falling for s0me0ne else., what do i do? |
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 Nov 16 2005, 09:41 PM
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 Heykidd. <3  Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701  |
im confused about my feelings right now.
 i dont know what to do. im with this guy right nows but its like he just doesnt get how i feel. im sorta fallin for this guy but im not sure. he's like my bestfriend and i dont wanna risk our friendship. my "bestfriend" always gets how i feel and we've always been there for eachother.  i talked to him during lunch and he had a bad break up and i was there for him everytime he needed me. he told me that he was hung up on me and he still might be.  and i felt the same way.. i was just scared to tell him.what do i do?? im totally lost and confused. |
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Nov 16 2005, 09:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
if he told you he likes you, then he probably still does...you should tell him
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Nov 16 2005, 10:02 PM
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Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
thanks. but i really dont know what else to do.
i dont wanna risk that friendship |
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Nov 16 2005, 11:19 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
if you don't want to risk the friendship then dont? just remain friends if you're so scared to take risks...but if i were you...since he said he still liked you or whatever, i would be willing to take that risk...but thats just me
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Nov 17 2005, 06:15 AM
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well he does still like you, why not take the risk and see what happens. but if you're afraid of losing him as a friend, then the both of you should promise each other that what ever happens you guys will always remain friends, unless sometime really big happens
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Nov 17 2005, 04:12 PM
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i think its best, cause you cant miss what you forget Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 294,893 |
yea i agree with the others, and you definitely need to talk to him more...let him know everything and see how willing he is on risking the friendship.
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Nov 17 2005, 05:00 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Tell him you like him. If he rejects you but wants to be friends still that's awesome. But if he gets disturbed that you like him, then he's not worthy of you. It's better to take chances.
When I had a crush on my guy friend, I never told him how I felt and when he finally moved away, we lost all connection. I never got to tell him my feelings for him and I really regret that. Take chances. Regrets come with our decisions. Don't be afraid that he'll leave you like that. It's a fear that stops us from living. Who knows, he might be the one you wanted to share your whole life with forever. |
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