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 Oct 8 2005, 10:12 AM
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 the one lol  Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183  |
Hey Peeps! I'm in desperately in need of help! A little bit exagerating but you get it, right? I'm in 7th grade.I like this guy, and people keep saying he likes me back, but he doesn't know I like him. He's a virgo im a pisces which means 7/7 on the campatibility chart. My mom said his mom said he had a huge crush on me. My dad said he talked to his dad and him and he said that he wants to wait a while before we go out because if we go out now we will brake up. Also, he said to his parents that he doesnt think I like him because I tried to hook him up with my friend. (which was just a way to hide that I liked him) He's popular and doesnt really care about how popular someone is but he does choose what girl he goes out with by how hott they are. But im not popular. He lives 2 blocks away from me and we go to the same bus stop. Last year he always told me if he broke up or turned someone down or going out with someone ... but this year he wont tell me who he likes! The other day i felt like he was trying to impress me in basketball. Also, my friend britney said he will listen to anything i say cause hes in love with me. I don't know what to think i don't want to think he likes me and make a fool of myself, or miss out on going out with him because i was to afraid to ask. Do you think he likes me? What should i do?
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Oct 8 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Hey!
I would suggest that you just talk to him about it. Don't be afraid, just go up and talk. You guys should hang out together or in a group and go to the mall or wherever, and just kinda be friends and see how he acts around you. But i'm serious, just talk to him. I was kinda in this situation before, and if i didn't open my mouth and SAY something then we wouldv'e just been friends instead of dating for a long time :) So go ahead! Oh yes, this topic should be in relationships -TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS- |
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Oct 8 2005, 02:26 PM
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the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
hey thanx for the advice does anyone else have another opinion? but i might actually go and talk to him about it...
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 8 2005, 03:11 PM
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Why not? If you feel strongly that he's interested then give it a shot.
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Oct 8 2005, 05:25 PM
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the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
anymore suggestions
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Oct 9 2005, 12:05 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Be patient.
Just talk to him. Tell him you like him. Better yet, ask him out. Your parents know about this ? Im not allowed to date until 16 but i "played baseball" when i was in 6 grade. |
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Oct 9 2005, 02:56 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Oct 9 2005, 1:05 PM) Your parents know about this ? Im not allowed to date until 16 but i "played baseball" when i was in 6 grade.  What was your slugging average? |
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Oct 9 2005, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE He's popular and doesnt really care about how popular someone is but he does choose what girl he goes out with by how hott they are.  how can you even be considering this guy, with that comment? |
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Oct 9 2005, 05:52 PM
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the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
cause hes not really shallow... lol that made no sense but i know him pretty well.
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Oct 9 2005, 08:43 PM
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the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
also he wont talk to me on the computer but he talks to everyone else and if i say hi he'll say he has to go or u know... its just annoying that he wont talk to me online if he liked me wouldnt he be happy to talk to me?
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Oct 9 2005, 08:58 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
^^ Don't double post
If he judges people by how hot they are, it's being shallow. Aknowledging someone's hotnesses is one thing, but to choose a girlfriend entirely based on that is a different story. Anyways, you'll never know unless you ask him and/or talk to him. Get to know him better, talk more, and open up to him. If you're feeling particularly adventurous, ask him out! Just ask. It's really not that hard, and I think it would be better to get a definate answer then sitting here at the computer wondering. If he says no, it's not that big of a deal, and if he says yes....everyone's happy! |
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Oct 9 2005, 10:04 PM
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GO FOR IT! whoo. hahahah. xP
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Oct 10 2005, 08:07 AM
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the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
sorry about double posting i forgot you could edit it i am used to xanga lol and ok ill ask him out...
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Oct 10 2005, 12:10 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Just talk to him , ask him questions about who he likes.
Its cool that your parents are cool with those type of things but also akward. |
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Oct 10 2005, 03:57 PM
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Just tell him you like him, by the looks of it he sounds like he likes you. Go for it, you said it yourself that he doesn't care how popular someone is, good luck.
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Oct 10 2005, 06:09 PM
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Get it or lose it.
You have 2 choices. Love is impatient. If you guys like each other, why won’t both of you go out? Don’t be mysterious because you will lead him to a wrong thought and path. Go for it. And, good luck. If you don’t, everything will be out of hand. So, remember. Get it or lose it. He doesn’t know if you like him or not. He could be thinking that, it would be useless to love you when you don’t show any attraction or love to him. To him, love is in a separate boat. He could be afraid to get rejected and won’t ask you so... he probably might expect you to make your first move. |
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Oct 10 2005, 07:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
QUOTE Im not allowed to date until 16 but i "played baseball" when i was in 6 grade. what does playing baseball mean? and i think you should ask him out :) |
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Oct 10 2005, 08:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think just flirt with him..just give him a hint
just play around by holding hands or lighting punching...rest your head on his shoulder |
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