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 Apr 11 2005, 09:39 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters  Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284  |
Have you ever had a misunderstanding/fight/argument with your parents that lasted for more than a day? If so...how did you resolve it with them?
Cuz..my Mom got pissed off at me for something really stupid...and I don't know what to do...she's pretending that I dont' exist.. 
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Apr 11 2005, 09:40 PM
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haoppened to me b4. it wears off don't worry =)
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Apr 11 2005, 09:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
She'll eventually forgive you...
 And yes it does sometimes happen...my mom forgives me within hours though... 
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Apr 11 2005, 10:21 PM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
omg i hate that!!! my parents do it almost everyday!! its like we have the HUGE argument and the next day its like it never happened... and yes when they forget about it thats their way fo saying they forgive u, or they just want to move on. I think.. im in the same thing as u... somewhat... my parents argue all the time everyday and argue with me and my older sister ugg gets annoying... im sure u know
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Apr 11 2005, 11:18 PM
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Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Um..it's been two days and shes' STILL ignoring me. x.x
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Apr 11 2005, 11:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
God I get in fights with my dad almost every other day
and there's no mediator we live together alone my mom used to always resolve it but, unfortunately she's not around (rip) and my brother can't live with us cuz my dad does not like him, he kicked him out man life sucks but for some reason my dad just seems to let shit go and leave me alone I feel bad for argueing sometimes cuz he's like 70 and he sometimes uses that against me saying he's gonna have a heart attack cuz of me and since I'm the only one who can take care of him, I can't move out when I'm 18 and I'm going to married already damn..... |
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Apr 12 2005, 12:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Suck up your pride and say that you are sorry aboutt he whole arguement.
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Apr 12 2005, 01:10 AM
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hasn't there been a topic like this? *shrug*
 anyways...all the time. we tend to disagree most of the time. |
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Apr 12 2005, 05:43 AM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Not really like that. We argue and she just seems to moan at me and try to make another argument with me for the next few hours but I just ignore her
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Apr 12 2005, 06:56 AM
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We fight a lot. but i still love her and she still loves me. and the silent treatement lasts only for like ... a day.
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Apr 12 2005, 08:15 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
My mum is like that but what she does, we will have a small argument then i will try to defend myself by saying its not my fault blah blah but then she says i'm starting another argument. She usually acts normal after a hour though, she will ask for a hug and i have to give in lol.
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Apr 12 2005, 05:00 PM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
All the time. A lot more lately, like, in the last month over the tiniest things.
The biggest blowout was when my mom found a picture of me on my computer and she flipped out because she thinks everyone's a pedophile. I don't know how to spell it, excuse me. It happened about a month and she's still really spy-ish whenever I get online. It gets really old. I hate it because they don't trust me at all. And it wasn't even a bad picture or anything, nothing slutty or anything of that sort, but still. And over my friends. Jeebus. I hate it. |
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Apr 12 2005, 06:57 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
All the time. Especially with my mom- we fight like everyday. She doesn't really trust me at all and sometimes, the next day, she'll pretend nothing happened. But when we fight again, she always brings in what we fought over last time into the argument, and it blows up even more...
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Apr 12 2005, 07:40 PM
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my brother and my dad havent talked in over a year. my brother's a senior. neither one will apologize.
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Apr 12 2005, 08:04 PM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
my arguments don't last for a day, only for a few hours and then we act like nothing happened.
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Apr 12 2005, 08:16 PM
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 One of the few Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,074 |
When I have arguements with my parents..you just gotta give them what they want sometimes I know this sounds stupid but they looking out for you and I know as teenagers some of us tend to get rebellious..suck it up because there rules will not apply to you forever.
If arguments last for more then one day don't worry its not like a sign or anything that they truly hate you. You just gotta wait it down because they truly love you but there humans too they get stressed out over things and sometimes even over react..just wait it won't be long till your talking again |
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Apr 12 2005, 08:25 PM
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arguements are expected with parents but they soon blow over
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Apr 12 2005, 08:41 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Yes. It happened to me before.
