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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
 Oct 4 2005, 11:00 PM
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I was just wondering, because I tried asking all the girls in my school and most of them said that they rather be asked "Will you be my girlfriend"
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Oct 4 2005, 11:04 PM
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i think would u go out wit me cuz wut if they don't know u that well then u don't have to be "together" yet just go out to see what each other are like.
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Oct 4 2005, 11:24 PM
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Well there's many more ways to ask than just those two. But I guess the second one.
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Oct 4 2005, 11:33 PM
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well, gosh.. if the guy wants you to be his girlfriend, he should just say it; don't beat around the bush...
plus, "will you go out with me?" .... that sounds like he just wants to "go out" for that one time, imho... :\ |
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Oct 4 2005, 11:59 PM
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definitly the second one...
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Oct 5 2005, 12:05 AM
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Will you be my girlfriend
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Oct 5 2005, 12:11 AM
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 hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
I think "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds a lot cuter, 'cause it's nice knowing that someone wants you to be their girlfriend.
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Oct 5 2005, 12:17 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
That's weird, cuz i never liked when guys said, "Will you be my girlfriend?"
I liked it if they said, "will you be my girl?" that's cuter...i don't know why i'm weird. But i like it the best when it just comes out in conversation like.... "So...there is this game saturday night...and....i was wondering if you would like to go with me?" you know, that kinda thing? |
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Oct 5 2005, 12:56 PM
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i think being my girlfriend is a step farther than will you go out with me
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Oct 5 2005, 12:57 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, my previous boyfriends never asked me to be their girlfriend... It was more like, "Do you want to go out with me?" and after that, we just starting hanging out a lot more...
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Oct 5 2005, 02:44 PM
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QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Oct 5 2005, 12:17 PM) That's weird, cuz i never liked when guys said, "Will you be my girlfriend?" I liked it if they said, "will you be my girl?" that's cuter...i don't know why i'm weird. But i like it the best when it just comes out in conversation like.... "So...there is this game saturday night...and....i was wondering if you would like to go with me?" you know, that kinda thing?  Yea..but it's kinda like he just wants to go to the game with you, not be your boyfriend. I'm liking the "will you be my girlfriend" bit. |
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Oct 5 2005, 02:48 PM
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 "Silly me, I thought this was a free country" Group: Human Posts: 1,666 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,913 |
I don't really care how they ask....
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Oct 5 2005, 03:09 PM
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I usually like being asked "You wanna go out with me?" Dont know why but I like that one better. "Will you be my girlfriend" is like...something. I just cant think but yeah. I like it better when they ask "You wanna go out with me"
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Oct 5 2005, 03:10 PM
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I don't really care, as long as they are really sweet about it. The way you ask and how you ask matters more then what you say.
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Oct 5 2005, 03:15 PM
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"Will you go out with me?" Seems more like you're asking her on a date; not really you two exclusively together and such.
"Will you be my girlfriend?" Leaves no room for confusion on what you're asking; it's clear that you'd like her to be your girlfriend. So if you would like a girl to be your girlfriend, I'd say ask "Will you be my girlfriend?" instead. If you're looking more for less attachment and labels and more for just dating, then ask, "Will you go out with me?" |
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Oct 5 2005, 04:12 PM
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I dont really care how they ask.
But, I do think that "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds cuter. |
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Oct 5 2005, 04:21 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend" is better because "Will you go out with me" is just asking someone on a date. Still, I chose "Will you go out with me" ...just because.
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Oct 5 2005, 06:28 PM
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I prefer "Will you be my girlfriend". "Will you go out with me?" is actually just one date.
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Oct 6 2005, 12:38 AM
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will you go out with me?
will u be my girlfriend seems kinda desperate. it's not bad though. going out is like testing if you guys get along well. doesnt mean u have to continuing going out. |
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Oct 6 2005, 01:08 AM
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neither
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Oct 6 2005, 12:03 PM
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i like "will u go out w/ me?" b/c the other one sounds too wordy and desperate and a bit clumsy..like...ive always imagined him being pretty nervous saying.."hey..i was wondering..." its cuter...heh..but its not a big deal..
