I kinda need help..., Im not much for asking for help. |
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 Ok I need help on keeping a relashon ship going like more intrsting. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for alomost a month now and im getting bored? I dont want to dump him becuse hes a nice person and I want this to work out you know what I mean?Please help. <3 Shelby |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
I know its not long but you know.
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Nov 2 2005, 08:25 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
wait what?
if you don't like him as much...dump him...better than being called a whore for dating someone and yet not liking him so you go off with another guy |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
o0o0o but see he likes me .. alot. I mean a lot. =-( it sucks.
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| *suddenly she* |
Nov 2 2005, 08:30 PM
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why don't you do something interesting? it doesn't always have to be him.
you'll have to ask someone else what to do though. should be in relationships. |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
true thanks.
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Nov 2 2005, 08:32 PM
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Go out on a date :)
Something romantic. Talk on the phone? |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:33 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Sorry this belongs in Relationships!
-MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS- |
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| *Solipsist* |
Nov 2 2005, 08:36 PM
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*SIGGGGGHHHHH*
Have sex. - Solipsist |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:37 PM
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^
 Go on dates and stuff :D That should be fun. |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Well easy...do stuff with him. kiss, hold hands, make out, go further, etc etc etc....it always spice things up
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Nov 2 2005, 09:24 PM
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well, if you havent done anything since youve gone out... then it's time for a change, right? go somewhere with him
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Nov 2 2005, 09:48 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Nov 2 2005, 8:27 PM) o0o0o but see he likes me .. alot. I mean a lot. =-( it sucks.  i know how you feel...when this internet friend obsessed over me, i simply rejected him and said no. He should really think of your feelings and not rush his one-sided feelings on you. and solipsist had a really good idea but missionary style is a good way of learning...warning: it will hurt the first try..AFTER THAT, do it the way they do on the discovery channel |
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Nov 2 2005, 09:53 PM
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^Dear god, have you even had sex woman?
And break up with him. You are only hurting him more by staying with him because "he likes you a lot". Stop being a stupid bitch and dump the boy. Let him find someone who likes him. |
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Nov 2 2005, 09:57 PM
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talk to him about it.. =]
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Nov 3 2005, 11:16 AM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Nov 2 2005, 9:53 PM) And break up with him. You are only hurting him more by staying with him because "he likes you a lot". Stop being a stupid bitch and dump the boy. Let him find someone who likes him. Well, is it an issue of her not liking him, or the relationship just being a bit stale? If it's a bit stale, then there are ways to spice it up; if it's just that she doesn't like him, then I'd go with Rachel is love's advice. |
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Nov 3 2005, 04:06 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you're getting bored than you are slowly losing interest in him, why not save him some pain and break it off with him, doesn't matter if he likes you alot, i mean you're not really into him anymore so what's the use of being in the relationship if it's all one sided
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Nov 5 2005, 04:58 PM
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you should break up with him. just because he likes u does not mean that u can stay in a realationship with him. just dont be mean about it
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Nov 5 2005, 05:43 PM
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QUOTE(Solipsist @ Nov 2 2005, 6:36 PM) *SIGGGGGHHHHH* Have sex. - Solipsist :DDDD Lol Try doing something you guys have never done before. Go on a group date and just have FUN ! :D |
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Dec 14 2005, 09:17 PM
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honey, I've been in this situation SO many times. Do you just not like hm anymore? it's okay if that's the case. Are you not having fun because of him, or because of the boring stuff the two of you are doing? Because, even if he really really likes you, but you don't like him back, you should probably tell him that you're better off as friends. Its hard, I know. I HATE hurting people's feelings. But it's better than leading him on, right? If he found out later that you've felt this way, he might be even more hurt.
So pull him aside, tell him you need to have a talk, and gently tell him that you don't like him as much as he likes you. And then maybe take a break from dating until you figure out what you're looking for in a guy, and then give it a try when anothre nice, interesting, hilarious guy comes along. Practice makes perfect! :) |
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Dec 14 2005, 09:21 PM
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tell him you want a lil action
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Dec 19 2005, 07:50 PM
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why dont you just try doing stuff with him.
i know that different ppl have different intrest. try to find yalls. |
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Dec 27 2005, 01:02 AM
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QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Nov 2 2005, 9:23 PM) I know its not long but you know. 'not long' is right! if you're getting bored with him after only a month clearly your relationship isnt worth much at all! |
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