But I just talked it out with my dad and I moved on. |
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Apr 12 2005, 08:51 PM
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stepdad- we never tallk anymore because we fight to damn much
mom-alright dad- i hardly talk to him. i do need to stepmom-same with dad |
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Apr 12 2005, 11:16 PM
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uhhh yahh lol ... i had one w/ my dad that lasted a week -- we didnt talk , say hit [[etc]] to each other for one week... w/ my mom, its a whole diff story... i be causing world war 3
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Apr 12 2005, 11:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,231 |
Yeah, its not too frequent. My parents usually apologize at the end of the day or it just wears off.
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Apr 12 2005, 11:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
this happens...
everytime i just try talking to her... or give something to her and make her response to my act... wakkaka hope i can help you~ |
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Apr 13 2005, 02:29 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
that happens to me a lot..i usually ignore them back untill they talk to me...that isnt a good idea..i took my mom about a week to talk to me...
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Sep 16 2005, 09:37 AM
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 Trying to Reason Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 233,542 |
Hey Guys!
I would love to find out if it's just me, whos having a hard time with my parents. Don't get me wrong I love them, but we fight a ton! 
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Sep 16 2005, 02:44 PM
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Topic Merged
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Sep 16 2005, 02:52 PM
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I get along really well with my parents (although it helps that I don't live with them anymore, I guess). They're great people. I'm not really "close" to them, though, and I wish we were a lot closer.
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Sep 16 2005, 05:05 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Oh I hate them. Maybe not really hate, but at the moment I don't like them. They pressure me too much and stuff. But I'm sure that once I get into college, they'll loosen up and our relationship will be better. But at the moment, I don't really like my parents.
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Sep 16 2005, 05:27 PM
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 A laugh spreads, so do some spreading! Group: Member Posts: 529 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,319 |
I'm not really close to them but they are great people. They really try to be good parents. (especially my dad)
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Sep 16 2005, 05:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
My relationship w/ them are .. BOO ! KILL THEMM !
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Sep 16 2005, 07:26 PM
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Hell no.
But sometimes... The moments are rare. 
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Sep 16 2005, 07:44 PM
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Kinda sorta. Blegh.
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Sep 17 2005, 12:07 AM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
I get along more with my mom than my dad.
But the relationship with both is ok, but sometimes they piss me off. |
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Sep 17 2005, 01:08 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
my mother and i have our moments...but the love is always there.
she's overportective of me and that gets out of hand sometimes but she's just trying to keep me safe and focused on school. |
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Sep 17 2005, 03:27 AM
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We get along fine. Overall, they're great people, yeah.
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Sep 17 2005, 10:06 AM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
I LOVE MY PARENTS; but when it comes to me going out with the girls they get so messed up about it; especially if a guy friend wants to tag along!! Man. It sucks though; but they are the funniest people i know. [besides dave chappell]!!
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Sep 18 2005, 04:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i love my mommy..she's like a best friend
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Sep 18 2005, 07:19 PM
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Love them.
They can be so asian at times though..if you get what I mean. If you don't, then forget it. |
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Sep 18 2005, 07:20 PM
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I do, but lately I have been feeling...disconnected..It's makes me sad.
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Sep 18 2005, 07:21 PM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
i love my parents tho both of us can get on the wrong foot.
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Sep 18 2005, 08:20 PM
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Trying to Reason Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 233,542 |
We aren't 'Best Friends' but they try hard. I know they really love me and are just trying to help me out mostly. But then again I really make them POed and they make me POed too. At least I know they really care.
