im really worried about my friends drug problems, im not sure what room to put this in |
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 Oct 6 2005, 01:06 AM
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so yeah, the topic kinda says it, but yeah'
well I have too friends that like, get high, tweak, drink, and all that stuff, like everyday. and like, they can do what thehy want and stuff, but im really worried. any suggesstions? |
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Oct 6 2005, 01:18 AM
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UHM. I think this should be in relationships since you said you didn't know where to put it.
Anyway, I have a lot of friends like that too. The thing is, they're gonna keep doing what they wanna do. You should just confront them and tell them that they're worrying you. Then I think you'll just have to let them run their course. If you're religious at all, pray for them. That'll help. Otherwise I'm not sure what you can do. You could tell their parents or something but I think that would be really detrimental to your friendships with them. |
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Oct 6 2005, 02:02 AM
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Moved to Relationships
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Oct 6 2005, 10:18 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I know a LOT of people like this.
Just try to get them help, try to get them to see someone about the problem. Try talking to them yourself, and tell them how worried you are. Sometimes they stop because of your concern. Sometimes you just have to wait for them to realize what they are doing though, and let them quit by themselves. |
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Oct 6 2005, 10:20 PM
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I was a senior last year and all, i mean ALL of my friends got into that kind of stuff too... :( I don't know why they want to do it, I got high one time and it was the worse thing I've ever done. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not perfect, I've done my fair share of bad things but drugs are just not something that is a temptation to me. As too what to do, I am really not sure, I tried talking to them and they acted like they were listen but they really didn't care what I had to say because they were going to do what they wanted to... If I were you, I wouldn't do too much! Hopefully it's just a phase and it will pass but Just hope and pray that they will come to their senses!
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Oct 6 2005, 10:25 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
don`t get into it; but try showing the people new stuff to do; like an after school thing. drag them away...
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