big lips. its a problem Options

[left_alone]

I have big lips. A bit bigger than Angelina Jolie's. And I'm white.
So, people see this as an oppportunity to make fun of me. I hate my lips.
My mom says that people would pay big for my kind of lips, but people in my school don't accept it. Everytime I talk to someone, and the subject is around lips, I tend to suck them in a bit, or alter their appearence somehow. I've been teased about them since I was in 6th grade and now its an insecurity of mine.

Plus, they are so large, that when I get older, people may think I had injections and may look at me like some whore because I'm white; and white girls almost ALWAYS have thin lips.

My mother said if I wanted to 'downsize' their look I should use lip liner and lipstick; but infact I HATE lipliner and I HATE lipstick. There are just disgusting to me.

Any helpful tips?

edit// I'm not being racist. I'm saying that I've observed alot of other caucasion (sp?) girls and they either have tiny lips or just a bit full. I've observed darker people and they almost always have thick lips.

[sweetest-emotion]

geez chill out girl. fist off, angelina jolie is WHITE so shut up about that. just cuz u're white and have big lips doesn't mean that ur a whore. u're only a whore if you sleep with guys for money, and you don't do that do u???

as for the ppl at school i'm shure they're all jealous. haveing big lips is a MAJOR beauty perk. and ur mom is right, women would pay BIG BUCKS for your lips. think about it...ppl would actually kill for what you have! i'm white and i don't have small small lips, and i'm constantly looking for ways to make them bigger. angelina is known for her lips, and i can gurentee that guys will LUV those lips of urs. embrace them because not only are you stuck with them, but they will come in handy someday. don't suck in your lips, stick them out even more. wear lip gloss with pride and pucker up! i would stay away from the lip liner though, cuz liner just looks tacky without proper application. so remember: luv ur lips!

[islandkiss]

what's so wrong about having big lips? A lot of girls nowadays would kill to have your lips. and stop making it sound so bad just because you're "white". get over yourself. kthanks.

[Ravin]

Ok number one, the fact that you're white doesn't mean you're supposed to have tiny lips. Everyone says I have big lips, I don't care. Kissing someone with tiny lips is GROSS anyways. It's not like you can change it, you just have to deal with it.

[Chii]

i tried to stay away from this but i can't resist.

you're right, people don't like big ass lips. a majority of women don't ask for angelina jolie's lips when they're at the plastic surgeon, they ask for someone else...i forget who but the person has smaller, nicer lips than angelina jolie.

if you're going to complain about this, then get a reduction or whatever can be done. if you don't do anything about something, you're not allowed to sit on your ass and b*tch.

[itsARIE]

Ok number one, the fact that you're white doesn't mean you're supposed to have tiny lips. Everyone says I have big lips, I don't care. Kissing someone with tiny lips is GROSS anyways. It's not like you can change it, you just have to deal with it.

I have tiny lips... it's not gross... I like my little lips... :(

Big lips aren't gross either though...every person is unique.. just look on the positive side. People are gross, body parts are gross, they are just unique!

[_sarcastic_]

so what if you're white and you have big lips, don't listen to the people in school, they just want to annoy you and see how you react to it, ignore them they'll soon go away.
well you ARE suck with your lips unless you have surgery, just get over it. the more you think about it, the more it'll bring you down

[bby_cutie]

ok. just because you're white and you have big lips doesn't mean you're a whore. you shouldn't listen to the people in school, i mean they're probably just jealous because they can't have what you have. I mean some girls would do anything to get big lips. So, be proud of your lips. [:

[megan_x3]

^^ I assume that she didn't say having big lips is being a whore ?
Anyways, try telling them, why are you making fun of my lips? And~ many people are jealous of Angelina's lip structure.. You should be pretty happy thatt you got something similar to that. Some people would actually pay people for doing their lips like that . Just think of the bright side and don't think negative things that can bring you down .. just like how it already did.

[Joss-eh-lime]

what's so wrong about having big lips? A lot of girls nowadays would kill to have your lips. and stop making it sound so bad just because  you're "white". get over yourself. kthanks.

well i wouldnt kill.
but im sure they arent that bad. u should do the downsizing thing if it really bugs you.

[EmmalieV]

Why are you relating everything to the fact that you're white?

She just said because she thinks or noticed that most caucasians have smaller lips than other races.