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Oct 6 2005, 02:38 PM
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 Sup. I'm Deb =] Group: Human Posts: 650 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,227 |
"Will you be my girlfriend?" seems better/cuter than "Will you go out with me?". Whenever a guy asks me "Will you go out with me?" I respond saying "Depends. Where and what time?" cuz for some reason, that response confuses them. The boys I know are used to the typical "Will you go out with me?" and then automatically assume you're their girlfriend without really making it "official". But I dunno...that's just how I see it.
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Oct 6 2005, 07:23 PM
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"Will you go out with me?" is a tad ambiguous. It could mean both 'be my girlfriend' and 'physically go on a date'. Had an uncomfortable situation with this phrase.
I'd prefer "Will you be my girlfriend?" It's cuter and more specific. |
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Oct 6 2005, 07:26 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend" seems more specific. It's reassuring. :D
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Oct 6 2005, 07:55 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend?"
or else if they can say something more sweeter would be fine. But going straight to the point is also nice. :] |
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Oct 6 2005, 07:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I like "Will you be my girlfriend?" better cause "Will you go out with me?" seems sort of like... oh let's go on a date but that doesn't really mean we're girlfriend and boyfriend. And then if you put like "Bob<3" or something like that in your profile and you're not really boyfriend/girlfriend, it's embarassing.
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Oct 6 2005, 08:01 PM
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I like the second one better.
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Oct 6 2005, 08:15 PM
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id rather be asked out with "will you be my girlfriend?" cuz that sounds more sincere than "will you go out with me?" that's like....no
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Oct 6 2005, 09:31 PM
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depends. If you've known each other for a while than the first, if not, than the second cause I mean, going out is how you get to know the other person. You cna't just ask them to be your girlfriend right away...
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Oct 6 2005, 10:11 PM
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Well. I have no preference.
If I have the "can you be my girlfriend" one, that might be too sudden and I might not know how to react. If I have the "can you go out with me" one, then my mind would start to wander, thinking whether it's just a date or wants me to be the gf. |
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Oct 6 2005, 10:12 PM
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There are soooo many different ways but i vote for be my girlfriend.
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Oct 7 2005, 10:03 PM
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I like "Will you be my girlfriend" because it makes me feel more special than just "Will you go out with me"
 but either way if u like the guy then who cares how he asks
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Oct 7 2005, 11:38 PM
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i think i know why people like the "will you be my girlfriend" one better.
the emphasis is on girlfriend. will you be my girlfriend. so it's refering to the girl as the emphasis and it make her feel specialer. for will you go out with me, the emphasis is on the me. will you go out with me. this way sounds more self centered, more about the guy. |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:18 AM
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QUOTE(jooleeah @ Oct 6 2005, 8:26 PM) "Will you be my girlfriend" seems more specific. It's reassuring. :D agreed. my first bf asked me like 'do you want to be my girl' LOL reminded me of that jet song. even though it's are you gonna be my girl. 
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Oct 8 2005, 09:21 AM
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I like to be asked on dates! And THEN if things work out in the process of getting to know eachother, he asks me to be his girlfriend
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Oct 8 2005, 09:28 AM
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Will you go out with me. It's more mature. Will you be my girlfriend is too forward. I mean, won't you want to get to know the guy first?
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Oct 8 2005, 09:39 AM
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make it spiffy like, 'let's get intimate'. lol
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Oct 8 2005, 01:38 PM
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 coolest prep in CB Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,836 |
I prefer the romantic and specific type to ask..."Will you be my girlfriend?"
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Oct 8 2005, 01:59 PM
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I like will you be my girlfriend; because that way you know its not just a HOOK-UP...
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Oct 8 2005, 03:26 PM
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you kno what i think...
therez no point in asking others about how you gonna ask that person out.. cuz if you feel weird about it that means itz not time yet cuz when the timez here you both will know it and it wil just come out naturallly so just chillax dont wry about it |
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Oct 8 2005, 03:34 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend? <3"
I would slap a guy they said "hey wanna go out?" |
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Oct 8 2005, 11:41 PM
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It depends wouldn't it?
If you'd want to be the guy's girlfriend, then you'd want to be asked: "Will you be my girlfriend?". If you want to go on a few dates first to get to know the guy better, then you'd want to be asked: "Will you go out with me?". That's my opinion anyways..
