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 Sep 6 2005, 04:32 PM
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okay, i've been with my guy for soo long, i don't even remeber the feeling when your with a guy for the first time ever...you know...that tiny butterfly feeling you have in your body when your with that some guy for the first time ever =P too complicating, eh?
well, for some reason, ANY MALE gets me excited (not an erotic way or anything =P) but when a guy wants to talk to me, i get all excited + i go on + on (like rite now) i actually feel (TRUTHFULLY) that there should be no "one guy/one girl" cuz i just can't stand staying with one guy forever. i must feel the butterfly feeling over and over again. i don't mean being a whore/slut (for some reason, people feel that when your with more than one person, your automatically a whore/slut...i personally think that, the only way that statement is true is if you've been around the block, and the block on the next block =P but i do love my man with all my heart but, i wouldn't mind, like, being held by another guy or being kissed by another guy... am i weird? i def. write too much...just spilling out my heart =) |
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Sep 6 2005, 04:37 PM
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 I love you, I hate you, I can't live without you! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,526 |
You're not weird...not at all....i've been thru the same thing before....just with girls instead of guys....i know you still love your guy but you are probaly loosing interest in him. Like how old are you anyway? I mean if you are like mid 20s or sumthin older than its kinda different....but if your in your teens dont worry about it....dont stay with one guy forever....expiriment a little bit and get over that feeling before you end up really having to be with one person forevr when your older....i mean some things teens just dont need to worry about have your fun now....then be serious later....ive learned that the hard way...if you are older than just totally disregard what i just said.
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Sep 6 2005, 04:46 PM
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haha i've experimented a whole lot already haha =P im 17, not 20, but i may pass for 20 =P i've already had a bunch of bfs in the past (not to brag) + i definetly want to be steady with one guy, (better than to be heartbroken continuously). actually, we do plan to wed (sounds like it's too fast? my parents + his parents are actually waiting for me to turn at least 18 =P + his dad is planning things already!) but i wish we lived in a world that there was no such thing as "marriage", just "relationship(s)" =T
do i make any sense? thanks for your comment =) see im excited already knowing you're a guy  i gotta admit...i boy crazy!!! but i wouldn't dare cheat.
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Sep 6 2005, 05:01 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
That is sorta normal, I'm kinda like you too. I've been with my boyfriend for a while, but sometimes, I want to feel those butterfly feelings again. But, I know that I love him a lot and that I wouldn't want any other guy than him. But, maybe try to spice some things up in your life? I dunno, once in a while my boyfriend and I surprise each other and that makes me happy.
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Sep 6 2005, 05:02 PM
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I love you, I hate you, I can't live without you! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,526 |
hmm...so lemme get this straight basically you just want the attention no matter who its from? Because if it's like that then it is perfectly fine, certain people just like need attention to survive....as long as you wont cheat and still feel a big connection then this is fine.
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Sep 6 2005, 05:10 PM
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to linda= my man isn't so good at suprises =T i mean, he tries to but, he kills the suprise by making things too obvious. i mean, our "monthaversaries" aren't even special anymore...i mean, he does go "happy __ months baby!!" but that's it...we don't do anything special. + if we go to restaurants or something, we'd just eat...nothing special...
i feel like im married to him already  to DEbmxer553: don't get me wrong, i definetly get attention. i don't think that's the point cuz attention is everywhere. i actually feel like just meet up with someone i crush on + do what every young-first-couples do...that romantic-first date...but i still would never cheat on my man =T ionos. |
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Sep 6 2005, 07:25 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(misz tery us @ Sep 6 2005, 5:46 PM) haha i've experimented a whole lot already haha =P im 17, not 20, but i may pass for 20 =P i've already had a bunch of bfs in the past (not to brag) + i definetly want to be steady with one guy, (better than to be heartbroken continuously). actually, we do plan to wed (sounds like it's too fast? my parents + his parents are actually waiting for me to turn at least 18 =P + his dad is planning things already!) but i wish we lived in a world that there was no such thing as "marriage", just "relationship(s)" =T do i make any sense? thanks for your comment =) see im excited already knowing you're a guy i gotta admit...i boy crazy!!! but i wouldn't dare cheat. you don't have to wait until you're 18. you can just have your parents give consent. i'm 17 and my boyfriend and i have always talked about marriage. i even showed him the gorgeous ring i want...it's so beautiful  i don't really understand what it is that you're trying to say...you say that you and your boyfriend plan to wed some day but at the end you say that you wish marriage didn't exist... what exactly is problem? |
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Sep 6 2005, 07:30 PM
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im always confusing =T sorry...im saying that i do believe in marriage cuz i definetly want to wed soon with my man (it's soooo extremely cool that there's someone else like me =) you're so cool =P) but i also miss being with a crush, having a first date, having those butterflies in the stomach, you know?....i miss the old days when relationships lasted only days, not years...i miss those times...im so complicating...
