can good friend turn bacc on you?, friend |
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 Apr 26 2004, 12:34 AM
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 411  Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,121  |
ummz i in dis situation dat some1 im close 2<(he ish lyk my brother) is hittin on meeh..... lyk everytym im talkin 2 a friend he'll tell her 2 do sumthing and instead talk 2 meeh.. and i think dat friend of mines has a crush on him... and i dont lyk him.... buh she thinks i lyk him soo she bacc off and didnt talk 2 meeh 4 dais.... adn sumthmes in 4th period he'll come and hugg meeh 4rm da bacc which is very uncomfortable 2 meeh... and i think my friend saw it and seh started 2 cry.... and sumthimes i ask why she wouldnt tell meeh... and 1 tym wen meeh and him was playin and he wrote dis poem and he started 2 read it 2 meeh and i was lyk who ish dat foe.... and he looked at meeh.. and didint say anything.. and da poem was bout him lovin dis grl which da grl doesnt have feelins foe him..... deres was another tym wen a friend who lyked him sai 2 him.. dat meeh and him made such good couples howcome we wont juss go 2gether... and i was lyk nooo.. and he was lyk.... yea.. buh it work out.. and i looked at him and ask wat did he sai and he was lyk nvm.... and kinda feeelz werid..... cuz ish it lyk lovin ur brother...... buh he ish not buh wen i need help i turn 2 him.... and if he eva ask meeh out and i reject him some how he might turn bacc on 2 meeh....
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Apr 26 2004, 02:31 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
well you can't force yourself to love him .. if you see him like your friend and brother just keep it that way .. it may hurt him in the beginning but i'm sure he'll understand .. just play it cool and do what you have to do .. it seems to me that he does like you but don't lead him on to thinking that you feel the same when you don't.. i hope things get easier for you ..
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Apr 26 2004, 10:14 AM
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Silver Hawk Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,909 |
yea..u cant force urself...just let it be...
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Apr 26 2004, 11:30 AM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
QUOTE(sam562 @ Apr 26 2004, 12:34 AM) ummz i in dis situation dat some1 im close 2<(he ish lyk my brother) is hittin on meeh..... lyk everytym im talkin 2 a friend he'll tell her 2 do sumthing and instead talk 2 meeh.. and i think dat friend of mines has a crush on him... and i dont lyk him.... buh she thinks i lyk him soo she bacc off and didnt talk 2 meeh 4 dais.... adn sumthmes in 4th period he'll come and hugg meeh 4rm da bacc which is very uncomfortable 2 meeh... and i think my friend saw it and seh started 2 cry.... and sumthimes i ask why she wouldnt tell meeh... and 1 tym wen meeh and him was playin and he wrote dis poem and he started 2 read it 2 meeh and i was lyk who ish dat foe.... and he looked at meeh.. and didint say anything.. and da poem was bout him lovin dis grl which da grl doesnt have feelins foe him..... deres was another tym wen a friend who lyked him sai 2 him.. dat meeh and him made such good couples howcome we wont juss go 2gether... and i was lyk nooo.. and he was lyk.... yea.. buh it work out.. and i looked at him and ask wat did he sai and he was lyk nvm.... and kinda feeelz werid..... cuz ish it lyk lovin ur brother...... buh he ish not buh wen i need help i turn 2 him.... and if he eva ask meeh out and i reject him some how he might turn bacc on 2 meeh.... In this situation, I feel like my best guy friend is starting to take a liking to me. Everytime I am talking with my girls, he'll approach us to ask if my friend would like to do something. He could possibly be doing this to make me jealous. I believe my friend has a crush on him. However, I don't like him. She continues to think I do so we have stopped talking. He's the touchy feely type and I really don't appreciate it. He'll hug me from behind, which is very irritating. I think my friend saw it and began to cry. She won't tell me what's going on. I don't know how to get an answer out of her. The other day my friend wrote a poem. He read it to me, and I was curious whom he was talking about in the poem. He responded silently. The poem was about being unrequited. Another friend that was interested in him saw us one day and said we look very cute together. I responded in disgust, but he mumbled something about it not working out. Then he acted like he didn't say anything when I asked him what he said. I don't have feelings for him past the brother type. Even though he's not really my brother, that's how I look at him. If he was to ask me out, I'm afraid I'll lose my friendship with him when I reject him. What should I do? I was gonna type out a gangsta way of saying it, but yea I got lazy |
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Apr 26 2004, 07:19 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think u should tell him that u see him as a brother more than a bf.. but i think u should really ask urself if u'll be hapy wit him as a bf.. if u are then why not? he can be the perfect one cuz if hes like a brother then he understands everything about you
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Apr 26 2004, 07:21 PM
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If you don't feel the same way I would really be careful. It sounds like the two of you had a very strong friendship as it was. So you may end up damaging that relationship if you tell him too harshly. Take some time out to get your words down and try and break it to him as best as you can. Good luck
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Apr 26 2004, 09:13 PM
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hooo yea. it happens... just forget about the friend for a while.. and she'll eventually find out that she was being stupid and all.. and for da guy.. it really depends on u.. if u wana like him.. den u should tell him or something..
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Apr 26 2004, 10:51 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
yeah..good friends can turn there back on you. It is hard to accept but true...it happens..all the time.
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Apr 26 2004, 11:39 PM
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411 Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,121 |
QUOTE(conster @ Apr 26 2004, 7:19 PM) i think u should tell him that u see him as a brother more than a bf.. but i think u should really ask urself if u'll be hapy wit him as a bf.. if u are then why not? he can be the perfect one cuz if hes like a brother then he understands everything about you dats tru... he does understand meeh alot.. lyk da tym wen meeh and my bf broke up and he was dere wen i need a shoulder 2 cry on.... and i talk 2 him wen im goin through trouble.... buh dat wat brotherz and sista do rite?? bein dere 4 each otha.....  i think he may b a good bf and alll buh not da type foe meeh.. cuz SUMTHIMES... and only sumthimes.... i felt lyk  lyk a lil sis who is KINDA jealous wen i seen him talkin wit otha pplz... and not meeh.... buh yea... i dunno... i juss dont noe how 2 put it 2 him...
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Apr 27 2004, 04:41 PM
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I think he's trying to make your other friend to hate you. I don't know why, but thats what I think.
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Apr 27 2004, 05:00 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
errm... dont wana be rude... but heh... i cant read wat ur sayin`... haha heres this person who is sayin` lyk hahahaa
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