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Sep 19 2005, 08:11 PM
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i odnt think so. ...
my dad ..barely talk to him ..he works alot.. my mom ....omg can't even EXPLAIN ...i have no DOOR because of her. ..lets just say that haha ;] |
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Sep 19 2005, 08:17 PM
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what if I get along with my mom and wanted to select "hell no!" for my dad?? lol
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Sep 20 2005, 09:31 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Sep 17 2005, 1:08 AM) my mother and i have our moments...but the love is always there. she's overportective of me and that gets out of hand sometimes but she's just trying to keep me safe and focused on school.  same here..except with my dad. my mom's the one that keeps him in check and convinces him to let me do things and let me be independant and basically GROW UP. |
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Sep 21 2005, 05:12 PM
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i love them, but they still tend to make me reallllyy mad beyond reason sometime. we don't have such a nice relationship. eh, i can't ever really 'talk' about anything with them because i know they won't get it and they'll just get all crazy about it and crap. and if i ever happen to have boy problems, its not like i can tell my mom about it because im not even supposed to be thinking about boys until im in college and if she finds out i have a boyfriend or something she'll just like, kill me. or somehting. -.-
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Sep 21 2005, 05:44 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
To me, it's sometimes. Like how I get pissed of at them and yell back and feel like I wanna get out of here and othertimes, we're just ok.
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Sep 24 2005, 01:27 PM
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ERm, my parents and I get along okay. I get along better with my mom better than my dad. Sometimes I get really pissed at them though. They'll ask the dumbest questions or do such stupid things.. i hate telling them things. -_-'
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Sep 27 2005, 09:13 AM
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yeah we get along most of the time
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Sep 27 2005, 09:53 AM
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More often than not.
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Sep 27 2005, 10:32 AM
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That one's different, though. And I know there's one like this, but I still can't find it...
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Sep 27 2005, 10:41 AM
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kay then
topics merged |
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Sep 27 2005, 02:48 PM
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i always pretend to be nice to my mom but gawd, she annoys the f*ck out of me!! she's always bringing up things from the past and using them against me. even the tiniest thing like "you didn't take pictures" or "you were going to spend 20cents for prints in wallgreens??!" ughh.. she just pisses the hell out of me.. plus, she takes away my hard-earned money... oh and did i mention abusive? >< it's horrible... i won't even get into the details.. it just pisses me off even more...
you folks who have cool parents are lucky.. that's better than winning the lottery... |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:50 PM
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I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
-Close if you want but I searched and I dont think there's a topic like this-
I'm not sure if this goes here but ever had any problems with your parents or anything you hate about them? I do...well, sometimes but most of the time. I dont get along with her much but I hate how she's always calling whenever I try to do something real quick. She's all like "Donna, come get your food" and then I said "Hold on." and then 2 minutes later, she called me again. Man, it's not like I'm gonna get my food an hour later. I'll get it sooner or later. Another thing is when she dont even let me go no where. Even outside. I ask her if I can go outside and she's all like "Stay home" so then I just dont listen to her and I walk out the door. So ever had any problems with your parents? |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:52 PM
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relationships maybe?
i dont usually fight with my parents, but if i do, we get over it fast. its not like it continues for days. |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:52 PM
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There's a thread about this here: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=102393
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Sep 30 2005, 03:54 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
It just shows your mom is overprotective ^_^... lol... a mom can;t help but be precautious.. when I had to take care of my niece (who is 4) I kept on calling on her and being all overprotective... so i understand how your mom feels
If you want your mom to stop, just proove to her that you can be trusted... maybe you already are but try to make sure she notices it. |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:56 PM
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Me and my mom use to go at it all the time when I was in high school. I was pretty rebellious. Pretty much everything that she would say that I didnt want to hear went through one ear and out the other. Now that I'm older, I understand why Mom was hard on me. Tough love, she calls it and I appreciate it now.
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Sep 30 2005, 03:56 PM
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I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
 Dang...I guess I missed that one. Sorry bout that.I feel stupid now cuz I replied in that topic too. Well, I guess this topic can be about what problems you had with your parents. I think I see a difference between this topic and that one. |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:58 PM
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Topic Merged and moved to Relationships
QUOTE(OhXiet_ItzDonnA @ Sep 30 2005, 4:56 PM) Dang...I guess I missed that one. Sorry bout that.I feel stupid now cuz I replied in that topic too. Well, I guess this topic can be about what problems you had with your parents. I think I see a difference between this topic and that one. Its all good, it happens to the best of us 
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