Not sure, Love... |
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Not sure, Love... |
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![]() la la la ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 224,139 ![]() |
I have a boyfriend... but the problem is that I don't know if I'm in love w/ him... how can u tell if ur in love w/ someone or if u just love them?? B/c i love my b/f i'm just not sure if I'm in love w/ him...
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![]() Lurker. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 ![]() |
You just know. There's no 'definition' like you're looking for. But that's just me.
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Topic Moved
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 ![]() |
QUOTE(PyroRei @ Sep 3 2005, 7:30 PM) I have a boyfriend... but the problem is that I don't know if I'm in love w/ him... how can u tell if ur in love w/ someone or if u just love them?? B/c i love my b/f i'm just not sure if I'm in love w/ him... You're still a teen right? So it doesn't matter if you love him or not. Boyfriends are for someone who you deeply care for. Love is another thing. You have the rest of your life to find the person you'll love so don't worry about it. If you love him, that's great! but if you don't love, at least you care for him deeply enough to stay with him. |
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Well theres no way to tell if you love him, if you love him you know it. That's that
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 ![]() |
Yeah to tell the truth, we really can't tell you if you love him or not, all we can do is help you. But like I said, since you're still young it doesn't matter if you do or don't
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
if your going to ask US what love is, then your are most likly NOT in love
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
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when you'll growup,you will be able to see what's the difference between that two things.
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![]() WarPath Leader. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 ![]() |
(darndoubleclicks>.<)
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Love is so deep...
When you're in love, you just know...Especially with that first love. Gah...Love is when you want that person to be happy regardless of how you feel, when you'd die for them, do anything for them...When you respect them and would never intentionally hurt them... Love is soo much...I could just never explain to you. |
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#12
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i never questioned myself whether or not i was in love or not.
i may be young still but i think i was in love with my ex and probably still might be. it sounds foolish to me but that's what i think. you just know when you are. only you can know how you feel. |
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#13
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![]() naďvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
QUOTE(Cwlplover @ Sep 4 2005, 9:28 AM) When you're in love, you just know...Especially with that first love. Gah...Love is when you want that person to be happy regardless of how you feel, when you'd die for them, do anything for them...When you respect them and would never intentionally hurt them... ^ What she said. You're pretty close to it, close enough to question whether or not it's love, but not quite there on the spot that you just know. |
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
we cant tell you.
& i agree with steph, if your asking us to tell you your probably not. |
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If you have to ask if your in love with him, then you aren't. You'll just know when you are, believe me.
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Sep 3 2005, 4:46 PM) What the f*ck is with your stupid ignorant posts? Just because your a teenager doesn't mean that love is insignificant, it's just many times mistaken for something else. (ie lust) |
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 ![]() |
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i agree with stephanie.
there's no specific way you can tell that you're in love with someone, you just FEEL it and know it. but if you're unsure, i really doubt so |
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its this 'feeling' you have.. like you cant really describe it; you know? i guess all you can say is that you feel so happy w/ him... in diff. ways =)
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hmm...
dictionary.com says... love ( P ) Pronunciation Key (lv) n. 1) A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. 2) A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance. 3) Sexual passion. Sexual intercourse. A love affair. 4) An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object. 5) A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment. 6) An expression of one's affection: Send him my love. 7) A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language. The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love. 8) Love Mythology. Eros or Cupid. 9) often Love Christianity. Charity. 10) Sports. A zero score in tennis. some ppl dont know what love really is... |
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You "love" him but you're not sure if you're "in love" with him? WTF?
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![]() A laugh spreads, so do some spreading! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 529 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,319 ![]() |
Ask yourself whether he makes you feel great about yourself, if he's your best friend and if you can trust him. But if you're not so sure, maybe you aren't in love with him. You'll know when the time comes
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 ![]() |
if you have to question, then you're not in love.
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#24
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If you're really in love, the relationship should be unconditional.
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QUOTE(PyroRei @ Sep 3 2005, 4:30 PM) I have a boyfriend... but the problem is that I don't know if I'm in love w/ him... how can u tell if ur in love w/ someone or if u just love them?? B/c i love my b/f i'm just not sure if I'm in love w/ him... If u love someone u want to talk to him/her and u keep thinking abt him/her |
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![]() Oh babyy. :d ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 ![]() |
You should just know you love him. You shouldn't have to ask if your in love. You just feel it. If your not sure, then you don't.
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