more than friends...., but not to me. Options

[anger_is_my_frie...]

ok long story short, i really really really like this guy and he likes me, but we made a pact a couple months ago that we would not go out because of parents/school/our friendship on the line and stuff, but we agreed that we'd stay close and be a lil "more than friends." well, later on we started dating and stuff and we flirt/cuddle all the time and i talked to him about it, because i feel like we're acting like bf/gf but to him it's like not that big of a deal to him. i'm starting to get afraid that he might just be using me, but i like him alot so i don't know if i should turn back .. i'm so confused, help. lol

[chaoticchrissy]

hmm, if he was your good friend he wouldnt use you. & you can`t be a "lil" more than friends, its either friend or relationship, pick what one it is..

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

Just don't be so open about it. Sometimes you have to pull away just to see what there reaction is, sometimes you have to walk away just to see who will follow. I would pull away a little, just to see what he does/thinks. If he doesnt care, hes most likely using you.

[seremela_culnamo]

Wow, I kinda know what you're going through right now. But in the sense that I don't think my good friend likes me back. He knows that I like him though and he has been giving me subliminal messages that totally screws me around. No clue how he feels. Yet everyone tells me not to worry and that he likes me back. Meh. You can read about it under my topics in relationships called Subliminal Messages. I need so much help, too ><

Anyway, onto your life..

Well I'm sure that if he's a good friend, he wouldn't use you. & you two just started off, right? If so, he's not using you. He's probably not just adjusted to the idea of having a girlfriend..having a relationship with someone when the two of you made a pack that you won't go out. I'm sure it will turn out for the better as days pass. Starting off slow will always be better than going way too fast at the beginning of a relationship. I don't know since I have never been in one, but in order to have a serious one, that's the way how it goes and from my friends, they all say that and want that.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

__Nessa - you heard of friends with benefits ?

But, if you dont him to start taking advantage of you , or you owrry he might be using you, Dont let him. No more cuddling kissing or flirting. Unless you are a couple, you shouldnt be acting like one, and tell him that.