still talk to your ex? Options

[LiNHy POO]

i was wondering... do u still talk to your ex-bf's? even if yall said *we'll still be friends* do yall go on your word? or u juss leave each other alone?

[d3v1l1ci0us]

i dunno.. i tlak to my ex alot anf even FLIRT alotto... i mean if i look back in the past it really pisses me off but he still is damn lovable =]

[casssy]

I still talk to my ex... all the time.. we are actually best friends now.. but we both know we cant be anything more than just friends. my boyfriend doesnt like him much.. but he said he trusts me... so thats a good thing.

[*Kathleen*]

I'll still talk to my one ex...very little, though. My other ex cheated on me, and yeah...I just had a conversation with him (it's in my Xanga), and yeah...don't talk to him much. My other ex I try to talk to, but he doesn't want to talk back. It's hard seeing him everyday in eighth period, too.

[conster]

i only talk to a few ex's lol its nto that i dont wanna talk to them, they dont wanna talk to me pssh

[xquizit]

i'm not still talking to my exes except for one. and even he didn't start talking to me til a year after we broke up.

[bird_of_prey]

yeah, i'm friends with most of my ex's. we were friends first though.

[xplicitmizz23]

hmmmmm.. i don't talk to my ex but once he came to my new house (i moved) and knocked on my bedroom window for 3 hours. during those same 3 hours he drove back and forth to a shopping center by my house to call my phone from a payphone over and over (can u imagine how many quarters?) cos he didn't have a cellphone at the time.. i hid under my computer desk the whole time. i had a new boyfriend at this time and he knew it too. me and him were only together for 2 months and by that time we had been broken up about 3 months.

you'd think he'd get the idea that i wasn't home or that i wouldn't let him in after the first 10 minutes. but nooooooo - it took him 3 hours to realize it wasn't no chance of me opening up that door. LMAO....

can we say.. PSYCHO??

[*CEP*]

Ofcourse I do.
That would suck if I lost a friend over a relationship.

If the bridge is broken, it doesn't mean its over, just means you need to build a stronger one.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[lookitskim]

hmmmmm.. i don't talk to my ex but once he came to my new house (i moved) and knocked on my bedroom window for 3 hours. during those same 3 hours he drove back and forth to a shopping center by my house to call my phone from a payphone over and over (can u imagine how many quarters?) cos he didn't have a cellphone at the time.. i hid under my computer desk the whole time. i had a new boyfriend at this time and he knew it too. me and him were only together for 2 months and by that time we had been broken up about 3 months.

you'd think he'd get the idea that i wasn't home or that i wouldn't let him in after the first 10 minutes. but nooooooo - it took him 3 hours to realize it wasn't no chance of me opening up that door. LMAO....

can we say.. PSYCHO??

Oh dang he sounds crazy... omg.. how could u hide under your desk for that long?

[hair products]

the ex comes over. i don't talk to her.

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

i still talk to my first two b.f's occasionally. but my recent ex i want nothing to do with. so thats a no for the third ex.

jackie

[aznjammyjam]

i hate my ex, when she wants to talk to me, she always starts off by asking a favor, like 'oh! remmeber those picts of my friends you have? is there a way you can drop them off?" and then she would be like "so how've you been?" and id be like NO...

but yeah, we tried talking a few months after we broke up and i took her out to lunch, but then it seemed like i was leading her on by talking to her on the phone or going to lunch. so i tottaly ignored her after that, and every time she would call, i would say i gotta go or not even answer.

her birthday is coming soon too, i dont wanna go, but my friends were invited too she told me and stuff but i said i gotta see, cause i know she wants me to go. dont wanna diss her, but in a way, i have to cause i dont want her to think that im still into her, but its not the same anymore. feel me?

[eboarder2020]

OMG....I talk to my ex but its not the same...Its so freakin hard to talk to her. Not because im mad at her or anything but because what was once there, no longer isnt. My ex and I are still really good friends however I dont think she knows that my heart is still broken from the break up. In the relationship we kept the friend in girlfriend, but I lost the girl I want my girl back

[Winter]

I still talk with my ex. Most of my friends are like 'wow you guys are so mature'. But me, I know it's because we ended things on good terms. We talked and decided it was best for both of us if we split.