[shortiiex]

here are your choices:
1-get some surgery
2-lip liner and lipstick
3-screw the bitches who makes from of you and just live your life

[misoshiru]

there's nothing wrong with having big lips.

you can either do what your mother advises it to do, or get lip reduction. OR better yet, just deal with it.

angelina jolie is white. you are white. so stop talking about the fact that caucasians all have little lips. why are you a whore if you have thick lips?

anyways, another cB-er on here, misshyyy has thick lips, but they're awesome and effing hawt.

[KissMe2408]

Here is your chance to embrace the way you look. Embrace the things you find "imperfect" and embrace the things that make you..YOU.
In my opinion i think big lips are gorgeous. What your mother said about people paying to have lips like that, it's true. But think about that, they are paying to have their "thin" lips, into "big" lips. And you would do anything to have your "big" lips, turn into "thin" lips. Learn to accept your lips! lol. I know kids have made fun of you at school, but please just ignore them. It really is true that people bully others out of their own insecurities. I've been made fun of at school since i was little because i was the only asian kid in my class. So please just ignore these kids, and be yourself. And your lips are fine the way they are :)

[mai_z]

Big lips are beautiful, gloss 'em up and flaunt them.

[Latina Babii]

I wish I could have big lips, I would kill to have them! I mean mine are okay, but every guy I know said that he likes girls with big lips, they say they like the shiny, use a little gloss and guys'll flock lol just kidding, well they might,m if it's girls that tell you that, well, they're just jelous, tell people, "If ya can't back up whatchya flap up then shut the hell up" lol it's what i use when people make fun of me foe being latina. Seriously, your white, just like the majority of the USA, feel lucky, I'm the ONLY spanish girl in my entire town besides my sister. Try taking that hobby on!

[coop_]

Errr i've got pretty big lips and i'm also white, doesn't mean i look like a whore...does it? So unless you are actually charging guys to sleep with you YOU ARE NOT A WHORE!

My advice would be to totally flaunt your lips

and just ignore the teasers at your school, they're acting like a bunch of immature kids and need to grow up.

[eunie03]

You know, Lucy Lawless (Xena) was always made fun of for being tall for her age. And look at her now.

Your day will come, big ugly lips.

[Kneuklid Romance]

..from a guy's perspective I think big lips are pretty attractive. Not only would girls like them...it's a guy magnet because they're easy to nibble on.

w00t!

^_______^.

I mean would a guy try to kiss lips that like aren't even there? Thin lips are hard to dig into and feel... so that's...yeah. -___-!

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------

[Boyfriendless]

I WISH I had big lips, my lips are too skinny, when I smile they disapear

[lilliannnn]

I'm white and I have full lips.

Accept yourself.

[toodlepops.]

You've got it, flaunt it..

Or something.

[doubleaxel1951]

I have big lips too.

everyone at school makes fun of them, you're not alone

& i'm half filipino half american

[*xcaitlinx*]

you guys obviously aren't getting what this girl's trying ot say. if her lips were just "full", i doubt she would get made fun of at school and even bother to make this topic. she obviously feels bad about her appearance and saying "too bad, accept it" isn't helping her at all...so don't even bother posting if you're not going to give useful advice. and that comment about most white girls having thin lips is clearly something that she observed...and wasn't intended to be a racist comment...so get over it.

if your lips are that big and it bothers you, there's really no way to change it at the moment. people at school are jerks and love to find ways to bring other people down just so that they feel superior. that's the way of life...everyone gets made fun of now and then. the only thing that matters is how YOU feel about yourself. the only thing can tell you is to make the best of it rather than bringing yourself down and feeling self conscious. (sp?)

[Latina Babii]

that may be true, if theres one thing you gotta see, it's people at school are going to make fun of you no matter what. And other types of people don't have big lips..........-_- Lemme tell you something my new nickname is snitch because I told on the these idiots who hit my friend, I decided to me mature and tell insteado f fight, so they said "Snitches are bitches and bitches are snitches" so you gotta know people are gonna one day realize "GOd was I really that mean and idiotic?" Once they get outta highschool and into the real world they're gonna realize what life's really like.