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Oct 9 2005, 07:09 AM
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Will you be my girlfriend?
It sounds more sweet and cute ^-^ |
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Oct 9 2005, 07:41 AM
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out of those two, the 2nd one. the whole "will you be my girlfriend" is too awkward for me.
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Oct 9 2005, 07:14 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend?" = so cute.
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Oct 9 2005, 08:29 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend?" I don't like the term "go out". It seems so indirect and impersonal.
And the way a guy says "Will you be my girlfriend?" is absolutely adorable. Just makes you feel all warm inside. |
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Oct 9 2005, 09:09 PM
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"will you be my girlfriend" its cute, and it's better than "will you go out with me" because you're unsure if you're together when guys say that....yeah. okay. xP
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Oct 12 2005, 03:26 AM
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will you be my girlfriend is cuter
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Oct 15 2005, 09:45 PM
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"will you be my girlfriend" because it sounds sweet. And then if he says will you go out with me, it doesnt sound as sweet. Well to me anyways.
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Oct 15 2005, 11:20 PM
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Well you can ask both can't you? Cuz that's what my ex did...
First he asked me out and I said yes. We went out for about 3 weeks before he asked me to be his girlfriend. When you ask her if she wants to go out with you, it usually means that you're just asking her out and to hang with you, not necessarily to be your gf. However, after you guys went out for a while, you can pop the question of asking her to be your gf. ...or if you want to be direct, just ask her straight out. |
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Oct 17 2005, 12:50 AM
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will you be my girlfriend gets to the point faster.
when a guy says will u go out with me does he mean on a date? i dunno i just like the first one better. |
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Oct 19 2005, 08:12 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Oct 4 2005, 11:00 PM) I was just wondering, because I tried asking all the girls in my school and most of them said that they rather be asked "Will you be my girlfriend" A 20 year old guy's perspective on this. Sounds like either middle school or high school talk right there...very juvenile and inexperienced. I suppose we all have to start somewhere, right? ^______^. You should have put an option on the poll for "none of the above" because that's not how I've asked my dates. In fact I didn't start dating until I was 17. I never asked that question because I could simply tell by the way the girl was acting if she was into me that way or not...to use as a hook-up tool, or a serious relationship material. But if I should ask someone I would ask her "are you as serious about this as I am?" Ironically I never even asked that either because we both knew what we needed. QUOTE("") when a guy says will u go out with me does he mean on a date? over half of the time yes ^_^. I've heard that line before from others. LHHRS Kevyn @-)-------- |
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Oct 19 2005, 08:32 PM
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its good to be straight forword =)
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Oct 20 2005, 12:23 PM
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QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Oct 5 2005, 1:15 PM) "Will you go out with me?" Seems more like you're asking her on a date; not really you two exclusively together and such. "Will you be my girlfriend?" Leaves no room for confusion on what you're asking; it's clear that you'd like her to be your girlfriend. So if you would like a girl to be your girlfriend, I'd say ask "Will you be my girlfriend?" instead. If you're looking more for less attachment and labels and more for just dating, then ask, "Will you go out with me?" Yea asking "will you go out with me?" sounds more like a date. Then then asking someone to be your girlfriend...
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Oct 20 2005, 11:45 PM
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i like `Will you be my girlfriend?' better, because its more.. direct. it doesn`t keep me wondering. if some guy asked me out, it could mean he just wants to hang out, not to be my boyfriend.
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Oct 21 2005, 11:55 PM
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Be my girldfriend seems forward.
Will you go out with me is better. But you should be specific. Eg. "Oh would you like to go out with me on saturday night? [Movie name here] is playing at 7..?" 
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Oct 25 2005, 09:01 PM
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none!! lol but if one asked me i would just like it if he just kissed me instead =P
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Oct 26 2005, 12:31 AM
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I like the second one better because it's no official. I agree, it's kind of like.. testing out the relationship. Plus, it's a more subtle way than the first. The first seems a little.. Bleh. Like "will you be my girlfriend?" like it's just a title. That's how I see it. Does that make any sense? =X
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Oct 27 2005, 02:06 PM
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It depends on the situation. If we've only been dating for a while then "will you be my girlfriend?" sounds more appropiate. But if its the first time we're dating then "will you go out with me?" sounds better. I think dating should come before the girlfriend part. At least you know you're taking the relationship to a next level.