So we're still friends now. In fact, closer than before. Coz we've passed this phrase of awkwardness during our relationship and now that we're not a couple anymore, that's gone.

[*instantmusic*]

my ex and i are really close friends. we sit together at lunch. its messed up to just not talk to someone who use to mean the world to you. right now, im setting her up with my friend for prom. its all good

[thepastwillcome]

yea i still talk to mine like everyday now for the past couple of days yea we still flirt and kiss alot but i dunno if were gonna get back together hit me up on
give some guiy advice

[LQ_Darksoul]

I'm scared to talk to one of my very first love.. when you love someone for so long, its so hard to just be friends with them once you're no longer together. Everytime you hear their voice, or see their face, something inside flutters and you feel like you're falling in love all over again. And thats a dangerous thing when your already with someone new.

[tinababy143]

a couple of us still talk and we're real good friends, but some of us didnt end on such good terms and prefer to juss let each other be..i realli wish that one of my ex's and i still talked..we were best friends since preschool..then our relationship messed it up and we ended on such horrible terms..but yeah..i dont wanna go on rambling like always LoL

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I stopped talking to my ex like a few times the last 6 months since we broke up, but I always ended up talking to him again... I guess a small part of me still loves him, and I still would like to be more than just friends if it weren't for all the stuff he's done... but a couple weeks ago, I told him to stop calling me... stop thinking about me, and to just let me move on, cuz he sure as hell already has heh

[Mireh]

Well, some of them.

One of my ex's and me are still really really reallllllllyyyy good friends...

[177emories]

actually yeah i still talk to my ex-bf's except for my first one, cause we were young and it was just some kinda fling... well yeah my ex-bf for over a year we're still very tight like best friends he tells me everything, he moved thats why we broke it off but its only like 30 mins drive haha we've both moved on and in relationships now, but we still talk and hang out together in groups and stuff as for the other exes we would just like say hi if we see each other.

[dani41790]

well umm i stio tawk to mai ex, in fact we're pretty gud frenz cuz yea we tell eachother lyke everything.

[Chopstikx]

i still talk 2 my x....its not like anythings changed....its really stupid how wen pplz break up..they...end up hating each other...

[allen]

I haven't really talked to my ex in a while, but that's only because we don't really have any classes together, and we chillax in different crowds. :) And with my other ex, we're still pretty close? I guess? Nothing's really changed. It's always good when you still remain good friends with your ex-loves. ^^

[mglbaby]

yea some of them but i find it sorta hard to talk to some of them...

[mznina]

i stay away from them..far away as possible!

[tkeo]

nope.. havent talked to my ex in half a year, at least not physically, only online

[rivendell]

I normally talk all the time with one of my exes. He was my first boyfriend way back in the day, and we've been super close ever since. I haven't talked to him in awhile though.

A few weeks back when I was sick, he called me everyday from his Army post in South Korea. It was like he KNEW I wasn't feeling well. It was really sweet, but I think he got in major trouble for it with his commanding officers...

[franceass]

I don't really have any ex's ... well unless I count that one "so-called" boyfriend I had that lasted for 1 week in middle school .... ha! I don't really count that one because all we did was talk on the phone. We were more like friends than girlfriend/boyfriend .... If I counted that ... then my answer would be "No, I do not still talk to my ex" ...

[triipinfserious]

yeha i talk to all of them A LOT ... `nd yeah we are still good with eachother

[waynezworld]

; never talk.. everytime i try, she walks away..
i hope she gives me a chance

[silver-rain]

; never talk.. everytime i try, she walks away..
i hope she gives me a chance

Aw, I used to do that- sorta. There was this guy that liked me, but i didn't like him so i would ignore him. i guess that's happening to me now- since my boyfriend andi brok up last week, he's been ignoring me.

