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 Nov 12 2005, 02:24 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
ok well i dated this one guy for a few week but we decided to brake up cuz we didnt wanna ruin our friendship.. i dated another guy and he dated another girl .. im breakin up with the guy i am with cuz i realized my feelins for my ex are still there .. he wants to break up with his girl but he sed hes not a heartbreaker and doesnt want to hurt her even though hes really not into her .. any help on what we should do ?? he says he loves me and i seriously do love him .. but how do we get around his girl ? oo and theres another problem .. she one of my really good friends
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Nov 12 2005, 02:32 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
He doesn't want to hurt her even though he doesn't like her? Won't that just hurt her more..in the end? Unless he plans on marrying her to avoid breaking her heart or something..
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| *mzkandi* |
Nov 12 2005, 02:33 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Nov 12 2005, 02:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,356 |
He definitely needs to tell her now before it gets out of had. And if she is one of your good friends, you need to talk to her too.
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Nov 12 2005, 02:45 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if he does not like her or doens't have feelings for her, why is he with her in the first place. if he doesn't want to be a heartbreaker then he'd better break it off with her now, rather than leading her on.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 12 2005, 03:03 PM
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He wouldn't be a heartbreaker if he did that, I mean he's not really into her what is he gonna do. Stay there and look at her for the rest of the year? Tell him to break it off with her, make sure he gives the main reason why he's breaking up. And as for the both of you...talk it over with each other. You two like each other alot but is it worth ruining the friendship?
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Nov 13 2005, 07:55 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Nov 13 2005, 3:03 AM) He wouldn't be a heartbreaker if he did that, I mean he's not really into her what is he gonna do. Stay there and look at her for the rest of the year? ^ haha If he doesn't break it off soon, he WILL be a heartbreaker when he finally gets the guts to end the relationship later on. 
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Nov 14 2005, 10:07 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Nov 12 2005, 2:32 PM) He doesn't want to hurt her even though he doesn't like her? Won't that just hurt her more..in the end? Unless he plans on marrying her to avoid breaking her heart or something.. lols ^agreed...hahah maybe he should just tell her..i seriously think it would just hurt her more in the end...he'll never live through HIS life being unhappy..sometimes you have to help yourself before you can help others... 
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Nov 22 2005, 08:58 PM
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i've given everything ... Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,912 |
u go to her and tell her that guy wants to break up?
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