call me pathetic. Options

[lit0chinagirl]

EDITED:

thanks guys. time is working it's magic for me.

[ParanoidAndroid]

Don't worry, your feelings for him would fade someday. Maybe not soon but someday. Just patience my young grasshoper


did that sound like i told you you would heal in time?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I know how you feel. My ... (it hurts to say this) ex broke up with me about 2 days ago. I couldn't take the fact that we were over. I kept on feeling sorry for myself, and wished that he'd give me another chance to change his point of view. But it depends on the person. You might get over him in a few weeks...or months. My friend took 8 months to get over him, and even today she questions herself...if she really is, over him. My advice to you is...find something that makes you laugh or smile. Or find some "eyecandy" if you know what I mean. But if you're not ready to let go...you don't have to. You can give it your all, and maybe he'll see through that and give you a second chance. good luck.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Ive been through your situation . I was hopelessly infatuated [ I have come to conclude it wasnt love but infatuation ] with a boy, and basically; it didnt go to well. I taught myself these words.

Its okay hold on, but you have to let go.

[ Get it ? ]

[c4rL4]

ive been there. during the summer. the worst summer ever.
but dont dwell on it. and yess, time is everything.
time will heal everything. go out with your friends.
do something to get your mind off of things and just try to let go.
dont regret it happened, but just laugh it off.
d0nt regret s0mething that 0nce made y0u smile

[SimplicityGirl]

Been through it last year...it was slightly different for me tho. I didn't want a boyfriend in highschool...but then he asked out, and I grew to love him and thought that he meant it. But he broke up with me, and the reason was that he thought that I would say no when he asked me out and that all he wanted was to "see if he could stay with a girl"...so afterwards, I kept on blaming myself for the breakup. I kept on thinking that if I had or had not done certain things, there would be hopes that we would go back together...but in the end, and this took about 5 or 6 months, I FINALLY convinced myself that he just wasn't worth the pain.

I'm not telling you that you'll heal fast. If he was your first love, and I'm thinking he is, it takes a while. First love stays with you for always. But what you gotta do meanwhile...is just tell yourself that it's not your fault..and everytime you catch yourself thinking about him...tell yourself to snap out of it. If you think about him too much, it becomes an obsession..and obsessions are...hard to break.

Good luck ^^

[NgocQuyen]

"feelings are like pimples, takes awhile for the grease to build up and form...then they're hard to get rid of because if you pop your pimple, will you bleed, but if you rinse your face daily and work on it little by little, it goes away. then suddenly you don't feel anything for that person anymore..." -chi Z.

[topsyturvy]

^

Been there, done that, BORING. Sometimes relationships can end when the two start ignoring each other because they've lost the feeling but are both too chicken to end it. Sadly, i've had to endure months of confusion to realize what was going on.. but "you can only get so far when only one person is trying", and i'm glad you realized that

Yes, those feelings will fade. You will heal in time, even if it doesn't seem very possible right now. What can i say, it took me two and a half months just to accept it. =\