crush, what do u do? Options

[Bobblehead425]

so when you like a guy, do u act normal around him, or try to look perfect? i just act like i do around my friends. even if i am weird. well, i guess i wanna be cuz he liked me last yr. but i dunno if he still does haha so, how do you act?

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

well, if it's my first time talking to them, I would act normal...like not my normal self but normal-normal...not too crazy or wierd. But if I been talkin to them I'll just act like myself.

[shortiiex]

i act normal like any other person...but inside i am really nervous

[FLIPxADDICTION]

I liked my crush for 3 years, so when I see him, I try to look nicer than usual. I tend to act way more stupid and avoid eye contact with him.

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

I try to act normal. But then I get all giggly and end up looking like a ditz. In my defense he does crack a lot of jokes though.

[annalucky]

I try to act normal. LOL. Then I just end up being myself. Doesn't go to well because I'm mean to my crushes/people I like/boyfriends. x\

[crazyinlove08]

well last year i cared but this year around the guy i like i dont care i mean I care if I look nice and stuff. but I jsut dont care that much. to me its like if you like me as me then good because Im not changing for you. that may be mean but really the guy should like you for you.

[Jeng]

act normal,be yourself,dont make yourself be all weird or try to be someone your not.a guy wants you to be yourself in everyway.-_-"

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i try to look my prettiest, but overall i act the same. i just may crack a joke or two than usual, & not act as retarded ;DD

[ParanoidAndroid]

so when you like a guy, do u act normal around him, or try to look perfect? i just act like i do around my friends. even if i am weird. well, i guess i wanna be cuz he liked me last yr. but i dunno if he still does haha so, how do you act?

I act my casual self because acting my casual self caused this guy I like to walk me home one time... which means he was fond of my inside personality... very sweet. When I like someone I act my real self to see if they can like me for who I am. If they don't, I don't want to break my heart any further to learn that I have to be a whore to attract them.

[*suddenly she*]

so, how many topics have we had on this before?

i go up and talk to him about anything. current problems i'm having, problems he's having, how utterly infuriating geometry homework is, violin, piano, cello, music in general.

we're friends.

[imm]

I don't act, I behave. Meaning I don't put up a show or anything, I just over a period of time become good friends with them. =] Right now I like the same guy I've been liking for a year, but he went to stupid boarding school. =[

[lilaznqtc8]

i've crushed on him since forever..
so i usually try to clean up and look a little nicer. :]
but i always get so nervous when i talk to him! -_-

[silver-rain]

I try to act normal, especially if I'm friends with him, and just be myself.

[heyyfrankie]

like myself. i don't want someone to like someone i'm not.

[angelrevelation]

i act nervous, anxious and totally spazztic. and i try to stay away from them as much as possible. but then again... he couldn't be much more away from me then he is now...

[rinchan089]

I try to act normal around guys I have a crush on, but I always end up flirting alot. By flirting, I mean giggling at EVERYTHING he says. It pisses me off, but it won't stop lol If I know him well, I will be much more normal and can talk about normal stuff but if I don't know him that well, there will be many awkward silences lol

Rin-chan

[timeflies51]

Oh, I always try to talk to them more, and I definitely laugh a lot more than if I were talking to a guy I liked as a friend. Usually so much so that they can tell I like them...

[mai_z]

I'd definately act differently. I've also always been one that that is constantly trying to impress, like I hate it when people look down on me, so I make a point of trying to be on my "best behaviour" all the time. So I guess i'd act normally in that sense.

[Just_Dream]

... How do you "look perfect?" Or do you mean "act perfect?" If it's looking perfect... Um I don't know what you mean by that. But, if it's acting perfect, I think it's kind of hard to do. There's no exact definition to perfection, so if you "act perfect" around the guy, he'll have a false impression of you.

Personally, I act the way I normally do. I guess that's how I attracted my boyfriend of 2 years 9 months and still going strong

Be who you are--the ones that fall for you because they love who you naturally are (your "normal self" as you would call it), are the keepers. They appreciate you no matter what.

