a story, which one is first love? |
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 Sep 26 2005, 02:00 PM
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 Hi, My Name is Evan  Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786  |
I've been thinking about it a lot lately and debating with myself which one of these girls is my first/true love...
A girl name Tracy that you know for a while. You guys don't really talk to each other but online you guys talk. You guys decided to go out but really you do not. You guys say you guys are in love but really don't know what the meaning of love really is..finally, broke up... Then a girl name Ly that you met during a summer. You feel really happy around her and when she's not by your side, you feel really depressed and sad.. You talk on the phone a lot with her and see her during the weekends of the summer only because you have to work during the weekdays. She was the first one to give me the first french kiss. But a couple months later she told u that she loves someone else beside you... then you guys broke up, You feel really depressed & sad for months.. after a few months later, then that girl name Tracy went back together with you. She said that she loves you but she can't really see you because of her parents, they are pretty strick. You guys talked on the phone & online more and also had your first sex, but then you miss her but she's not by your side because of her parents. You decided to break up with Tracy.. You miss her, but try really hard to control your feelings.. a few months later when she came back from a summer vacation...you saw her and talk to her. You gave her a huge. but then she said...sorry this isn't right...I have a boyfriend now..sorry... But deep down inside you really miss her. Now which one of these two girls do u think is my first love? I am so confused... |
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Sep 26 2005, 05:20 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Honestly, in my opinion there is no such thing as first love or second love. You're in love or you aren't and the person you're in love with is the one you're meant to be with forever. So based on that, I'd have to say that neither are your first loves or anything. Sure you could have loved them but there's a difference in being IN love and loving someone, y'know? Also I think that if it was true love you would still be with one of them.
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Sep 26 2005, 07:20 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
for some reason, i don't feel like any of these are counted as your first love.
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Sep 26 2005, 07:45 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Eh, you're not supposed to ask us who your first love is. You would know right away when you had a first love. It's something you can feel and something we can't really tell you. Perhaps, like _sarcastic_ said, neither of them is your first love.
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Sep 26 2005, 08:34 PM
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Hi, My Name is Evan Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786 |
I know that I should know, but they both have different love.. one is a first girl that I kissed and share a lot of things with......the other we had first sex with....(not playing around sex.....this kind of sex is called love sex) I often asked myself which one of these girls is my first love. It is very important to me, because like i said before.....I do stuffs for a meaning... First love is very meaningful to me. If you guys could convinced me which one is my first...I would be very thankful
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Sep 26 2005, 08:40 PM
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hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
If it was really love you would KNOW which was your first love or if you loved them or whatever. You would NEVER question it or have a doubt in your mind. That's why we say NONE of them are your first love.
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Sep 26 2005, 11:02 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well, if you must have an answer, I think Ly "fits" more into the first love category, but in my opinion, neither Tracy nor Ly is your "real" true love. You don't question it. You just know it.
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Sep 27 2005, 06:54 PM
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gee, i don't know. who am i to tell you which one was your first love? no offense but if any of them was your first love, you wouldn't have to ask us but it's alright i suppose that you're confused. it seems like you've been through a lot. you just know by the way that they made you feel. how you guys spent your time together and what not. which one was more magical?
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Sep 30 2005, 11:15 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Why don't you know who your first love is?
Well. I wouldn't say Ly is your first love, but if i were to compare her with Tracy, then she's definately more likely to be. First of all, Tracy got another bf after breaking up with you. Second of all, i have a funny feeling her parents are just an excuse. |
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Sep 30 2005, 03:12 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Sep 26 2005, 5:20 PM) Honestly, in my opinion there is no such thing as first love or second love. You're in love or you aren't and the person you're in love with is the one you're meant to be with forever. So based on that, I'd have to say that neither are your first loves or anything. Sure you could have loved them but there's a difference in being IN love and loving someone, y'know? Also I think that if it was true love you would still be with one of them.  Wise words Miss Chrissy... wise words. |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,813 |
hehehehe wow, fist love is so complicated
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