Its like a soap opera or something.., I really need advice :( Options

[lauren_m92]

Ok this is a long story so get ready...

There is this guy I like ALOT and I was positive that he liked me last year because it was very very very obvious but I didnt really like him last year so I kind of was just lyk w/e. Now this year I like him alot and I think he still likes,but im not really sure because for the past couple weeks he hasnt really shown any signs that he still likes me,but im not sure because a couple weeks ago my friend called him like 100 times to tell him i liked him but we couldnt talk to him because he was grounded. The last time we tried calling he answered the phone and my friend say hi blah blah blah and then she was right in the middle of telling him that i like him when his mom started screaming at him because he wasnt sposed to be on the phone and he hung up really fast and we didnt get a chance to tell him. We were so close tho..it pisses me off.
ok well anyway i know ur probly falling alseep now but heres my question...Should we try calling him again this weekend and tell him? Or should I just call him and tell him myself?? Im kind of the shy type tho so I doubt I would be able to tell him myself....

[hottiebheibi]

don't be too aggressive girl... and since you knew he is grounded why call him?? don't you think you only make his status worse??? and make his punishment last longer than expected??? and as i said, don't be too aggressive, if he likes you he'll do something about it... though it's not wrong helping him to come up to his senses to make a move or something, but this is not the right time...

don't forget....patience is a virtue *wink*

[lauren_m92]

Lol yea I didnt know he was grounded at first and I didnt know how long hewas going to be grounded for so we just kept calling him lol. Ugh I hate patience. I have to make the first move because this guy is really shy unfortunately..

[_sarcastic_]

well wait until he's 'un'grounded, or just wait for another week, you have got to be patient, if you keep calling him, you'll probably piss him off and annoy him really bad.
you should really tell him yourself

[NgocQuyen]

how about...not trying so hard. lols..wait until he's off punishment...he's probably getting pretty ticked at you because you keep calling him and his mom might be extending his punishment length..lols...why dont you do it in person? its so much easier. it may sound hard but it'll show you really like him if you tell him in person. yeahhhh....tell him in person. do it yourself. please don't get any of your friends to do it for you...its just..........oh so ....childish? lols yeahh....

[ParanoidAndroid]

tell him personally.... calling him on the phone sounds desperate

[kykip]

why call him...he's not grounded to talk with at school! hang out with him for a while...become friends...the more he hangs out with you he will start to notice why he started to like you in the first place. if you just be yourself and not push this on him then he will like you more rather than you push him away by being too foward. Plus leave the "we" out of this if there is going to be a "we" let it be just you and him. Just give your friend the juicy details later.

[Chii]

is it me or do you just sound like a very annoying person?

i don't think anyone would appreciate someone calling them about 100 times and being b*tched at because of it. what do you think his parents think now? you're just making everything worse for him.

my god, think about people other than yourself

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how on earth is that a soap opera? it's not like someone stalked you, waited for you to leave your house, waited for you after school, tried to find out every detail about what you do and who you see, and won't just leave you alone for 5 minutes.