so i've known him. he was walking around with his shirt off because he had been swimming, and he had like a 12 pack or somthing it was crazy.

ok that was sorta the background of the story kinda i guess...

ok so like 2 nights after....wich was.....2 nights AGO, i was talking to him on AIM, and i was like
me: heyyyy!
him: wuts up
him: dude did u see me abbs?
me: uhhhh....yeah?
him: is this veronica?
me:yeah
him: you wanna...hook up sometime?
me: u mean...
him: sex?
me: no way!
him: you know u wanna!!
me: NO!
him: fine then....make out?
me: uhhh....i dont care your like the hottest guy i've ever met, so that could happen i guess.....but after u asking me to have sex with u i might have to THINK about that one.
him: u better
me: i dont have to
him: f**k making out...u suck d**k
me: what the hell?
him: i know you do
me: well i know you smoke i saw u with ***
him: HEY....YOU DO NOT WANNA PICK A FIGHT WITH ME i know were u live
me: ok great
him: ok lets hook up tommarow meet me at JMH at 2
me: no i hate you
him: u said i was hot
me: u still are but ur sick
him: lezbian



IT SUCKS HOW THE HOTT GUYS HAVE TO BE SUCH PERVERTS!!
i cant wait till the boys in my grade GROW UP!


i go to JMH like everyday and i'm so scared i'm gonna see him there and hes gonna like start hitting on me and i hate him and hes like friends with everyone i know.....WHAT DO I DO IF I SEE HIM AGAIN? do i just wave and pretend nothing happend? or do i have to....kill him...haha jk. i dunno help me!

[-lana]

man, what a jerk.

most hot guys are mean. ;[

[*lil_chubby_cheeks2*]

i agree with -lana

that guy sucks

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Yea, we totally suck!!

[silver-rain]

Just ignore him. He's obviously immature for his age.

[aznhunnie6o1]

Well.. If you see him, I think you should try and avoid him. He could sexually harass you or even rape you. It seemed like he really wanted to get some. Try to avoid him.
Man.. 7th grader?! Maybe it's just where you live.. The 7th graders here arn't as.. Sexually deprived as your sevies...
Try not to talk to him either. He might start making up rumors about you because you won't do anything with him.

[Rachel]

Yea, we totally suck!!

Totally suck penis!!!11!!!eleventy!!!

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

In the words of LC, "boys are like purses"

Umm are you sure he isn't like kidding. Cause me adn my guy friends always joke around about having sex. Weoll if you see him agian and he hits on you then if your shy just tell him to shut up and leave with like a friend. If your not as shy, tell him off. Dont take crap from that baster. say to him "Leave me alone. Go hire a whore or something. Justt because I dont wanna have saex with your nasty ass doesn't mean you have to keep on bugging me. I'm gonna say it agian NO." and like walk away but before you do that, make sure you have like a friend or two that is on your side to back you up. Dont like some horny 7th grader hit on you

[Teesa]

Haha, some of you guys need to give actual advice!

No, don't pretend it never happened, because it did. And don't try to avoid him, it'll just make your life more difficult. If you happen to see him or he approaches you, talk calmly and say exactly what you want to say. Like you are not interested in him.

[*incoherent*]

Yea, we totally suck!!

yeah we do. i dont really have any advice, but i think its really funny that he had to make a date...



















just to make out.
haha

alright, im j/k...but there are a lot of guys who just want to get in girls pants. its the usual. guys are probably more horny than most girls and thats why. just dont let it get to you...or just dont talk to him anymore if it bothers you.

[beFLYdesigns]

Your smart to not go for guys like that. =/ Guys are so stupid these days.

[Shahin]

Your smart to not go for guys like that.  =/  Guys are so stupid these days.

We feel the same way about you. :)

Just give the guy a nice knee in the crotch, a happy ''f**k off'' and keep on walkin.

[HelplessCry]

woah girl...major hostility he has all up in his grill...
he can eff himself. like woahh!
but not all guys are stupid...they act like that to impress their guy frends. its a natural habit. but this GUY...HOLY CRAP! just kung fu his ass...sistahh! dont be afraid. and if he does anything to you just tell your friends what he did to you! they'll back you up.

