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 Sep 5 2005, 06:34 PM
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whenever my gf talks about her guy friends, i kinda get jealous. she says that she definitely doesnt have the same feelings that she does for me, but i still feel sorta weird about it sometimes. i just dont want to tell her that it bothers me because i'm afraid she'll think i don't want her to have any guy friends or something. i'm not sure what to do.
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Sep 5 2005, 06:39 PM
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 M.a. x. Group: Member Posts: 1,913 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,641 |
well im in the same boat as you when i have a g/f i want her to stay away as much as possible from guys, but thats something we got to deal with and to get over...if you and her are dating and love each other...dont worry...but if its a new relationship and your unsure talk to her...communication is a major priorty...so tell her how you feel
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Sep 5 2005, 06:42 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
its normal man, if she chose you out of all her guy friends thats gotta mean somethin right? you have other girls that are friends right? doesnt mean that you like them the same way you do your girl friend. ya know what im saying? lol
so yeah, trust your gf no need to be jealous. but its normal though dont worry. its like second nature. |
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Sep 5 2005, 06:42 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just tell her that you don't want to hear about her guy friends and stop sitting and complaining about it, don't beat around the bush.
if she interprets that as you saying that you don't want her to have guy friends then it's on her because that's not what you said. |
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Sep 5 2005, 06:43 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
my gf has done that but she makes it look like a way better guy so i get over it.. i try and ignore them cuz if she didnt want me, she wouldnt be with me.
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Sep 5 2005, 07:10 PM
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My boyfriend does the same thing. It's kind of like you get a wierd vibe from the guys, right? Yeah. Whenever my boyfriend does that, he knows something's about to happen - and the guy usually hits on me or something. I'd look more into it if I were you, make sure you KNOW you can trust her, though that's probably not the problem. Check up on things. Good luck on everything
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Sep 5 2005, 07:48 PM
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don't fly without me. Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,538 |
i agree with l!ckitysplit, it's okay for girlfriends and guyfriends to have friends of the opposite gender. don't be jealous of the guys she didn't choose to be her boyfriend. =)
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Sep 5 2005, 07:51 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I think it's normal. I get a little jealous whenever my boyfriend mentions a female friend, but just tell her not to mention them. Besides, she picked you over them, so she must obviously like you better.
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Sep 5 2005, 09:24 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Sep 5 2005, 8:51 PM) Yeah, I think it's normal. I get a little jealous whenever my boyfriend mentions a female friend.  i agree, everyone gets jealous, i know i do. tell her that you don't really want her to talk about her guy friends to you, but like what the others said she did choose you over all her other guy friends |
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Sep 5 2005, 09:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
Trust and communication is the key! Everyone is going to have friends of the opposite sex because that's totally normal. Being a friend, and flirting are two different things.
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Sep 5 2005, 09:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
Trust and communication is the key! Everyone is going to have friends of the opposite sex because that's totally normal. Being a friend, and flirting are two different things.
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Sep 5 2005, 09:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
I have no idea why my message appeared twice...
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Sep 5 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
just tell her. tell her you get jealous. just dont take it too far and never try to stop her from kickin it with her guy friends. dont be afraid, YOU CAN Do iT !!
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Sep 5 2005, 10:33 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Sep 5 2005, 9:46 PM) I agree w/ Bella.  Tell her now before you get TOO jealous..and end up doing something stupid. Like trying to ban her from hanging out w/ guy friends. Exactly. I have a lot of guy friends, and they're just that- guy friends. Most girls have more guy friends because girls are easier to backstab each other. She chose you over all her guy friends. I understand your jealousy, but i personally don't think its anything to worry about
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Sep 6 2005, 01:24 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
when i think of a girl who already has a girlfriend; [this is what i hear from my friends] they want to make their guy kinda jealous by talking to another guy so that you the boyfriend will come to her and make her feel like shes the only one; thats just what i hear its not really my opinion;
but i think that when girls do that its their friends come on; dont think girls get jealous too? oh and who does she go home to at the end of the day? [not literally]. |
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Sep 6 2005, 03:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,755 |
haha, well...i to talk about my ex's to my current man just because there are some things that remind me of my past moments. you can never erase a memory. my man does the same to me...but then we talked it out and promised not to talk about our exes ever again =) maybe you should let your gf know how you feel. she should understand.
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