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 Oct 2 2005, 10:29 AM
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 Like i care. ♥  Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706  |
Ok so here's the deal;
My friend, lets call her S. is really annoying me lately. because, another friend of mine, M. does a lot of stuff with her. I always was the best friend of S. but now it seems M. is.. for example, i called S. today, if she wanted to hang out.. she said she couldnt get out all day because of her brothers birthday. I just looked out of the window, and there i saw S. and M. cycling together  These kind of stuff happen alot.. they know i want to hang out, but they just dont include me. ive said something about it before and then its ok for a couple of days, but then it just starts again... we never fight or something, and they dont not-like me, but they just keep excluding me... i dont know what to do, should i say something?thanks in advance 
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Oct 2 2005, 10:43 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell them again that you feel left out. or start finding friends that will treat you better.
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Oct 2 2005, 10:46 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
If you have tried talking to them and they still dont stop, they arent very good friends. This happened to me a LOT before, and i used to get really sad and loney. But after a while i realized i just had to go make new friends and have fun.
The best thing to do is go out and have some fun with other friends. If they see your not really affected ( even if you are ) by them neglecting you they most likely will want in on some of the fun youre having and invite you to do things with them a lot more. |
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Oct 2 2005, 01:03 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
tell them how you feel. tell them you dont like them lying to you. and you feel left out. if they dont care and continue on their actions. they dont deserve to be your friend.
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Oct 2 2005, 01:08 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Oct 2 2005, 10:43 AM) tell them again that you feel left out. or start finding friends that will treat you better.  Exactly. If you've talked to them about it and it only helped for a few days, hang out with other friends more, and make some new friends. It's always fun to make new friends. =) |
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Oct 2 2005, 04:37 PM
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you never know, maybe S & M (LOL MAJOR PUN) are in some kinda funky relationship--considering the fact that they could be lesbians--if they're both girls. or what other combination. and they don't want you interrupting
 ORR S has just developed a more liking to M than yourself. and it's only natural that he/she/it would drift away like that and have less of an interest in you. but you shouldn't make it that big of a deal. i mean--you have other friends, right? cuz then you can go hang with them. if not... err.. you could always rent a movie 
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Oct 3 2005, 08:36 AM
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Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Thanks all :P lol anubis xD yes i have other friends, a lot :P but i just know S. the best xD ill talk to them
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Oct 4 2005, 10:26 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe you should try and get closer to your other friends.
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