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 Oct 23 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Major Cox is here  Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,859  |
Well last night was my Homecomming dance. When i got home i watched a movie (i forget which one it was) but some how it reminded of my ex. I want to go back out with her, but i want to show to her. She has been dating one my best friends for almost a year now. I can't get her out of my head, and its driving me up a wall. I don't want to ruin anything they currently have. They are good for each other and there both happy. If y ahave any info PM me or repost for me.
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Oct 23 2005, 10:17 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
I think you should just leave things be. Don't tell her you still have feelings for her because from what you wrote, it seems you only had these feelings once reminded about her, thus they aren't really there. It was just like a spur of the moment thing. But you also said you can't get her out of your head so I'm not sure because I'm experiencing a similar situation. Anyway, if you really, really like her, you'd be happy knowing she was happy even if you aren't the one making her happy. I know that's really clique like and you probably don't want to hear that, but I think it's true.
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Oct 23 2005, 11:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Oct 23 2005, 10:17 PM) I think you should just leave things be. Don't tell her you still have feelings for her because from what you wrote, it seems you only had these feelings once reminded about her, thus they aren't really there. It was just like a spur of the moment thing. But you also said you can't get her out of your head so I'm not sure because I'm experiencing a similar situation. Anyway, if you really, really like her, you'd be happy knowing she was happy even if you aren't the one making her happy. I know that's really clique like and you probably don't want to hear that, but I think it's true.  agreed wait a while to see if those feelings are real. or just because of that movie. |
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Oct 24 2005, 06:01 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't interfere with anything first, afterall she is happy with her current bf. you should be feeling happy for the both of them, it seems like it's only AFTER the movie that you started thinking about your ex it probably will go away after awhile, i suggest you wait awhile see how you truly feel about her before saying anything to her
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Oct 24 2005, 06:32 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Agree with M1SSxCHR1SSY. Give it time
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Oct 24 2005, 08:52 AM
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Major Cox is here Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,859 |
this hasnt been the first time i thought abot her. I has happened over the past year also. I don't know why either. I am just confussed about things right now i guess.
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Oct 24 2005, 10:31 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
shes dating your best friend. dont be a jealous guy and ruin everything and besides, whatever u do might not get her back so get ova it and find another girl.
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Oct 24 2005, 01:54 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
There's this really crappy phrase that sucks, but it works.
QUOTE "If you love him/her then let him/her go." Clearly she has moved on, or is doing this 'dating-your-best-friend' thing to get to you. Give her time to realize what she wants, and for you to realize what exactly you want. Confusion can lead to rash actions, and that can lead to so many bad things.. |
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Oct 24 2005, 02:42 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Eh, take it from me...never call up your ex after watching a movie that reminds you of him. I mean of course you are going to miss them after watching that movie! (That's why I haven't watched the Wedding Planner in about 2 years! and why I avoid ALL matthew mcaughney movies)
If she is dating your best friend for about year, i advise you just stay away for now (even though it hurts!). Respect your friend and your ex. Who knows what will happen down the road if you still miss her! But for now just leave things how they are. |
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