[teeners4]

err thats disturbing kinda sad. dont worry there are some guys who are hot, but then if they're really sweet boys you dont notice the hotness you concentrate more on their personality. but every now and then in class when your mind wanders off you'll be like "mmmmw wow hes really hot" haa

[Chii]

oh please, he's not going to try anything. even dumb ass guys know better than to rape a girl and make real threats. you're both only in 7th grade, if you were older then it would be a big deal.

just brush him off, he'll probably be an ass until he moves onto someone else which is probably soon judging him by his type.

[HelplessCry]

woops accidently....sorry mybad delete this somehow...

[*mipadi*]

oh please, he's not going to try anything. even dumb ass guys know better than to rape a girl and make real threats. you're both only in 7th grade, if you were older then it would be a big deal.

just brush him off, he'll probably be an ass until he moves onto someone else which is probably soon judging him by his type.

Basically, just tell him to bugger off.

[sense.n.style]

non of the guys (including hot) are like that of whom i know... im in 8th grade by the way

and... wow (dont hang w/ ppl like that!)

[xblueradiance]

oh please, he's not going to try anything. even dumb ass guys know better than to rape a girl and make real threats. you're both only in 7th grade, if you were older then it would be a big deal.

just brush him off, he'll probably be an ass until he moves onto someone else which is probably soon judging him by his type.

Yeah, I agree. He was pretty immature about this whole thing, seeing as how you guys didn't really know each other that well. Don't befriend people who act that way.

Good luck!

[*xcaitlinx*]

lol from what you were saying to him, it seems like you were leading him on.

[NgocQuyen]

lol awwh! im sorry friend..haah the next time you see him and he tries to hit on you kick him in the nuggies and run like mad!
im quite serious..if you thought i was joking...

[mzislandpinay]

hey he's mean!

i'll watch out for you.. don't worrie!

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

oh please, he's not going to try anything. even dumb ass guys know better than to rape a girl and make real threats. you're both only in 7th grade, if you were older then it would be a big deal.

just brush him off, he'll probably be an ass until he moves onto someone else which is probably soon judging him by his type.

I disagree with the only cos you're in 7th grade that boys wont start anything. In my area at least, 7 graders are very experienced kids from the streets they grew up on, and could very well force girls to have sex. I was almost raped in 7 grade, by a friend of a friend. It was afterschool during a soccermatch and everyone was out in the field and i was alone at my locker a far ways away and so he proceeded to try and make me have sex with him, but i got away.
I was molested and almost raped again in 8 grade, by my boyfriend, thank god in both those situations i managed to get away.

I think you should walk right down JMH and if he tries to talk to you yell " NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU " (jokejoke) . Or you can just tell him straight out that you will never engage in any physical contact with him, because he approached you in a way no one should ever be approached.

[ceara cecilyrose]

In the immortal words of my fifteen year old sister (who got it from her phone cover):
Boys are stupid. Throw rocks at them.

For a more graphical view of this, check out this piece of art: http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/19475301/

Really though, this guy sounds like a prick. I can't STAND sexually agressive guys. The first sign of a move like that and I usually sweetly suggest that they go stick their p.nis in a vacum cleaner nozzle because there's no way they're going to get me anywhere near it.

[*jooleeah*]

Honestly, both of you sound pretty immature to me. Just ignore him though....but be safe. You don't really know if he's joking or not.

[mzbbc]

b,Nov 28 2005, 12:20 AM]I disagree with the only cos you're in 7th grade that boys wont start anything. In my area at least, 7 graders are very experienced kids from the streets they grew up on, and could very well force girls to have sex. I was almost raped in 7 grade, by a friend of a friend. It was afterschool during a soccermatch and everyone was out in the field and i was alone at my locker a far ways away and so he proceeded to try and make me have sex with him, but i got away.
I was molested and almost raped again in 8 grade, by my boyfriend, thank god in both those situations i managed to get away.

bella... i am so sorry. that sounds so awful i don't even know what to say.
i'm so glad you got away from those assholes. some guys can be such f**king assholes, it scares me.