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Oct 27 2005, 02:08 PM
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Hmmm.... very inresting question.
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Oct 29 2005, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(simx @ Oct 5 2005, 2:48 PM) I don't really care how they ask.... Same with me. |
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Oct 29 2005, 11:51 PM
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aww.. "will you be my girlfriend?" is so cuutee
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Oct 30 2005, 12:17 AM
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Think they mean different thing's
Personally I think "will you go out with me" sounds cooler |
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Nov 8 2005, 11:09 PM
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My bf and I became official 2day after i finished my last exam........
I did wonder how he'd ask. It turned out to be "will you go out with me?"....... eventhough I was hoping for "will you be my girlfriend?" oh well~ ^_^ |
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Nov 8 2005, 11:34 PM
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I'd rather them say, "Will you go out with me?"
Seems less foward. But depending on the moment, the tension, and all. I migth accept the other way. |
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Nov 9 2005, 07:23 PM
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i like "will you be my girlfriend". i dont get the whole "will you go out with me".
its like...."okay dude. where we goin'?" although guys do like to beat around the bush. |
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Nov 9 2005, 09:02 PM
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"will you go out with me." as long as he has confidence then i will probably fall for that, especially if he's sweet about it.
"hey beautiful let's go out. go out with me. please?"  yeaaa i love it like that.
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Nov 9 2005, 09:05 PM
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I just liked to be asked out like will you go out with me. If someone asked me out that formally I would definitly say yes :)
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Nov 9 2005, 09:13 PM
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 Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Oh gosh on the poll i clicked the second one but i didnt think about it...i think now id rather have the first one asked to me.
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Nov 10 2005, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(sweetxsimplicity @ Oct 4 2005, 8:11 PM) I think "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds a lot cuter, 'cause it's nice knowing that someone wants you to be their girlfriend. definetly |
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Nov 22 2005, 06:31 PM
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I like "will you go out with me".
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Nov 22 2005, 06:54 PM
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people from my middle school used to say "wanna git wit me? " sounds soo dumb. ><
but will you be my girlfriend sounds soo cute! =] |
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Nov 23 2005, 05:25 PM
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I prefer "Will you be my girlfriend" because if the guy asked "will you go out with me?" I'd be all "OH. WHERE TO?!"
So yah. |
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Nov 23 2005, 05:46 PM
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well, depends, because if you're "going out", it's kind of like just seeing each other, but you're not in a serious relationship as in boyfriend/girlfriend. that kind of thing, but that's just the way i see it.
so i would have a guy ask me out, if i like him, then yeah, i'd move to the next step. (boyfriend/girlfriend) |
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Nov 23 2005, 06:02 PM
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i uhh..dont really know...lols i voted for will you go out with me...
that way i don't get all freaked out because the word "girlfriend" makes me think of "relationship" then.."commitment" hahaha...yeah i'm weird...  but to tell you the truth...i really don't like either of them... 
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Nov 24 2005, 12:35 PM
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I personally don't like the whole "Will you go out with me" approach. I find it to be very juvenile. My boyfriend asked me out by just telling me how he felt about me and we went from there. The question is often unneccesary in most sitatuions and it's better if you have a mutual understanding about your relationship and where it is going.
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Nov 24 2005, 12:45 PM
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Alternative:
Hey, little girl I wanna be your boyfriend Sweet little girl I wanna be your boyfriend Do you love me babe? What do you say? Do you love me babe? What can I say? Because I wanna be your boyfriend Yeah?! The Ramones! What? |
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Jan 24 2006, 10:47 PM
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ohhh that's a toughy...I prefer neither really...but I've never been in a relationship so I Really don't know. I think it woudl be nicer if it was kinda mutual thing becoming someones girlfriend/boyfriend..like instead of asking you kiss and then it's kinda obvious. I'm not saying you kiss instead of asking it's just you develope teh relationship and then you don't have to ask. Then once you are already in a relationship you can ask em out. Sept for me I'd HATE to be asked out, it's like my worst nightmare...I don't want my mom to know I'm dating!
 but if I said that then it woudl seem like I'm rejecting him. grrr. anyhow, good thing I don't have a bf 
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Jan 24 2006, 11:14 PM
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It's been years - but I'd have to go with "will you be my girlfriend" if I were to choose any of those. I remember the first time a guy asked me, "Will you go out with me?" I was such doofus. I asked, "where to?" And I was completely serious.
