is it weird, that a guy kisses u before he asks u out |
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 Oct 29 2005, 02:12 PM
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k there's this guy who i really like and we we're friends and stuff. just recently though i found out that he liked me too. we would always hug when we saw each other in the halls but now he kisses my too. problem is that he hasent actually asked me out. is this normal or what? any advice? thanx
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Oct 29 2005, 02:50 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, where does he kiss you? If it's on the lips, then yeah it's a bit weird. If you both like each other, why don't you talk to him and ask him out?
If it's on the cheek or on the hand, then it's not as weird. But I still say talk to him and maybe ask him out yourself. |
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Oct 29 2005, 02:52 PM
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My sister's done it before... she and her bf were into that before he asked her out.
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Oct 29 2005, 02:53 PM
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he usually kisses me on the cheek then the lips.
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Oct 29 2005, 02:56 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
well yeah its weird if he does both then o_o if your uncomfortable you should talk to him about it. and if thats not a big enough sign for you i dont know what is...
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Oct 29 2005, 03:10 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
i dont think its weird, he might just REALLY like you, and does not have the gut to ask you out, but hey, make a move!! if you really do like him.
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Oct 29 2005, 03:29 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
I dont think its weird that he kisses you but maybe he's just too shy to ask you out.
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Oct 29 2005, 03:38 PM
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 ladybugs are hot <3 Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
its not weird =) maybe he wants you to ask him out cuz hes shy
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Oct 29 2005, 04:05 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out?
Wow, that is a bit weird. Just ask him out yourself. |
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Oct 29 2005, 04:24 PM
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Nah, I don't think it's weird.
I think it's sweet. But if it's out of no where, ya, it's weird. |
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Oct 29 2005, 05:03 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
he's just shy....
 maybe he thinks you already got the point that he wants to go out with you |
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Oct 29 2005, 05:13 PM
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why don't you ask him out instead
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Oct 29 2005, 05:34 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols awwhs...it all depends on you really...hahaha...i mean...i can't really say whether or not you feel uncomfortable or not....haha i mean if it was me i'd feel mad...because heck if you're kissing on me you better ask me out! because im sure as heck not going to do it! im too lazy for that!!! lols....hahahaha next time he kisses you turn away and be like you are not putting those lips on me again until you officially ask me out..hahaha
 
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Oct 29 2005, 05:40 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I guess you could call it weird, but if it makes you uncomfortable then yes id say it was weird. A few of my ex`s were like that.
If you two both like eachother i say you just ask him out. That way, maybe you wont feel as weird if he kissed you. If oyou really dont like it just ask him to stop, that you should only kiss someone if you are together. |
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Oct 29 2005, 11:31 PM
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yea it pretty normal for guys ta act like that. sometimes you gotta be the one to make the first move
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Oct 29 2005, 11:35 PM
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QUOTE(peggysturr @ Oct 29 2005, 2:05 PM) He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out? Wow, that is a bit weird. Just ask him out yourself.  exactly what I was thinking. I'd just ask him out yourself to get it sorted out, being in the dark about this stuff isn't fun. =\ |
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Oct 29 2005, 11:36 PM
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So it's like friends with benefits. If he's too shy to ask you, I say ask him yourself.
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Oct 30 2005, 07:38 PM
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I kissed my boyfriend that I go out with now before he asked me out.
I kissed a few people that never asked me out also. I don't find it weird at all. |
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Oct 31 2005, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out? Wow, that is a bit weird. I agree. He obviously likes you if he kissed you on the lips, so if you like him, ask him out. |
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Nov 3 2005, 04:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 278,575 |
thanx for the advice guys it turns out that he's just a total perv and had no intention to ask me out. he's a real jerk now. we dont talk much anymore. ): it's too bad we were pretty good friends. its sad how some guys take advantage of girls.
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Nov 5 2005, 05:50 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Aww i'm sorry
 I'm sure you'll find the perfect guy soon
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Nov 5 2005, 02:47 PM
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you shouldnt let him kiss you because then he'll never ask you out..... on a count of he's already getting wut he wants so why cbe tied down?....=\
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Nov 5 2005, 03:34 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^Uhh, I'm sure he wants more than kissing.
And, my boyfriend and I kissed/made out before he asked me out |
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