[seremela_culnamo]

A guy has never done anything like that to me.

If it's from random messages from online community sites, I just totally ignore them and block them =D Whereas if it's my online friends or something, they don't even even try. They know I'm not like that and so forth. If they do, - click delete.

Real life, nobody has done that either. I hate it when guys think they are all that and such. But yea. Once at Wonderland, some really hot guy was sitting with his friends. My friends, Michelle, Jonathan and Jason were walking, and the dude comes out of nowhere, spreads out his arms and comes up to me and tells me to give him a hug. I was like "o.O" and even though he was hot, no way. What if he smells? Lol. Just kidding.

But yea. If some guy was that rude to me, regardless of whether or not he's hot, I probably wouldn't slapped him. Haha. But all my guy friends know that I will never let them get away from these things, so yea. Especially when it might result in ignoring them. & that, I can do very well. Except the fact that it doesn't usually last too long if they beg for forgiveness =P

[aznxdreamer]

you shoulda been like "OKAy!" then send a fat male friend there.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I doubt he's gonna do anything. 7th - 8th grade. Nothing too bad could happen. Especially something like rape. He needs to grow up. Wait...is he one of those "bad" boys because that's a different story. Those people are crazy. Well I agree with the others, I think you should just try to ignore him. At this age, I don't think he means it when he says "sex". Perverseness. Hopefully it'll wear off when he gets older

PS-Bella: I am so sorry to hear that thank God you're alright.

[jEllyBeaNs]

^ yea, same here, and to me that whole conversation seemed FaKe.

-plUs that kid was probably joKing.:/

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Maia&Jane - Aww. Its okay. Dont feel sorry for me. Im strong :) Stay smiling, never let them see you frown.

[Mikael]

do you have an older brother, or an older male friend who resembles an older brother that knows the art of the 'Drop Kicking to the Face'. If that was my sister, I'd find out one way or another, and I'd drop kick her whole school. In fact, this reminds me, im gonna check my sisters xanga in a bit. If i were you, I'd save AIM chat, and then show it to the people who you think can make a difference. Do it wisely. As some might think youre making it up. Show it to people you can really trust. and then let the drop kicking begin.

[lilxroxy]

tell him to get a life and he's not gnna get what he wants all the time. and he shud stop threatening. gentlemen don't pressure people to do stuff..

[Nicolatofu]

He's just a regular boy most likely beginning the stage of puberty which causes raging hormones and sexual needs to increase. Seems like he's looking for an easy girl to fulfill those needs.

Tell him how it is. You aren't going to have sex with him and if you don't want to kiss him, then tell him you aren't interested in doing either. If you leave him thinking he's got a chance in getting something, then he might not leave you alone.

[theflashxmwc]

That guy is a dumbass. Most girls are willing to give sex....granted they are old enough...but you have to start of slow. I'm not being a pervert myself, that's just how it works- guys are just more ready and girls have to be romanced first. Anyway, I think that most girls call guys that aren't hot perverts if they hit on them, but then- automatically-if a hot guy hits on them then it's ok ( I'm talking normal hit on here). So if you know he's probably a jerk and everyone tells him he's hot and boosts his ego, then I guess that's what you should expect from guys like that...

[dahding]

Totally suck penis!!!11!!!eleventy!!!

the immortal words of rachel <3.

yeah, guys tend be perverted *expletives* around the start of puberty. he probably thinks that since he's "attractive", he can have his way with girls. what a douche.

