how many of you never, had a boyfriend/girlfriend Options

[Anonymous82]

(how do you create a poll???) I was just wondering how many of you never had a boyfriend or girlfriend before.. I'm 19 and I never had girlfriend before and I don't think I'll be able to find one until I'm 22 or something =[

[Chii]

i retract my original post you horrible, lying ass

[demolished]

i never have one and i'm not getting one.

[silver-rain]

I'm sure you'll find one. Don't worry about it. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16ish.

[AngryBaby]

wow, 19? you'll get one...if you try

[*mipadi*]

Don't feel bad, man, at your age, it's probably best not to be tied down. I've dated some girls from time to time, but I've never really seen anyone seriously enough to consider one a "girlfriend". Mostly I guess that's because I was shy when I was in middle school, and in high school (and now) I didn't have the time or the inclination. I really prefer my independence, and now I find that my life is stressful enough without one other person or a relationship to worry about.

They key is to just not stress about it. Stress makes you worry, and worrying makes you overthink the situation, or try to create something that's not there. As cliche as it is, if you find a girl you like, just talk to her, but most importantly, be yourself. If things don't seem comfortable, walk away, meet someone else. Most importantly, remember that you won't find anyone if you're mopy or whiny or bitter about the situation. (Not saying you are, but just warning about becoming that way.) You'll only find someone if you're satisfied with yourself and your own life. Another key: know who you are. You can't expect people to get to know you if you don't even know yourself.

[angelrevelation]

i'm 14... never had one. i've never even been asked out (one time was a misunderstanding)

[maypig]

im 18 and i never had a bf. but i think he'll come when the time is right.

[*anubis*]

think about it.

wouldn't you rather have not been involved in a relationship in the first place than to have your heart broken at the end of one?

[teeners4]

well right now my current boyfriend is my first boyfriend =) almost two months!! haha so yea two months ago. i would have NEVER had a bf =\
but then it comes to those who waits. and like yea....

[topsyturvy]

^ Congrats! I'm in my first relationship too.. it's been four months

wouldn't you rather have not been involved in a relationship in the first place than to have your heart broken at the end of one?

YES. Well said.

[Anonymous82]

think about it.

wouldn't you rather have not been involved in a relationship in the first place than to have your heart broken at the end of one?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
welllllll... if its worth it, yes lol ^___^

[jennyjenny]

ME. But I'm 14. I'm probably not gonna get one till I'm like 20, either.

[BrokenDream]

Don't feel bad. I haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm like 13.

[SimplicityGirl]

Why are you stressing over the fact that you don't have a girlfriend? Enjoy being single! Being involved in a relationship isn't all that it's made out to be...relations are complicated, and you can get hurt in the process. Being single doesn't bind you to anything, and you're pretty much free to do whatever you please. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend can be a distraction and it is very time consuming.

To answer your question, yes, I've had a boyfriend before, but that was probably about the dumbest thing I've done, and up to this day, I'd rather not have gone through the whole experience then to have gone through it. That was when I was 16, and I never really considered that to be a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship anyway. My grades dropped because of that, and after we broke up, I was down for a fairly long time...and I'd rather not know what having a boyfriend was like if I was going to have my heart ripped to shreds.

The right girl will come for you eventually, and meanwhile, just be yourself, and wait. You can also increase your chances by hanging out with girls more often and talking to them. But remember, if you rush it, it will not work out, and I know because that was what happened to me and my ex.

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

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*sighs* I'm 13, and I was asked out [at age 11.. kinda young]. I said no. I told him that my parents didn't want me dating that young. Which they really didn't.. i am still not dating.. but i find that its going to be hard to tell my parents about my first date. They are so over portective. -_-'

[Ington]

ELIAR ALERT

In the longest relationship thread:
[quote=samsam5886,Sep 22 2005, 11:23 PM]3 years cried for 1 week

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You are a liar. And you lied twice so far. I'm looking for more.

Not to mention how you said that the same day as this and your pitiful 'help me cb' topic.

edit.


I care about my cB friends a lot. That leads me to being extremely suspicious of this samsam character. I feel this person is probably lying, and is a eLiar internet user. Reasons for suspicion:

Posts: Many of his posts revolve around not having a girlfriend and/or not having sex. I've copied the ones that are directly linked to that. There are even more that send the message more subliminally. I feel this is to get people to pity him and get close to him. Also, if you see, some of the posts tell how he's been going out for 3 years, and when it ended, he cried for a week. Obvious lies, on the same days that he posted that he never had a girlfriend.

Profile picture: Its a heart. I find this suspicious for the same reason as the posts, I think its a lie to get girls to get close to him.

