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 Oct 16 2005, 09:11 AM
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does your bf seem to like to hang out with girls?
cause mine does, everyday when i ask him how school was. the first topic he talks about is how much fun he had with his girl friends. and he lets them draw things on him one girl even drew a big i <3 u on his arm, and one even made him something with hearts on it. then later one he'll go "i just love what ____ gave me, don't you?" it just kills me. every time he webcams one of his girl pal she would give him a blown kiss and he just brings it up EVERY time. to make things worst he asked a girl to homecoming and never told me about it, until i somehow found out about it and he got all guilty and started to confess. when i ask him why he's doing this he says that it's cause he's a senior and it's his last year in highschool. which i think is all bull. before, it's been fine considering the fact that it's a long distance relationship, we've been going strong for like a year already now it seems like everything is falling apart sometimes i even think about taking a break. i dont know what to do 
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Oct 16 2005, 09:19 AM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
Is this supposed to b funny? or for real? Confused by your username...
Ok anyway if it is for real, I would definitely talk to him about what he wants. Does he really wanna date me; I mean seriously date me or casually date me? Why? And I would ask myself what does he give me? Am I happy? If I am not I would consider my options and if I am I would just leave things as they are. I would definitely ask him to change or if he wont, then I will see if I can live with that. I dont think u can live with that though. I would honestly let him go. (if he doesn't change) My rel is long distance and we don't hang out like that with members of the opposite sex. My relationship is very serious though. I dont know how casual urs is. So. Its upto u, girl. ::be strong and good luck:: Hey know, if he doesn't take ur feelings into account that says a lot about him. U try to ask urself why you want to have a boyfriend. Whjat do u look for in one? Is he giving this to you? If not, I know it hurts but you will be better off with someone new. OR even better, don't break up with him till you find someone new and in the mean time tell him you dont wanna hear of the other girls and that he is free to do his stuff but u just dont wanna know. I dunno how that works for u though. ::good luck:: |
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Oct 16 2005, 09:20 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Try talking to him and tell him it bothers you
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Oct 16 2005, 09:24 AM
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QUOTE(tequila_sky @ Oct 16 2005, 9:19 AM) Is this supposed to b funny? or for real? Confused by your username...  -.- its' just a username it's real QUOTE Try talking to him and tell him it bothers you i tried like a gazillion times, he still does it |
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Oct 16 2005, 11:59 AM
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break up with him before he does with you.
i just broke up in a long distance relationship. my gf always talked about her guy friends and how wonderful and sweet and funny and shit they are. it really upset me. eventually she developed a crush on one of her guy friends and we ended it. long distance really sucks. i'm never doing it again. unless we agree not to get too involved with the opposite sex. i say just go with your gut feeling. i was afraid to do that at first and i ended up regretting it when she broke up with me after a couple weeks of me secretly being upset about her and her guy friends. |
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Oct 16 2005, 12:58 PM
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Fact: guys in high school really, really like getting attention of any sort from girls.
Does it make it okay in this case? Well, not if it upsets you, in my opinion. Sure, he has a right to talk to other girls--maybe even hang out with them sometimes, as the case may be. I think you'd agree with that. But I think, from what you've told us, that he's going a bit overboard. It's almost like he wants to make you jealous. Talk to him about it. Tell him it upsets you and makes you uncomfortable. If he doesn't want to stop, maybe it's time to let him hang around any girl he wants. |
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Oct 16 2005, 01:17 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I think it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous. Definitely talk to him about it, tell him how much it bothers you and ask him why he's always telling you that and doing that, etc. If he doesn't stop, you should break it off.
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Oct 16 2005, 02:16 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Oct 16 2005, 11:17 AM) Yeah, I think it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous. Definitely talk to him about it, tell him how much it bothers you and ask him why he's always telling you that and doing that, etc. If he doesn't stop, you should break it off. Yup. if he doesnt respect that fact your uncomfortable with him being so comfy with other females then i think you should break it off. |
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