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post Sep 14 2005, 12:47 PM
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why do guys have to act so wierd when they miss you..instead of telling you they miss you and they wanna see and talk to you, you have to go thru a total WW3 for them to tell you anything str8 up! grrr mike u make me sick!
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 03:03 PM
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I guess it depends on their age? Men my age don't do that. Remember, boys mature slower than girls. I'm not trying to say guys are slow, but it is a proven fact.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 03:49 PM
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^ i agree.
but then my bf doesn't do that. he tells me straight out that he misses me?
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 04:04 PM
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...I don't understand people in general

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post Sep 14 2005, 04:20 PM
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Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Sep 14 2005, 5:20 PM)
Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.
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I so second that.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 06:52 PM
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Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.
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That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 07:37 PM
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^^ haha.

Well, yeah it might depend on your age. My boyfriend and my ex never did that, they would usually tell me when they missed me.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 08:48 PM
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Boys aren't as good as expressing their feelings like girls are. Most girls are mushy gooshy.. and a lot of guys think they should play tough. saying "Imiss you, baby" might make them feel.. less "manly"
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 08:53 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 6:52 PM)
That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.
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LMAO!

I think it's just...a guy thing. They dont want to show a sensitive side, ok some guys sure but the ones i know? Nah.

They need to "Be A Man"...

pffttt...Cheap excuse.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 08:55 PM
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I tell my girlfriend that I miss her and love her all the time.
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How old are you anyway? I'm guessing your boyfriend is like, 12 or 13. I'm 14, and have no problem saying that stuff.

Well, I do act older than I am though. :\
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 08:56 PM
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usually i'd find a girl annoying and i wouldn't actually miss them...
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 09:54 PM
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my boyfriend tells me straight out if he misses me...

but anyway, i think it's fantastic that you say that your boyfriend makes you sick.
 
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post Sep 14 2005, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE([f)
eleeza,Sep 14 2005, 1:20 PM]Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.
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That's because they pissed me off too.

I think it's natural for everyone to be pissed off.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 12:52 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 3:52 PM)
That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.
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Amen, brother.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 03:16 AM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Sep 15 2005, 8:55 AM)
How old are you anyway? I'm guessing your boyfriend is like, 12 or 13.
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^ good point

To all the guys out there, it's so cute when you say you miss us.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 02:58 PM
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usually i'd find a girl annoying and i wouldn't actually miss them...
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Way not to sound sexist, Justin thumbsup.gif
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 04:51 PM
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...It's kinda weird. When It comes to certain things between my gf and I, I just can't find the right words to express my point. I tell her I miss her when I don't see her for a while...

...like right now...
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 06:01 PM
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Boys aren't as good as expressing their feelings like girls are. Most girls are mushy gooshy.. and a lot of guys think they should play tough. saying "Imiss you, baby" might make them feel.. less "manly"


Yes, this will make a guy feel confortable enough to respond most of the time. And girls are thought of as "cute" when they get all mushy. Guy's are thought of a total wusses who are easy (By women and men) BAD!


Because either:

1.They don't miss you

2.They know they shouldn't tell you.


1:Pretty straight foward and you're just forcing them to lie

2: Every guy with half a mind about women knows not to lose control of themselves (I.E stop pouring out compliments/emotions) and if you get a guy started, he won't stop and you'll eventually break up with them(Gaurenteed) if they become overly open.


And, not saying they miss you, makes you constantly think about them that sub counciously just makes you love them even more.


-Joshua
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 06:17 PM
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Maybe if his friends are around?
Or maybe he just wants to show you he's tough no matter what?
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post Sep 15 2005, 06:22 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 14 2005, 6:52 PM)
That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.
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laugh.gif I dunno I matured pretty quick in life but ...

Boys = 1-12 -might be going thru puberty.
Teen =13-17 - body still changing.
Adult =18-wheneva- this is a rare case but some have emotional supressed memories having a hard time showing emotion either through a tramatic experience or if they don't like showing it or even distant maybe.

...I dont think I had a problem communicating in that manner or I dont remember but hey whos counting. tongue.gif
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 06:29 PM
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I don't have this problem. My boyfriend always tells me when he misses me or wants to see me because even though I'll see him in the halls for like 5 seconds everyday we really never hang out because we're both SO busy.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 06:40 PM
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eh..i dont have that prob. my "very very close friend" just tells me if he misses me.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 08:04 PM
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QUOTE(tweeak @ Sep 15 2005, 2:58 PM)
Way not to sound sexist, Justin thumbsup.gif
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never had a relationship with a guy, so it wouldn't be fitting to include guys in that statement, would it? _smile.gif
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 08:12 PM
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QUOTE(baybeelovesoemo @ Sep 14 2005, 12:47 PM)
why do guys have to act so wierd when they miss you..instead of telling you they miss you and they wanna see and talk to you, you have to go thru a total WW3 for them to tell you anything str8 up! grrr mike u make me sick!
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WOW!!! i know huh? they just sweet talk you; yet they dont let the real words come out! jeeze; going through the same thing don't worry!! hehe...he alwyas wanna see me when he misses me; yet has no good excuse for it!! haha...
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 08:13 PM
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OHH YEAHH i forgot to say; hes laready a freshman in highschool!! wouldn't he be mature enough??
 
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post Sep 16 2005, 11:09 AM
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Shy? maybe he is the shy type haha.
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 01:22 AM
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That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.
uhmm
wow anyways
don't worry about it maybe he's jsut a little shy about telling you what he really feels sometimes the things that mean the most are the hardest to say
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 12:39 PM
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maybe your boyfriend isn't the mushy cheesy kind.
mine tells me he misses me when he does.
and we girls, love it when they do.
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 01:36 PM
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They probably wanna poke some fun at you to get some WWE or they're not in the right mood to say that they miss you so they probably wanna change it around.
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 01:40 PM
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maybe it's cuz he doesn't miss you. always havta look on the realistic side
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 03:00 PM
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i guess you guys arent comfortable with each other enough? well a typical boyfriend would be able to say tell if they do o_o
 
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post Sep 25 2005, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Sep 16 2005, 6:09 PM)
Shy? maybe he is the shy type haha.
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Yeah that could be a reason too, if all their life was a lonely person and they never said or missed anyone before, they are just not used to say that str8 in your face and then to hug/kiss you or whatever...
 
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post Sep 27 2005, 03:16 PM
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guys just don't want to look weak i guess... =\ that's the only thing i can think of.... but i think that if the guy really does love you, he won't be embarrassed to say that he misses you...
 
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post Sep 27 2005, 06:48 PM
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i really don't know. they won't tell me. they would just act childish in front of me and .. but i adore that because it makes them extremely cute. biggrin.gif
 
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post Sep 27 2005, 08:02 PM
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my psychologist told me that females are generally more sensitive than males cuz of some nerves in the heads...

chics analyze everything
while dudez have no clue what hez doing wrong

i agree that they are here to piss us off
but itz just their nature that they are not as sensitive or as thoughtful
altho guys can def learn to be those

itz all good i think
i understand so i dont really get dramatic about that
or maybe i have a man brain
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post Sep 30 2005, 06:07 AM
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My boyfriend doesn't do that, he just says "I miss you". I guess it depends on how shy the guy is.
 
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