[ecargnmyst]

Ok number one, the fact that you're white doesn't mean you're supposed to have tiny lips. Everyone says I have big lips, I don't care. Kissing someone with tiny lips is GROSS anyways. It's not like you can change it, you just have to deal with it.

how is kissing tiny lips gross..? and well i have big lips but u know...just laugh at ur classmates when ur rich and famous and theyll be wishing for big lips b/c u set off the trend for nice big lips =]

[mistakenxidentit...]

i, myself, have big lips and i, too, got made fun of. but like your mom said, people pay big bucks for them. i let that be what diminished my insecurity about my lips. i use them to my advantage now and flaunt them. i've had many compliments about my lips and the guys seem to dig 'em, so i don't mind them anymore. you shouldn't worry about what everyone says. you are who you are and nothing can or should change that. i used to have many, many insecurities and still do, but i just learn to feel comfortable in my skin because no one else will do it for me.

i hoped this helped hun.

[yummy_delight]

Don't stereotype the races, honey. As previously mentioned, Angelina Jolie is WHITE.

You shouldn't be ashamed of your lips. Everyone has their opinions, and if they're mean, they'll say mean things to you. But you know what? People would pay so much money to have what you have. Be proud of what you have.

You know what I say? I say, WORK IT.

[MeLoNiSyUmMy]

geez chill out girl. fist off, angelina jolie is WHITE so shut up about that. just cuz u're white and have big lips doesn't mean that ur a whore. u're only a whore if you sleep with guys for money, and you don't do that do u???

as for the ppl at school i'm shure they're all jealous. haveing big lips is a MAJOR beauty perk. and ur mom is right, women would pay BIG BUCKS for your lips. think about it...ppl would actually kill for what you have! i'm white and i don't have small small lips, and i'm constantly looking for ways to make them bigger. angelina is known for her lips, and i can gurentee that guys will LUV those lips of urs. embrace them because not only are you stuck with them, but they will come in handy someday. don't suck in your lips, stick them out even more. wear lip gloss with pride and pucker up! i would stay away from the lip liner though, cuz liner just looks tacky without proper application. so remember: luv ur lips!

exactly. i couldnt have it said it better.

[seremela_culnamo]

I have big lips and I'm Asian.

[anniepiee]

Chilllll.
I think she meant by being called whore is being LABELLED a whore, cos, y'know, people do that. A LOT.
And the tiny/ thick lip kissing, everyone has their own taste. Leave it be.

I do agree with your mom and sweetest_emotion.
Thick lips are hawt. Learn to accept it, own it, and love it! It's a great advantage that a ton of people can only dream for, or with plastic sugery.


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I've just figured what an old topic this is.
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[nopattern]

how old are you? people will learn to appreciate it when you get older. i mean look at how many guys (and girls) want angelina jolie's lips. a lot of guys love full lips on a girl and what girl doesn't wish they had full lips like that? you'll learn to appreciate them when you get older.

[Animeloverhk93]

jealousy. thats what it is .. if you have lips that are big you should be proud. cause i have big lips too! lol and ppl somtimes make fun of me thats only cause they have tiny ones and want MINE. you'd probably be pretty wearing lipgloss..

and also alot of ppl would buy stuff just to make their lips look big, but you dont cause its natural beauty!

+Juliana

[mmhmichelle]

if i were you..i seriously wouldnt be complaining. my friend is vietnamese (asian) and has big lips and a big nose,not that im talking behind her back,but she tlaks about it herself. she actually enjoys it,because it makes her different. why dont you just accept it: if you dont want injections (not that im telling you to) then just be proud of yourself,and when people put you down,just diss em back..slaps work too.

[*corizzle20*]

i have a solution for u: stop sucking so much d**k and they might start shrinking.

[flc]

Who cares girl. I'm very caucasian indeed and my ass is huge. Some people like. Be proud of your big lips! I myself wish I had fatter lips.

[lilith]

i think i know what ur going thru. but guess what, big lips = sexy ;) soo it's all goood ha? and about them people talkin about it, just brush ur shoulders off... hehehe they prolly just wish they have ur lips ;)

[*My Cinderella.*]

I'd kill to have bigger lips. I think you should be proud of it, in time I'm sure you'll grow into them. Angelina Jolie's lips =

[*Intoxique*]

I think big lips are hot. I know so many people who would die for them.
So many woman get injections to get fuller lips, trust me you are lucky .
Screw those people you are pretty.

[pagoda_x]

learn to love yourself! dont let other people's judgements make you unhappy!

if it REALLY REALLY bothers you, theres always plastic surgery. but that should be the LAST choice.
be proud of your lips!