I feel he is out to lie to us. I may definitely be wrong, but its important I share my suspicion with you all.

[quote=samsam5886,Sep 22 2005, 11:33 PM]
(how do you create a poll???) I was just wondering how many of you never had a boyfriend or girlfriend before.. I'm 19 and I never had girlfriend before and I don't think I'll be able to find one until I'm 22 or something =[

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 22 2005, 11:23 PM]
3 years cried for 1 week

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 22 2005, 12:00 AM]
I feel so lonely and depressed because I don't have any friends (I just got back from studying overseas) and I never had a girlfriend before... SOOO I thought that I could seek some comfort here at cB!! YAY!! plz say you love me even if you dont mean it!! so I can feel better... PLEASE! T__T

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 21 2005, 11:57 PM]
to my future girlfriend - I LOVE U!! 4 ever and ever and ever!!!! *HUG*

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 21 2005, 11:38 PM]
I cried for a week -__- go figure

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 20 2005, 12:41 PM]
im 19 and I never made out

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 20 2005, 12:37 PM]
YES!!! ALL girls can take me for free... I am so available... instant free boyfriend right here lol

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 9:00 PM]
hey I just discovered this site because I was looking for a xanga visitor tracking script... trying to post as much as possible to become an official member

only 3 things u need to know about me:
1. I'm a nice guy
2. I studied in overseas for 5 years and I just got back so I have no friends and I need to meet new ppl
3. I'm 19 and I never had a girlfriend before and I really want one now

I live in LA

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:52 PM]
I'm 19 and still a virgin -__-

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:50 PM]
I guess I'm in the 21-25 section which makes up for like 0.1% of the population???

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:38 PM]
nothing should get in the way of love... but I never even dated anyone before so blah

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:36 PM]
I am 19 and I:

1. never hugged a girl
2. never got a hug from a girl
3. never kissed a girl
4. never got kissed by a girl besides my mom
5. never touched a girl
6. never had a girlfriend
7. never "dated"
8. never received love from any girl besides my mom
9. never had sex
10. never had the girl I like even like me back a tiny bit

but I'm still working on it and still confident =]

but it makes me sad and depressed a lot...

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:21 PM]
awww I know how u feel!! If u want we can be friends and stuff and u never know, I might think you're the best person ever in the end! =]

I'm 19 and I've never had a girlfriend before... girls have liked me before but it just didn't happen... I get SO depressed whenever I think about this and see all those couples out there. I feel the same way you do!!

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:16 PM]
I'd say no but I want to so badly and it's so tempting... I wonder when the day will come T__T

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[quote=samsam5886,Sep 19 2005, 8:21 PM]
awww I know how u feel!! If u want we can be friends and stuff and u never know, I might think you're the best person ever in the end! =]

I'm 19 and I've never had a girlfriend before... girls have liked me before but it just didn't happen... I get SO depressed whenever I think about this and see all those couples out there. I feel the same way you do!!

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[*salcha*]

OUCH.
u just got

[BOLIN_Vee]

i have one.

theres a a somone for everybody.

my friend (a guy) was really upseat and had no confidence cause he never had a girlfriend. i took him to meet my friends and they were all over him. you just never know.

[Gigi]

Listen to Ariel, everyone!

:o

[BrokenDream]

i was, er, asked out last year, but i said no because that boy was a trouble maker. so.. sometimes boys/girls can be not really worth it. I love being single! but i am looking at the same time.

single rocks.
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[topsyturvy]

ermfermoo, thank you for your warning.

[REBELnDISGUISE]

I'm 14 and I've dated many people.

[hall0w]

im 12 and dont have one

[sheepy]

think about it.

wouldn't you rather have not been involved in a relationship in the first place than to have your heart broken at the end of one?

well you gain from the relationship too.
but anyways just wait, the right person will come.

[sm0kinm0nky]

I never had a girlfriend in my life.
It's funny how most of the girls i like are my close friends

[Aoiro]

Um...
I've had a boyfriend before.
But I wonder if kindergarten counts, too.
D:

And how do you spell kindergarten again?
>>;;

[azn_at_heart]

with a g. and i never had one but its cause im very quiet i dont talk much (not even a hi back to the teacher) not cause im ugly to others

[FREEcandies]

I've had 3 relationships, starting from 9th grade (I'm in college now). Ever since highschool, I haven't had to be single for long (6 months most). I don't just date anyone, all my relationships have been over one year and I spent a lot of time and energy into them. I've been hurt twice, the last one badly, but I still prefer to be in a relationship rather than being single. I don't understand people who shy away from relationships because they're afraid of getting hurt. It's all part of the game, you have to lose some in order to win some.