Why Do They Act DIFFERENT!?, when i tell them.... |
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| *swtcherriipie* |
 Oct 28 2005, 10:57 AM
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when i tell people im BI... ? is this innapropriate im sorry i just want to know what goes through peoples heads
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Oct 28 2005, 12:00 PM
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 Yawn  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Well, it matters how, when, and for what reason you are telling them this. Are they asking? Or are you just kinda telling them for the hek of it? I mean there is a time and place for everything.
But if they ask and you tell them, I don't think it's innapropriate. You shouldn't have to lie about it. But like i said, there is a time and place for everything. At times it might be innapropriate, so just choose the people you tell and when wisely. I dunno if that made sense but yah  By the way, i think i'm going to move this to relationships. It would get more feedback there, thanks :) -TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS- |
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Oct 28 2005, 04:21 PM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
Hm, agree depends when and how. If you just wanna say it to someone you care about. to see what they say/think of you? I dunno, maybe it is strange for them. Not everyone is open minded. My bf for example is very close minded about that. He would prob act differently if you were a friend of his. It would just be kinda shocking to some. That's all. Prepare them b4 you tell them. Dunno, if they don't accept it they aren't really worth your time anyway, are they?
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Oct 28 2005, 04:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 200,365 |
I know people that are bi.
I don't really care that they are bi. It doesn't affect how I feel or act around someone. |
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Oct 28 2005, 05:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
They probably act different because they know you like girls, too.
They feel uncomfortable because they are used to guy liking girl, girl liking guy. Seriously, nothing wrong with that. Bi people are cool. 
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Oct 28 2005, 06:02 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Oct 28 2005, 12:00 PM) Well, it matters how, when, and for what reason you are telling them this. Are they asking? Or are you just kinda telling them for the hek of it? I mean there is a time and place for everything. But if they ask and you tell them, I don't think it's innapropriate. You shouldn't have to lie about it. But like i said, there is a time and place for everything. At times it might be innapropriate, so just choose the people you tell and when wisely. I dunno if that made sense but yah  Agreed. I have friends that are bi. One of them told us when the time was appropriate... the other two told us when the time just wasn't right and for a little while we acted kind of weird around them. Why? For one.. we thought they were just imitating the other girl... and two.. well, it was just that it was those girls.. you would kind of have to know them to get that one. I really don't know, we all thought they were doing it to be "cool" because they often do stuff like that. I'm not saying you're bi because you want to look "cool," I'm just explaining my reasoning behind acting weird around those other two girls. But, I completely agree that there is a time and place for telling people things like that. |
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Oct 28 2005, 06:07 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh guys will think its hot cuz they assume somewhere along the lines the idea of a threesome.
Girls may find it weird cuz its like..the same reason why guys hate gay guys.. its just because its out of the norm... Are u sure ur bi? alot of girls seem to think they're bi just because they are willing to make out with their best friends. me on the other hand am understanding lol...my sister says "yea...i think im bi, some girls are hot!" and im like eh its coo, if i were a girl ide like girls too ~_~ |
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Oct 28 2005, 07:31 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
my bf's really close minded about things like this, but he usually jokes and says that if i was bi he'd love a threesome
 but yeah some people aren't as understanding as others, it takes time for it to sink in. |
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Oct 28 2005, 09:10 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 29 2005, 6:07 AM) me on the other hand am understanding lol...my sister says "yea...i think im bi, some girls are hot!" and im like eh its coo, if i were a girl ide like girls too ~_~ LOL!! Good for you 
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Oct 28 2005, 09:11 PM
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 ladybugs are hot <3 Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
bi people are awesome =)
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Oct 29 2005, 11:09 AM
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ive done -everything- with a girl...
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Oct 31 2005, 12:00 AM
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 MY LIFE IS MY LIFE !!!! Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 242,521 |
 I think that there is a time and place for everything, some people are not used to that type of thing....like the above info is more than might be needed at this time and place. I hope you are not doing this just to be cool because as you get older you might have to make life style changes that might affect your future.
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Oct 31 2005, 12:09 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
People may act weird about it because:
a. They are close-minded b. The timing was inappropriate c. They think you're doing it because it's "cool" d. They're unused to the idea of members of the same sex being together, but aren't necessarily against it e. More than one of the above |
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Oct 31 2005, 04:41 PM
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wow.... People need a reality check..!
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Nov 11 2005, 12:36 AM
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 Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Meh I dont I used to think i was Bi..and 3 of my friends are. People just dont understand that even if you like girls you dont like every single girl you see. Its the same for girls that like guys..its not like they like every guy they see. And i saw that a lot when i told people i was Bi at that time. Theyd be like ..do you like me? Oh gosh it annoyed me. Anyways i think thats the major problem.
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Nov 11 2005, 02:07 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
dfsjfk you're BI?! haha just kidding
hehe...in my opinion i see nothing wrong with people being bi or anything of that nature...haha...its just how life works you know? can't help what people feel...but yehh...people at my school get on my nerves a lot because they treat gay/bi people like they're aliens and stuff...it gets on my nerves...x___x they're just weird and need to grow up and except the fact that everyone cant be the same
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