[edit] also, my family is traditional so...i gotta be at least an adult =P |
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Sep 6 2005, 11:33 PM
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 hold up, thats antilicious Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,714 |
i like those feelings also...
maybe you guys should just stay "friends " .. because that feeling is gone your young and still new so its all natural |
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Sep 6 2005, 11:40 PM
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naww you're not weird.
hmm sometimes people get that feeling. i suppose its normal. |
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Sep 7 2005, 07:19 AM
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nothing can be natural anymore...
im not actually looking for experience...im looking for .... other guys? ionos...it's complicating.... |
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Sep 9 2005, 08:33 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i guess what you're feeling is commitment problems. but if you were kissed by another guy or hugged (in the sexual way
 if that's possible...) then that'd be cheating on your bf.
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Sep 9 2005, 11:17 PM
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Maybe you're feeling like you need a break. It's not uncommon for young people to date a long time and then take a break, just to see if there's anything else out there, especially before they commit to marriage.
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Sep 10 2005, 09:51 AM
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isn't that a bad thing? to "take a break"? then he'll know that i think he's not the one. i know it'll be considered cheating...thats what i DON'T want to do, never ever ever...but is there something i can do to make myself stick with the one guy i love?
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Sep 10 2005, 10:37 AM
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Well, a lot of couple sometimes take breaks before marriage, especially if they are young. If you've been with someone for a long time, you should make sure they're the right person before you commit to anything more.
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Sep 10 2005, 04:45 PM
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every1's wierd.. nobody's normal cuz there is nothin such as normal
its just how u feel so ur not wierd or anything |
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Sep 10 2005, 11:46 PM
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i totally understand how you feel
i've been going out with my bf for 6 months now and its starting to feel like..forever...it hurts because i feel him become distant...and the excitement that was there in the beggining is no longer there..it just breaks my heart because i still care too much..and i've been more consistant with how i feel about him. but..lately..its been getting to me. i cant ignore the fact that the excitement isn't there anymore...i just feel old now..... im scared at the same time. i dont want to lose him. but i seem to want more out of things. |
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Sep 13 2005, 07:59 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
i agree; but belive me when you find that guy that maes you feel the butterfly feeling over and over again; you'll know you want to be with him forever; its only when you know and feel your ready to commit tho.?!
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Sep 16 2005, 11:19 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
haha almost same. lately i've been in "love" with every single guy i've met.
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Sep 16 2005, 05:02 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
QUOTE(DEbmxer553 @ Sep 6 2005, 4:37 PM) You're not weird...not at all....i've been thru the same thing before....just with girls instead of guys....i know you still love your guy but you are probaly loosing interest in him. Like how old are you anyway? I mean if you are like mid 20s or sumthin older than its kinda different....but if your in your teens dont worry about it....dont stay with one guy forever....expiriment a little bit and get over that feeling before you end up really having to be with one person forevr when your older....i mean some things teens just dont need to worry about have your fun now....then be serious later....ive learned that the hard way...if you are older than just totally disregard what i just said. So true. He said it all, lol. |
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Sep 16 2005, 05:12 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Sep 11 2005, 12:46 AM) i totally understand how you feel i've been going out with my bf for 6 months now and its starting to feel like..forever...it hurts because i feel him become distant...and the excitement that was there in the beggining is no longer there..it just breaks my heart because i still care too much..and i've been more consistant with how i feel about him. but..lately..its been getting to me. i cant ignore the fact that the excitement isn't there anymore...i just feel old now..... im scared at the same time. i dont want to lose him. but i seem to want more out of things. Yeah, that's how I've been feeling, and it's been about 10 months. And, we haven't exactly been talking as much nor have we seen each other (he's in college, and I have college apps to take care of), so it's kinda understandable. |
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