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 Oct 2 2005, 08:27 PM
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 cB Assassin  Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672  |
My father who has worked in a hotel for 10 years is about to lose his job. They are selling the hotel, and I'm afraid our family will lose a lot, I don't know what to do, I have a newborn baby brother, and I don't really want him getting a hard life. I mean I already have a well paying job so I can support myself, although I'm more worried about my family. This is really stressing me out I just found out today. I've already lived a hard life so I know how it is, but I take out one problem in life, just to find out there's more waiting for me...
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Oct 2 2005, 08:40 PM
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Awww. Eddiedear, don't worry!
 Maybe your father will find an even better job soon! Things will work out the way they're supposed to =] Just help your family out for the time being, kay? Talk to me whenever you'd like to :D I'm here for you. <3
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Oct 2 2005, 08:41 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
Eddie I'm really sorry to hear that--I hope things will work out for you
 If you want to talk--we've always got halo!<3
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Oct 2 2005, 08:43 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
Gosh, Eddie. I'm so sorry. I'll pray for you and your family. I hope your dad will get a bigger better job soon.
  
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Oct 2 2005, 08:43 PM
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Aww. I know things will turn out for the better. You may or may not share the same faith as I do, but it's in God's will, and He will always be ther for you and your family. I'm praying for your family!
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Oct 2 2005, 08:43 PM
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here's a thought...though im not sure it'll help u
your dad can apply for a job in advance so when the hotel gets sold ur dad will still have a job |
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Oct 2 2005, 08:43 PM
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wow, thats no good. im sure he'll be able to find another job, but maybe you can just help them out until then. it'd be a nice thing to do.
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Oct 2 2005, 08:45 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
gosh, well there is not much you can do. just try to help out your family as much as you can, financially and help take care of stuff for them a little. like your baby brother =/
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Oct 2 2005, 08:59 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
if that hotel is part of a chain like howard johnson he can easily get another job with another one of their hotels or any other hotel. with 10 years of experience, he's like over qualified.
your family must have some kind of money saved up. don't worry too much about it
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Oct 2 2005, 09:05 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
Wow, 10 years? Thats a long time. Anyways, I'm sorry, Eddie but he can find a better one soon where he can make more money. You and other family members can help support too. Aww..it's ok
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Oct 2 2005, 10:59 PM
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There are surprises in life, good or bad, depending on your point of view.
I hope your dad finds a better and a more reliable&dependable job, so that he could support your family. Feel better, Edster.
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Oct 2 2005, 11:10 PM
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Well, make sure your dad stay in touch with his boss so his boss would hook him up w/ a new job in his company. I'm sure that the boss would want him because your dad has been working for 10 years.
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Oct 3 2005, 06:22 AM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Oct 2 2005, 11:10 PM) Well, make sure your dad stay in touch with his boss so his boss would hook him up w/ a new job in his company. I'm sure that the boss would want him because your dad has been working for 10 years.  Lol the owner lives in France, and general manager would also be jobless. No one knows who the owner is. |
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Oct 3 2005, 08:28 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
that's awful
yeah, as lilvietdreamer said, maybe he could apply for a job in advance? but i'm sure if the hotel really does close down, he'll find one soon. best of luck to you and your family. |
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Oct 3 2005, 09:19 AM
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^agreed.
Sorry Eddie that it happened. It should be fairly easy for him to get another job at another hotel with a long backgroumd at working at a hotel. |
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Oct 3 2005, 01:34 PM
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 Shove it Group: Member Posts: 496 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,641 |
I'm really sorry to hear about that, Eddie =[
I hope that your father is able to get another job lined up for him soon so he won't be out of a job for too long. If you guys are able to do it, he could start up his own hotel with all the experience that he has! That may be a little unrealistic, though. Just a thought. |
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Oct 3 2005, 02:55 PM
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It's ok Eddie. It's not like he got fired, he still has a good record so that when he goes to any interviews or anything he has all good references. And maybe this will lead to an even better job! Well, no matter what, best of luck.
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Oct 3 2005, 08:37 PM
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with ten years of experience, i'm sure he can get another job. one that's better and pays more! dont worry about it, it'll turn for the better.
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Oct 3 2005, 08:40 PM
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thats so sad, i really hope your family gets through this.
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Oct 4 2005, 02:07 PM
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maybe your father will end up working a 5 star hotel ot start up your own hotel
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Oct 4 2005, 05:07 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Oct 4 2005, 2:07 PM) maybe your father will end up working a 5 star hotel ot start up your own hotel My father is Master Engineer in a 5-Star Hotel... |
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Oct 4 2005, 05:13 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
Omg, Eddie! Aww, I really hope it works out for you guys. I'm sure it will, though. You know how to contact me if you need me!
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Oct 4 2005, 05:32 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Turn over in management or ownership doesn't usually result in turn over in staffing. If the owner hasn't been in the hotel business yet, or even if he/she has been, he/she would need the expertise of current staff, that's your Dad, to ease the transition of new management. Well, that is the case most of the time.
If he does get laid off from the company, with his experience, it should be easy to find another position elsewhere. |
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Oct 4 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Lil JC Group: Member Posts: 868 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,741 |
dont wanna sound mean but its kinda ironic that your sn is xnofearx and the title of the topic is i'm really scared
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Oct 4 2005, 10:28 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
awww; hope everything works out; but praying will get you somewhere; it did when my dad quit his job because of racial problems. take care!!!
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Oct 4 2005, 10:50 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(lbjshaq2345 @ Oct 4 2005, 5:34 PM) dont wanna sound mean but its kinda ironic that your sn is xnofearx and the title of the topic is i'm really scared I fear no one, and I will do things to the extreme, although I fear of my dad losing his job... |
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Oct 5 2005, 06:34 AM
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 xXxXxbErRyZxXxXx Group: Member Posts: 190 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 235,812 |
dont worry! Things will better soon! Your family will have a good life after! *smile*
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Oct 5 2005, 12:29 PM
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 duckieee<3 Group: Member Posts: 527 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,962 |
wow, i've always wanted to own a hotel :P
don't worry, your dad will find a much better job. |
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Oct 6 2005, 10:03 AM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Thanks guys and gals for all the support, my dad really did find a new job, and they pay higher too!
So I'll be happy! |
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Oct 9 2005, 07:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
*gasp* Everyone says you are fearless......and now this??!!??
edit// Oh ur dad found a job now...my mistake |
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Oct 10 2005, 12:01 PM
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that sucks.. im sure you'll come up with something and it'll turn out good
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Oct 10 2005, 12:12 PM
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Eddie, with your father's experience he should be getting job offers in no time! Don't worry dear. Things will work out the way they are supposed to.
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