[BOLIN_Vee]

hey guys thnx for the advise.


well i dont think hes gonna rape me either...he did't say "i know were u live" because he was gonna rape me, he'd probly just egg my house knowing him. but yesterday, his friend got my sn and he was like:
bumboy: i like bjs
bolin: good 4 u
bumboy: will u give me one
bolin: hell no
bumboy: damn ok bye

MANNNNN THAT STUFF IS SO ANNOYING!!

but no...the "sexually active" (haha) guy isn't gonna rape me, because alot of his guyfriends are my guyfriends, and they would kick his ass.

this guy thinks hes such a badass cause my friend after hearing what happend, she made up a sn and she was talking to him, and they were like :

friend: ELLO POPPPET!!
him: who the f**k are you?
friend: ehh...hmmm i dunno
him: get away from me
friend: depends on the weather
him: YOUR A FAGGOT YOUR A FAGGOT YOUR A FAGGIOTT YOUR A FAGGOT!!
friend: you spelled faggot wrong
friend: the 3rd time
him: dont talk to me hoe
friend: but....i love you
him: u do really? whos this?
friend: SOMEBODY YOU'LL NEVER GET!!! INFACT! YOULL NEVER GET ANY GIRL IN YOUR LIFE....FAGGOT!
him: u little bitch hoe get the f**k away from me
friend: love u too.


hahaha i laughed she pasted that convo to me

[steezahh]

wow a lot of guys are like that, but just ignore the fact, try becoming friends with him, you know hes just desperate and wants some, cause maybe people he knows are bragging about it. [read it in a book! :)] so yeah. dont be afraid. just cuss him out if he starts bein` "unfriendly".

[EyeOfTheTiger5]

If you're really worried, play it the guy-way; be STRAIGHTFORWARD.

What does that mean? Tell him to f**k off. He should get the picture. Don't say anything good about him if he's in that kind of mood or he'll blow his own ego up. Saying he was hot definitely egged him on :\

[vash1530]

damn i know mad ppl lkie that
whatch out for them they get pissed usually when they dont get what they want

[topsyturvy]

Honestly, both of you sound pretty immature to me.

Sorry i have to agree. The pasted convos aren't much help.

[blackxpearl]

I agree with teesa and what age is 7th grade?

[teeblue]

Girls who are straightforth and frank are hot! Be up front with it. Stay away from jerks. There are plenty of hot guys out there for you. I don't agree that most hot guys are jerks. It is how they are raised.

[NyCaZnShOrtAii]

lol people like him mess up the boy reputation =[

[twistedxmindz]

hey guys thnx for the advise.
well i dont think hes gonna rape me either...he did't say "i know were u live" because he was gonna rape me, he'd probly just egg my house knowing him.  but yesterday, his friend got my sn and he was like:
bumboy: i like bjs
bolin: good 4 u
bumboy: will u give me one
bolin: hell no
bumboy: damn ok bye

MANNNNN THAT STUFF IS SO ANNOYING!! 

but no...the "sexually active" (haha) guy isn't gonna rape me, because alot of his guyfriends are my guyfriends, and they would kick his ass.

this guy thinks hes such a badass cause my friend after hearing what happend, she made up a sn and she was talking to him, and they were like :

friend: ELLO POPPPET!!
him: who the f**k are you?
friend: ehh...hmmm i dunno
him: get away from me
friend: depends on the weather
him: YOUR A FAGGOT YOUR A FAGGOT YOUR A FAGGIOTT YOUR A FAGGOT!!
friend: you spelled faggot wrong
friend: the 3rd time
him: dont talk to me hoe
friend: but....i love you
him: u do really? whos this?
friend: SOMEBODY YOU'LL NEVER GET!!! INFACT! YOULL NEVER GET ANY GIRL IN YOUR LIFE....FAGGOT!
him: u little bitch hoe get the f**k away from me
friend: love u too.
hahaha i laughed she pasted that convo to me

that was a funny convo, but um anyways, js stay away from him, cause you never know if they are kidding when they're online and stuffs cause i kid a lot online, it's likee fake to me.

[iDecay]

Are you both 7th graders? Wow.. most of the 7th graders at my school are totally not like that.. or at least I don't think they are.. EHH, that guy is a jerk. Just ignore him.

[LiLCUTiEFR0MDAYA...]

just ignore him. and dont let him pressaure u. dont do ANYTHIN u dun wanna do. uLL regret it maybe later

[*Programmer*]

and there goes..the reason why good guys...have a hard time finding girls..cause most have been victimized by some loser..and don;t trust anyone....gotta hate that crap...

