blk&mx grl liking a white guy!!!, this guys is jewish and i'm shy |
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 Oct 7 2005, 07:58 PM
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 appealing only because they are just that unappealing  Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673  |
before my question, i'll give you a brief background check so you don't get confused: i'm 14, go to a dominantly white school (have all my life), and i'm half and half with black and mexican...i'm really shy, but when you get to know me, i open up and i become an animal!!!!!! i'm shy around guys (unless they're buddy buddy) and i cannot talk to them...
MY QUESTION: i like a really HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT white and jewish guy. he has long shiny blonde hair, perfect smile, eyes of an angel that light up when he smiles...his name is scott...we have A LOT in common....we both like radiohead and weezer and hate biothes and he is such a sweetheart and he is SOOOOOOO funny!!!! we're like perfect for each other...i tried warming up to him by like posting comments on his myspace and smiling every once and a while, but i don't think he'll ever look past my exterior...i'm not ready to tell him that i like him, but i told one of my friends the same problem i'm telling you guys and like she SOOOO told him!!! i was all: why did you do that??? she goes: so he'll talk to you! analysis: just because he heard from a another source instead of me, he won't talk to me at all now!!! he's smiles every once and a while, but i'm not sure if it's a: secret lies beneath kinda smile or i'm diggin you too kinda smile....iono, guys!!! i need help!! |
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Oct 7 2005, 08:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
How long ago did he find out? Maybe he's just uncomfortable and doesn't know where he stand with you yet..
 Maybe you shouls start talking to him about it because if he's too scared, it may stay like that. -->topic moved to relationships<--
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Oct 7 2005, 08:07 PM
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appealing only because they are just that unappealing Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673 |
QUOTE(Nicolatofu @ Oct 7 2005, 6:03 PM) How long ago did he find out? Maybe he's just uncomfortable and doesn't know where he stand with you yet.. Maybe you shouls start talking to him about it because if he's too scared, it may stay like that. -->topic moved to relationships<--  two days ago[br] ...thx for the advice...i'm getting really sick of being in the dark about everything |
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Oct 7 2005, 08:08 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, maybe he's just not sure what to do yet...
I think you should talk to him and get it settled. If he does not like you, then just let it be and be friends with him. |
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Oct 7 2005, 10:36 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Yup.. Talk to him yourself and see how he feels about this.
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Oct 7 2005, 10:44 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Talk to him. If you like him so much you have to talk to him sometime if yu want it to go anywhere. You cant rely on your friends to help you out in relationships, i learned the hard way.
Warm up to him more on myspace, ask him about his day leave him comments [ not persistently. thats a bit weird and makes him feel suffocated by you ] then start waving at school get up to saying hi and then go into conversations abot his day or a show you discussed through myspace . Theres nothing wrong with different race relationships. Absolutely nothing and anyone who thinks other wise is close-minded and should open their eyes. |
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Oct 7 2005, 10:49 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
You won't know unless you
TALK TO HIM Bleh It's the only way to know And i get irritated when love is revealed in layers it's strange |
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Oct 7 2005, 11:45 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you should definately try to get to know him before you fall head over heels. if he can't look past your skin tone then he is not worth pining over.
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Oct 8 2005, 05:45 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe you should try to know him better. it sounds like you guys don't talk much, so it's possible that you haven't really looked past his exterior.
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Oct 8 2005, 11:31 AM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Just because you guys have many things in commmon; doesn't really mean that you guys are meant to go out. You should probally give him more times to know you better. If he doesn't, he'll just probally feel like your rushing him to be your boyfriend. Let him know that he can take his time and be your friend. Get to know him, and ask him out. Or even better, let him ask you out.
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Oct 8 2005, 01:05 PM
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appealing only because they are just that unappealing Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673 |
thx guys...so basically, you just want me to talk to him and let it all out??? i'll try...i really appreciate everything!
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Oct 8 2005, 10:12 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
just ask him, but try not to be too forceful or anything.
and i'm just curious but... why did we need your background? like school and stuff? 
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Oct 9 2005, 03:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
Like...totally?
I know, spam. But I had too. |
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Oct 9 2005, 10:22 AM
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appealing only because they are just that unappealing Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673 |
QUOTE(angel_revelation @ Oct 8 2005, 8:12 PM) just ask him, but try not to be too forceful or anything. and i'm just curious but... why did we need your background? like school and stuff? to show you guys that i'm NOT just some uneducated ugly ghetto black girl...i'm actually smart and i don't "act a fool"... |
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