[sweetlyz]

i haven`t talked to him for a pretty long time

[draznnoyou]

yea all the time but i wish she wasn't my ex but my gf haha

[darkcoldplace]

I stopped talking to my ex like a few times the last 6 months since we broke up, but I always ended up talking to him again... I guess a small part of me still loves him, and I still would like to be more than just friends if it weren't for all the stuff he's done... but a couple weeks ago, I told him to stop calling me... stop thinking about me, and to just let me move on, cuz he sure as hell already has heh

same here elba...but i have to talk to her just have to.....i still like her, but i dont wanna go out with her anymore shes calls me all the time but anyways yes i do talk to ym ex(es)

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

actually meeh and mai ex are rilli close he makes a better friend then a bf

[DoOdOox3]

it sucks. i havnt talk to my ex in like CENTURIES. o wellz. hez graduating soon. =]
but it really sucks. itz like.. you see him. you smile and say hi. and he would giv you this SORE face. it really sucks.
cuz whenever you c him.. you would think.. that hez mad at you for breaking up. i mean.. no one would be HAPPY about it rah? and when he sees you.. he would think like you dont wanta c him or something.. itz juss a huge confusion. and it sux. cuz i just dont bother to even talk about it with him.
o wellz..

[FinaL_dr3amS]

nope nope havnt talked to mah ex nope nope! he has asked for me at first from mah friends but i was like hecks no am i gonna go talk to you so then it will make it seem in front of ur friends "oh look she wants me " so i was like im staying away from you.....FAR AWAY. i dun talk to him its kinda sad since i like him like a TINY bit but everythin is almost gone. we could have been friends but unfortunatly hes a dumb one who only listens to his friends.i swear he would be a tite friend but a crummy bf.

[*krnxswat*]

Yeah. Actually, I still talk to all of my exes. Haha.

[gasolinekisses]

me too. in fact, i don't think that there are too many people i've dated that i'm not 100% cool with now. well, there's one, but he's a psycho and i'm not going there. the rest of them are just cool guys, and we're still friends. some are my best friends. aww i love my exes.

[illuminessence]

[DoOdOox3]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...........

[barbie]

not in civil conversation

[x0xcrzybabyx0x]

i talk to all my old old ones with out a problem but the one that i just broke up with is just "RARR" we cant have a conversation without fighting.. or without him bragging about his new girlfriend... its just not very nice lol..

[x_fatal_rose_x]

Yeah he talks to me a lot...but I sort of don't want him to and I'm confused lol.

[angel-roh]

lets see my first ex- we dont talk
my 2nd ex- never.. i hate him! never wana see him in my life.
my 3rd ex-we see each other at church and we sometimes say hi..we're friends right now..heh
my 4th ex-... huk that loser? omg.. im so sick of him
.
.

[WildGriffin]

I try to talk to my ex, not in like a close way just a "buddy buddy" kinda way; but she's too big a bitch for that.

Poop.

and whenever we do talk, she always mentions some guy she's after. I'm thinking "wtf, at least i have the decency not to try to make you jealous". Ugh. It was a stupid relationship though.

...

Life stinks.

[psychoticangel]

nope, don't talk to mai ex no more. I'd really want to talk to him and be friends but he's just too stubborn. said if he acted like we were "friends" he'd be lying to himself. so yah, he practically hates me. even when I should hate him for cheating on me o.o;; anyway, yah thats it o.o;;

[june_]

i still talk with 2 of my ex's but one of my ex's i havent talk to them since the we broke up.. i dont know what happened o_O

[islandkiss]

my bf and I talked about this before. we both agreed on staying friends after the break up. but apart of me tells me we won't.

[lnkinparkgirl384]

nope got a restraining order

he did stuff to me...if you are wondering why.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

i really don't talk to them .. sometimes they'll randomly try to walk back into my life and start conversations, etc. but i don't make anything of it nor do i take it seriously .. i believe we broke up for vital reasons and i just don't want to get into dramatic things again .. it's better if i distanced myself from them .

[phatty]

nahh we dont talk ne mores

[draznnoyou]

haha yea just online and sometimes on the phone we have long convos and its weird how come we never talked that much when we went out

[LilBrunette0313]

I'm still friends with one or two but that's about it.

