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post Nov 8 2005, 11:50 AM
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How did your parents feel when you told them that you were either bi, gay, or lesbian?
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 04:44 PM
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*non-heterosexual*

and, hypothetically, my parents wouldnt care
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 04:53 PM
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I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last..
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 05:03 PM
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I'm straight too but my parents would be pissed/disappointed/questioning where they went wrong if I wasnt. Thats just the way they think.......
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 05:29 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Nov 8 2005, 5:03 PM)
I'm straight too but my parents would be pissed/disappointed/questioning where they went wrong if I wasnt. Thats just the way they think.......
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Yeah, pretty much the same here. But, I'm sure they would eventually learn to deal with it.
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 05:36 PM
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if i was they'll probably freak out
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 06:10 PM
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QUOTE(Szeh @ Nov 8 2005, 3:53 PM)
I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last..
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once again straight, but im sure my parents would think the same, but also be understanding about it. not sure. dont have to worry about it though.
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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I have two good friends(one boy & one girl) that are each homosexual. My guy friend's mom jokes around w/ him about it & she doesnt really care all that much, but I think she saw it coming. The girl's parents weren't mad either. They dont treat her different. & she went all out like cut her hair & everything
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 07:56 PM
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I'm straight, but..

My dad's best friend is gay, so my dad would be totally cool with it. My mom on the other hand might be a little surprised.
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 08:23 PM
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My mom's been nagging me not to be a "lesbian".. but I'm not a lesbian. She's just a little paranoid. That's all.
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 08:45 PM
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lols im straight as a board, but my parents...i don't really know...i bet they wouldnt understand at first and then i'd have to explain to them...my dad would probably never talk to me again...and my mom would...just cry....i think it would hurt her a lot because we always talk about the day i would get married to a great guy that would always take care of me for the rest of my life and have loads of grandchildrens and great grandchildrens(for my grandma)...lols...i think it would totally break her heart... ermm.gif
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 08:49 PM
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I'm straight, but if I told them I was bi or lesbien they'd be totally SHOCKED blink.gif so would I! crazy.gif
 
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post Nov 8 2005, 09:25 PM
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Hypathetically speaking, Id be kicked out of my house again for who knows how long. My dad would go crazy, speaking his ignorant nonsense. And my mom would mumble yeah and uh huh and try to diss me but then falter in the middle of her sentence, sounding stupid. (:
 
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post Nov 9 2005, 01:12 AM
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So much prejudice in the older generations and still alot in ours sad.gif
 
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post Nov 9 2005, 12:16 PM
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um... yeah... my parents would like, have an exorcism pinch.gif on me or something.. idk

they're always talking about how wrong homosexuality is and stuff

yeah... they are like the most critical ppl i know _dry.gif .. they always arre talking about other people and making fun of other religions and stuff

i hate the way they think and so i strive myself not to be like that
 
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post Nov 10 2005, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(Szeh @ Nov 8 2005, 3:53 PM)
I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last..
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yeah mine would do the same...my dad told me he would disown me
 
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post Nov 10 2005, 11:36 PM
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Well my sister's lesbian, and we have no idea if my mom and dad know or not. But I think they know, they just won't say anything.
 
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post Feb 4 2006, 09:32 PM
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I'm bisexual but I cant tell my parents... they're the biggest homophobes I've ever met and are MAJOR gay haters.

I might tell them some day... I used to say I'd tell them when I got a gf.... but I have one now and I still dont think I'll tell them.

idk... maybe I'll save it for when they're really pissed at me about something... just to distract them. lmao
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Nov 8 2005, 3:13 PM)
Hypothetically speaking, my parents would be shocked.

My mom would eventually understand, but I doubt my dad ever would.
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Haha my situation would be the other way around. My dad would be understanding whereas my mum would shun me and kick me out. -_- My mum is so unbelievably intolerant!
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 12:15 PM
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probabaly kick me ass if i was.
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 02:29 PM
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I'm straight, but if I told my parents my dad would probably blame it on me and my mom would be like really shocked.
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 04:40 PM
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My mom didnt care. She just hugged me. My step-dad didnt care. But my real-dad doesnt know cuz I havent talked to him for like 3 years.
 
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post Feb 5 2006, 06:03 PM
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i don't think she'd care.
i mean, if i told her i was lesbian.
but if i was bi or something, she'd be like WTFZZZZZ
'cause my mom freaks out whenever I'm with guys. It's either she's TOO paranoid, or she wants me to be lesbian. blink.gif
 
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post Feb 6 2006, 01:05 PM
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A normal person honestly won't tell their parents that he/she is homosexual/bisexual.

But IF that ever happens to me, I think they'll probably be totally mad at me and try to transform me back to straight.
 
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post Feb 6 2006, 01:59 PM
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i'm straight, but my parents would be shocked but they wouldn't mind. i don't think so anyways.
 
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post Feb 7 2006, 03:56 AM
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hypothetically speaking, first of all, they'd kill me, then they'd dig me up to try and convert me into becomming straight again.
 
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post Feb 7 2006, 01:03 PM
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My parents are major homophobes so I would probably have to go to therapy or something to find out what's wrong with me. I personally don't care about people's sexuality, it doesn't bother me.
 
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post Feb 7 2006, 01:07 PM
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I'm straight as an arrow, but my mom would most likely feel some type of fear. I think it's deep rooted in her religious beliefs. On the flip-side, if I found out my son was gay, I'd honestly react the same way I would if he were to bring home a girl. To me, love is love - regardless of sex.
 
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post Feb 7 2006, 02:00 PM
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If i told them that i was bi, they'll almost kill me. If i told them that i was a lesbian...see you in hell.
 
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