Cruel and Unusual, Or maybe not unusual..... Options

[Latina Babii]

Ok, this isn't something I'm used to doing......

Well, There's a guy I like, say his name is Tony, I've liked him since he came to the United States, which was when I was five, he was seven. I know this is too young, (I'm thirteen now) Anyways, a couple of years have gone by, and I just now started to hang around him and his friend (let's call him....) Jarred.

I decided I still liked him, it just wasn't something I could ignore, and I thought he liked me to.

The first time I was asked if I liked him, was at a creek, his friend Jarred asked, "Do you like Tony?" Me being the immature 13 year old couldn't I just couldn't face it if he laughed at my face and told me I was stupid and that he didn't like me, I can't face rejection. So, I said, "No."

I couldn't tell what he thought of what I'd said, I couldn't even look at him!

Fast forward to yesterday, my sister's homecoming. As usual, my sister wpuldn't invite the little sister, and I had no problem with that, my problem? Tony was going as was Jarred.

I wanted to play it cool, I didn't want to act like a love sick puppy, even though somtimes I did. They had a great time while I was forced to shop for groceries with my mom, when they called fo rus to pick them up from the pizza place, I was calm, but I wanted to cry when I saw him with laying his head on my sister's chest and poking her, totally flirting, I expected my sister to say something, anything, she knew, and I've told her, that I liked this guy, alot.

What should I do, like talk to my sister? I feel like crap right now, and I'm just sued to my sister sticking up for me, I mean, your sister shouldn't do that to you right?




And if this goes in relationships, I'm sorry, I wasn't quite sure, because I'm not in a relationship with him, but I could be mistaken, so feel free to move or whatever.

[*mzkandi*]

Moved to Relationships

[Latina Babii]

And yet again my inteligence fades away, thanks for moving.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

and I'm just sued to my sister sticking up for me

o_o whats that

Talk to her. Ask her why was he flirting with her and why she didnt do anything.

And i think you should tell him you like him. He cant wait around forever, Tell him !

[silver-rain]

o_o whats that

Talk to her. Ask her why was he flirting with her and why she didnt do anything.

And i think you should tell him you like him. He cant wait around forever, Tell him !

Used?

Well, I agree, talk to her about it. Ask her if she likes him back (how old is she btw?), and why she didn't do anything. And, if she doesn't like him, I think you should tell him that you like him.

[jennyjenny]

o_o whats that

i think it's used, just a typo.


i'm guessing you haven't talked to your sister yet? Who knows, maybe she didn't do anything with him. Tell Jarred that you like Tony and you were just nervous when he asked. Hope everything works out.

[Latina Babii]

Thanks people, and it was 'used' sorry I was in a rush, I had to go wait I don't even remeber and I'm going to talk to Tony and my sister is ffteen like Tony.

And I talked to my sister, she said she didn't mean to.

[EmmalieV]

Maybe he was flirting but she had no choice but to stick around him , maybe she felt bad?

Just tell her and ask her whats the dea , also ask the guy if he likes your sister and if he does forget about him you dont want to deal with those type of problems.

[Little Bird]

I hope for the best in your conversation with Tony. Remember, don't be afraid to be true to your heart.

[Mizz Rizza]

well honestly
i think that you should tell him how you feel
but he is 15 and ur 13
maybe it's just my opinion
but maybe you guys should wait awhile??
but it is just me
then yea you should just tell him
how you feel
wats the worst that could happen??

expressing ur feelings is sometimes better than keeping
it inside

and with your sister
you need to talk to her too
maybe she really doesnt know how you feel about him
cuz if she did
she would've backed off

[Smilessss]

i think you should go ahead and tell him how you feel...and also talk with your sister too about this situation.. and good luck *^^*

[Latina Babii]

Okay, everything has been cleared out and I give my gratitude to everyone who offered me adivce. I think I'm to young to date him, a fifteen year old, but he's dating my sister. Which doesn't make me angry in the least because I got a boyfriend named Jayce, who I've liked forever, and I wub he so much.

So, again thank yous and peoples, this topic can be closed, so a mod, or whoever, feel free to shut it down ^___________________^.