[ldyDEVi0US]

i`ve only had 2 exs but i still talk to them .. my first ex .. we didn`t talk for like a few months but then we realized we didn`t want our friendship to be ruined so like we js started talking .. & my most recent ex .. he is my BEST friend .. i can talk to him about anything .. we broke up in january & we started talking two days after .. i still like him though .. but i`m slowly moving on .. so that is good

[immersion31]

i still talk to my exes n they talk to me so we still friends

[simplysweet259]

i only talk to a few of my ex's. i think the line "we should just be friends" is something to make the breakup easier. a lot of people dont stick to that line even though they say it.

[Luster Soldier]

No because she's in Singapore and I can't reach her easily.

[sadolakced acid]

i hate that 'can we still be friends line'

yes, i do, although i don't really enjoy it and would rather not that much. casual greetings is fine with me. just leave it at that.

[jkim]

I dunno, I went out with a guy and he asked to stay friends.

But it worked out. Two years later, and we're still really good friends, and we talk a lot. The whole incident came up a little while ago, and he told me he loved me like a sister, which I would've taken offense to back then I guess, but we've both moved on. It's good to know someone else can love you like that.

Sorry, I'm a mushy person.

[Huggins]

me and my ex are like close friends.... and actually the guy i like now....is his cousin! haha what about that! and so yea, we still talk.... and me and his mom are closer friends then me and him are.. so yea i see him alot (even tho he moved :( ) but yes! talk to your ex!

[silver-rain]

my bf and I talked about this before. we both agreed on staying friends after the break up. but apart of me tells me we won't.

good luck with that. my boyfriend and i broke up mutually, agreed to be friends. the next day, he's avoiding me. taking the long routes just so he doesn't have to see me...

[co0nster421]

hmmmmm.. i don't talk to my ex but once he came to my new house (i moved) and knocked on my bedroom window for 3 hours. during those same 3 hours he drove back and forth to a shopping center by my house to call my phone from a payphone over and over (can u imagine how many quarters?) cos he didn't have a cellphone at the time.. i hid under my computer desk the whole time. i had a new boyfriend at this time and he knew it too. me and him were only together for 2 months and by that time we had been broken up about 3 months.

you'd think he'd get the idea that i wasn't home or that i wouldn't let him in after the first 10 minutes. but nooooooo - it took him 3 hours to realize it wasn't no chance of me opening up that door. LMAO....

can we say.. PSYCHO??

i think he really cares about u... u shouldnt judge a person for wut they do for love

[x0143637x0]

i havent talked to one of my ex for da last couple of months after we broke up he said that we kan still be friends but he goes talking bout me but i dunno why i still have feelings for him it hurts to think bout the past ..

[soulovely]

yes indeed i do. i love the guy... i don't think i can live without him. he's my best friend. he knows too much about me. i tell him anything and everything. i feel like i can just be myself around him.

i also still talk to the ex before the ex above lol (confusing sorry). saw him a month ago... he was on vacation from the Marines.

[LoST SouL]

im tlkin 2 them rite nnoww

[huihead]

nope.. i miss him like crazy tho ;[

[SarahxJoy]

Yeah we still talk occasionally. It's kind of hard to since I moved 'n' all. But we're friends.

Psst..sometimes I miss him though..

[I_feel_beautiful]

i still talk to the non jerk ones lol

[orionpax]

me and my ex promised each other that we'll still be really good friends. it was a tough thing to do, but we pull through. we're still very close and we can still talk to each other almost anything. she's got a new bf now and still everybody's cool with each other.

[EuphoricDysphori...]

Never talk to any of them...well I take that back, only one. The others...well they're not TOO thrilled with me...

[MisSyHangy]

im bestfriends with most of my ex.. there always there for me..
its really suprise'n when they pop out the blue when your down.
but i love those boogerz.. yea i look back on the past..
i just laugh at them...

[.t3e.]

haha yea...i talk to them but i never used the "lets juss be friends" line.

[pinkkittie18]

I'm friends with only 2 ex's of mine, and I'll just talk to the other ones every once in a while.. I try not to talk to them too much, because most of them are jerks..