I'm not really giving advice, just letting out some of my philosophical love stuff. =P

[seriouslynikki]

Im very quiet and shy. I try to act normal...but it never works.

[cyber]

you can try to drop a few hints...and hang out with him more often than you usually do. he'll get the picture..

[misoshiru]

i act the way i usually do. i dont see the point in him liking me if i werent myself.

[lilliannnn]

Both. I try to look perfect while I'm acting like myself. Works like a charm.

[literemix24]

I act normally, but on the inside I'm like really nervous and giddy. lols

[coconutter]

I liked my crush for 3 years, so when I see him, I try to look nicer than usual. I tend to act way more stupid and avoid eye contact with him.

Everytime I get near a crush I avoid eye contact and act all weird and outgoing and crazy, I was like that when I liked this kid named Daniel for 3-4 years, now he's a dork. Haha, most boys like me even though they think I'm a nut.

[xmkaex]

when im around my crush i get all giggly and nervous inside...but some how im mean to them...

[*lil_chubby_cheeks2*]

im just myself...
but if he looks at me
i get nervous but when im nervous i laugh

[ANG33ZY]

I act normal now.

[That_one_Chick]

i wave and smile =]

[*chaneun*]

i smile and say hi, and we're friends now, when i started to like him, i barely even talked to him or knew him, so yea. :D

[Aoiro]

If I never met him before, or if he is new or something, I'll go up to him and give them a big smile and say a loud, "Hello!"
Then I'll try to talk to him a lot, be friends with him.
Know many things about him and...
Yeah.

[sweet_as_pie13]

i dont know why, but when i talk to my crush, i just act normal, im not nervous or anything. but then afterwards, i have this ongoing confidence, and i get hyper and excited to see him again.

[JustAnotherTeena...]

I try to act like I normally do, but a little less giggly. And somehow I actually manage to do it without getting nervous. I do try to look a little nicer than usual, but without looking really preppy. I'm friends with my crush, & kinda friends with his friends. I even started hanging out with his group last year. Yeah, um, so- I'm just myself when I'm around him, but I'm bursting inside & my stomach's in knots, & my heart's thumping..heh. Then afterwards I get really giddy & I like, can't wait to see him again.

[sheepy]

i would act pretty normal, or more.. talkative.

[nyred]

you shouldnt act a certain way. cause if you actually hook up with this dude, its gonna be weird when he finds out your real personality..

[alicekyli380]

I try to act normal.. TRY

[MoOd_RiNg741]

i choke ... i cant talk no matter how hard i try .. and when i do i say stupid thinks and sound like an idiot ... gezzzz i need help lol

[iheartsimba]

I just want to be myself..if I had to change myself to be around my crush, and it became a real relationship--wouldn't that be pretty fake?

[xBEBE]

honestly, i really try to act like how i would normally act but i could see that i act differently, sometimes im more outgoing around him or more shy

[mzislandpinay]

i act stupid.. which is my self.. i never try to hide my self lyk other gurls do.. if i'm loud with my friend then i'm loud with him.. cuz i want him to lyk me for ME!

[Joss-eh-lime]

well at first just act normal like hes just another person. then if u get to know him be more like yourself so he doesnt get bored.

[itsnever4ever]

I think that it's best to act liek yourself because what if it turns out he does like you then you'll be able to be yourself around him all the time and be more comfortable.

[b0st0ngrl]

I stalk them.

No, I just "accidently" run into them a lot. And try to talk to them. But I just act normal like I'm with my friends.

[yuna*]

I try to act normal, but it's hard when you are standing beside him, you can't help to feel shy..

[~~PipJean~~]

i act like my normal weird self with my crush coz he's go to my drama club amd i'm always hyper there and didn't like him at first so he got to know me as me!! hope that's a good thing... !! I dress nicely but i always try to but i often make an effort to wear things out of the ordinary like the cool sweetie braclet i have or wear cool things in my hair coz then he sits and plays eith them andd tries to wrestle them off me!! hee hee!

[Julie Ann]

I bet the guy thinks I'm stupid, but w/e. I get kinda giddy, i guess....