lots of girls....lots of confusion..... Options

[DEbmxer553]

ok, well so heres the situation. There is this chick that I met on myspace probaly about a month ago. She lives in the same town I do and shes just so awesome. We both like each other, but are both busy and havent been able to meet up yet. But I mean some people may be like o dude thats so stupid u like some chick that you havent met yet, but i mean i see something actually happening with her and i if we meet up. Now onto girl number two....shes in 2 of my classes in high school. I havent really ever talked to her before but i mean there is just sumthin about her that i like, i mean shes not that hot or anything, i dont no wat it is. But see ive never really talked to her. But today my ex's bf after me that she just broke up with like a month ago...if that makes ne sense......who i hate was flirting with her.....it kinda pissed me off.....and this kid is such a lil biotch ya no.....so i dont no wat to do about that. Then last night my ex called me up.,...i mean her and i r still friends and all but idk....its just kinda weird ya no....and her dad who i new hates me invited me over, picked me up on his motorcycle and all and so her and i hung out last night....till like 11.....it was just so weird....i really dont know whats up with that....weve been broken up for like 8 or 9 months so like its just kinda weird i think.....what do u guys gather from all of this and any advice for any of them?

[*mipadi*]

Wow, damn dude. Complicated.

If it were me, I'd go for the girl that you have those two classes with. You said she's pretty cool, and you kind of know her. Dating the ex-girlfriend could potentially be a bad idea, and I'm not one for Internet-based relationships, so I'd go for the girl you have classes with. Of course, nothing wrong with meeting the girl you met over MySpace, either; good things can come of that, I hear.

[latinprep12]

well the first girl situation isnt werid...i met alot of girls from myspace, just because im new to the area and they find me and so on and so on..so dont worry...the second one...i will find a moment to say hey to atleast...like if you feel brave at a moment think of something to say to her ...like ask her for a pencil..and then say thanks alot..and later give it back to her and tell her thanks and say we need to talk more...you seem pretty nice..and about the guy..leave it...hating on others and showing that you do is not needed....girls think guys who fight over them..shows stupidty and is a turn-off....and about the ex [its like spoiled milk] you had it b4 and didnt like it so dont go back to it..well take what i said and make the best out of it

[misz tery us]

meeting people over the internet is a common relationship start. the thing is is that people may be different over the internet than in life. over the internet, you can say almost anything, in person, you watch what you say/act to make sure the other isn't freaked out or anything (meaning, being fake both ways)

the fact about you liking a girl that has no physical attraction is a good thing (meaning your not into her cuz of her looks) but you should actually strike a convo so you can get to know her more instead of just burning holes in her body with your eyes, haha =)

i think your ex probably still likes you since it's been 8-9 months and suddenly, a change comes in...+the dad you know that hates you is actually being nice to you? it's kinda weird. but the fact that she's your ex + the jerk that keeps flirting with her bothers you, you really can't do anything about it except letting her know a little on how you feel (not the whole story or else she's going to feel that your in control of her life)

i hope i didn't write too much, haha, i tend to talk alot =) but i hope i helped.

[Levy2k6]

i tried to stick with the local girl (girl from school) and try and get something to start.. ur ex.. if you have any feelings.. u could go with that..

if the myspace girl leaves too far.. i wouldnt hit it but if she goes to a nearby school, why not.

[Chii]

don't get back into a relationship with your ex. right now, your old feelings are coming back, like you want the good times with her again...but sooner or later the bad stuff will come back too and you'll just end up breaking up again.

the internet relationship is actually a good thing to me...like you get to know who they are and you like them for them, not what they look like.

it doesn't seem like you know too much about the girl who's in two of your classes. maybe she can be like jsut a friend.

i say, pursue the myspace chick.

[DEbmxer553]

Yea...I was really thinking of pursueing the myspace one....I mean in my opinion she is just perfect ya know so I think it might work out. And no no no!!! I will never get back with my ex!! Hell No!!! That was a long year that I wont do again...and plus the one in school I really dont know what to do about like im gonna try and say sumthin then say sumthin stupid ya no? just my luck

[latinprep12]

^ well dont worry about saying anything stupid...you wont..and well go for the one on myspace then and good luck bro...and well dont get all butterfly stomach on her or start a werid topic to talk about when you see her..she might think thats you all the time