[uLoVeMikeRoch]

uuhhh ok i think boys r perverts.....not all but....the hot ones that i know.

gso one day me and my friend were at this place were like everyone from 5 diff schools come and hang out, and we were just drinking water and stuff and then these uys that we knew....about...6 of them sat with us.  2 of them go to me and my friends camp and i thought that this guy was really HOT.  he goes to my camp so i've known him.  he was walking around with his shirt off because he had been swimming, and he had like a 12 pack or somthing it was crazy.

ok that was sorta the background of the story kinda i guess...

ok so like 2 nights after....wich was.....2 nights AGO, i was talking to him on AIM, and i was like
me: heyyyy!
him: wuts up
him: dude did u see me abbs?
me: uhhhh....yeah?
him: is this veronica?
me:yeah
him: you wanna...hook up sometime?
me: u mean...
him: sex?
me: no way!
him: you know u wanna!!
me: NO!
him: fine then....make out?
me: uhhh....i dont care your like the hottest guy i've ever met, so that could happen i guess.....but after u asking me to have sex with u i might have to THINK about that one.
him:  u better
me:  i dont have to
him: f**k making out...u suck d**k
me:  what the hell?
him:  i know you do
me:  well i know you smoke i saw u with ***
him: HEY....YOU DO NOT WANNA PICK A FIGHT WITH ME i know were u live
me:  ok great
him: ok lets hook up tommarow meet me at JMH at 2
me:  no i hate you
him:  u said i was hot
me:  u still are but ur sick
him:  lezbian
IT SUCKS HOW THE HOTT GUYS HAVE TO BE SUCH PERVERTS!!
i cant wait till the boys in my grade GROW UP!
i go to JMH like everyday and i'm so scared i'm gonna see him there and hes gonna like start hitting on me and i hate him and hes like friends with everyone i know.....WHAT DO I DO IF I SEE HIM AGAIN? do i just wave and pretend nothing happend? or do i have to....kill him...haha jk. i dunno help me!

Ah, pre-pubecent kids are always magical aren't they?
I bet by next year, this is going to turn into. "I CAanNoT get enugh of himLOLZORS!!!111"
The solution to this dilema?
Well first the that guy has to realize that, he's not going to get anything. He might think he's cool. But in reality, he's a dumbf**k.
And as for you, I can't way to see what happens in the future, especially after the timely experience that every person loves.

Also, if you don't wanna see him again, well you could avoid him. Go somewhere else to hang. Or go on the prowl. Go up to him when your in a big crowd of people, like after school is over and there are lots of people in the halls, or at the mall. Go up to him and scream, "NO I WILL NOT SLEEP WITH YOU!!1111oneoneoneoneonne.", and kick him where the sun don't shine as hard as you can. Then leave. With friends. After they all laugh at him.

[*mishyerr*]

that guy has to got to be the most immature, insensitive, rudest male i've ever heard of. in my life.

[mellifluousred]

xoxoxoxoxo

[EddieV]

Honestly, both of you sound pretty immature to me. Just ignore him though....but be safe. You don't really know if he's joking or not.

I agree with you...

[anoniez]

ok wow. lol i dont really have any comment on this but i just noticed the JMH comment.. would you by any chance happen to live in the west u / southside area in houston.. cause i live like 2 minutes away from a JMH neighborhood store in west u =p

anyways. i thought that'd be interesting/cool, hahah

[Babi3xFoOlish]

guys. lol
some are like that.
but dont take it all offinsive wen they talk to u like that.
im use to all that by now, so wen sumthing like that happens i just shove it off. nothing really to make a big deal out of.
n wen i see him the next day i just ignore him n not talk to him.
i could really kareless for a person like him.

[HybridCountdown5]

que horor! a seventh grader, what is he like a Lolita dude or something!? gracious.

Just interact with him as little as possible, thats totally creepy *shudder*

[Rachel]

READ THROUGH THE TOPIC. She has dealt with the kid.