 Subsequently, I didn't date much in high school.
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| *Zatanna* |
Jan 24 2006, 11:14 PM
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It's been years - but I'd have to go with "will you be my girlfriend" if I were to choose any of those. I remember the first time a guy asked me, "Will you go out with me?" I was such doofus. I asked, "where to?" And I was completely serious.
Subsequently, I didn't date much in high school.
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Jan 29 2006, 12:04 AM
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"will you be my girlfriend" is more caring, romantic, and sweet
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Jan 29 2006, 12:11 AM
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I think "Will you be my girlfriend?" sounds so much sweeter.
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Jan 29 2006, 04:21 AM
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if a guy asked me out of the blue if I could be his girlfriend I would freak just because I like to take things slow and already from the get-go be labeled as his "girlfriend" hrrrmmm ... not for me
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Jan 30 2006, 11:43 PM
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I think i'd prefer girlfriend if he MEANT girlfriend. It just makes it so much easier and specific. That way I don't need to worry about if he meant it as a "girlfriend" type thing.
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Jan 30 2006, 11:49 PM
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i choose"will u go out wif me"?
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Jan 31 2006, 05:32 PM
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I'm sticking to the Ramones answer. It's perfect.
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Jan 31 2006, 05:37 PM
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^Not in my opinion. If someone chose that approach towards me, they'll get a nice, flat-out "no"
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Jan 31 2006, 05:47 PM
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'will you be my girlfriend'
iono. i just think that sounds much sweeter [= |
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Jan 31 2006, 07:56 PM
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"will you be my girlfriend?"
FOR SUREEEEE just because it gets straight down to the point.
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Feb 1 2006, 02:03 PM
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QUOTE(dorkk-ie @ Jan 31 2006, 8:56 PM) "will you be my girlfriend?" FOR SUREEEEE just because it gets straight down to the point. Agreed. |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:05 PM
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To people in my area, these two are pretty darn synonymous, but I personally prefer the first one.
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Feb 13 2006, 02:30 AM
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I would ask with "Will you be my girlfriend" because it gets to the point. If "Will you go out to me", for me, I think it could means go be just going out as a friend, or going on a date only ONCE.
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Feb 13 2006, 07:57 AM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 31 2006, 5:32 PM) I'm sticking to the Ramones answer. It's perfect. Sedate me.
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Feb 13 2006, 10:10 AM
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QUOTE(torngemini @ Jan 29 2006, 2:21 AM) if a guy asked me out of the blue if I could be his girlfriend I would freak just because I like to take things slow and already from the get-go be labeled as his "girlfriend" hrrrmmm ... not for me same. I really don't like being asked either but "will you go out with me" is better cause it gives me more time to decide wether I actually do want to be his girlfriend...also I think that to become ones girlfriend you shouldn't have to be asked, it should just happen when you get to know each other really well and you both like each other. EDIT oh wow, I already responded to this on exactly the same page. nice one leslie. |
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Feb 13 2006, 12:08 PM
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"will you be my girlfriend" it seems more meaningful <3
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Feb 13 2006, 12:13 PM
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i would say "Do you want to hang out on (day)"
^^ i like it smooth
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Jun 16 2006, 10:42 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
The second one. Since its said a lot around my school.
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 16 2006, 01:47 PM
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I would rather have someone ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"
although if he just wants to go out to a movie then the other would be fine. |
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Jun 17 2006, 09:29 PM
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"Will you be my girlfriend" because like.. if u ask " Will u go out with me" kinda like if u wanna go out with him for like a day. asking will u be my girlfriend is more clarify and more romantic. LOL!
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Jun 17 2006, 09:36 PM
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will you be my girlfriend. it sound more.. like you want her.. i dont know..
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