Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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| *ersatz* |
 Sep 27 2007, 07:07 AM
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Premarital sex is perfectly OK, just don't do it when you're like, twelve or something. Or with someone you just met.
My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and we haven't had sex yet (apparently he won't till I'm 18, whaaatever), but if we do, I'm not gonna punish myself over it. Besides, I wouldn't want the most awkward time in my life to be on my wedding night...the first time is weird, so I've heard, especially if neither person knows what they're doing. I kind of want some practice so the wedding night is niiiiice. |
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Sep 28 2007, 06:29 PM
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 in the reverb chamber.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Sep 27 2007, 07:07 AM)  Premarital sex is perfectly OK, just don't do it when you're like, twelve or something. Or with someone you just met. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and we haven't had sex yet (apparently he won't till I'm 18, whaaatever), but if we do, I'm not gonna punish myself over it. Besides, I wouldn't want the most awkward time in my life to be on my wedding night...the first time is weird, so I've heard, especially if neither person knows what they're doing. I kind of want some practice so the wedding night is niiiiice. Knowing about your partner's sexuality is also a huge bonus. If you're going to marry someone, if you're really going to make that sort of legal and philosophical commitment, then it would probably be best if you knew that person as well as you possibly could. That means everything. That means trying to understand their sexual identity. Have sex before you get married, it only makes sense. I mean, what if your significant other happens to be an emetophiliac? Definitely something to know before you make a life long commitment to them. Yeah. Seriously. |
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| *ersatz* |
Sep 28 2007, 06:44 PM
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Or what if they like to have buttsex, and you don't like to have buttsex? I don't like to have buttsex. WHAT IF JOHN LIKES TO HAVE BUTTSEX
Very sorry, I had to...you would have done the same to me. 
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Sep 28 2007, 06:49 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Sep 28 2007, 06:44 PM) Or what if they like to have buttsex, and you don't like to have buttsex? I don't like to have buttsex. WHAT IF JOHN LIKES TO HAVE BUTTSEX Very sorry, I had to...you would have done the same to me. Don't knock it until you try it. Or something like it. Nicole use to like it, but then I broke up with her. Things change after you hurt someone, mainly stories. But, yeah. Good point. 
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Sep 29 2007, 02:03 PM
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i did it..
however, i wish i could take it back. |
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Oct 5 2007, 05:03 AM
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i had premarital sex.. not gona lie... its against my faith but i did it still... even wen my grandmother told me u'll go to hell ashely if you have sex before ur married... lmfao do u think i cared about what she said... lol uhh no i did it still and THERES nothing wrong w. it either
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Oct 7 2007, 02:01 AM
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K well im a virgin but i think you should have sex before you get married. I mean , you can still have sex with somone you care about but i think you should live and have sex with somone before you marry them , being that physical and sexual with somone will probibly affect how you feel about them right? like i said its not like im experienced but wouldn't you want to know everything about the guy or girl you are marrying before you marry them?
what if they become abusive or somthing? You should really only get married once so make sure he or she is the one ... |
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Oct 8 2007, 03:43 PM
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premartial sex is a yes for me. if you truly feel you love the person, then by all means go for it. if it ends up being crappy, then you learn. i don't see the sense in waiting for marriage.
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Oct 16 2007, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ Sep 25 2007, 04:00 PM) How does someone being married change whether or not something is "given away lightly?" Further, are you familiar at all with our divorce rate? Lightly, huh? Sorry! I missed this post. Yes, lightly. I was referring to something I was once told - that viriginity is the greatest gift you can give your partner on your wedding night and it should not be 'given away lightly' - without due consideration. I can't say what divorce has to do with it all though. 
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Oct 21 2007, 08:50 AM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 16 2007, 03:04 PM) Sorry! I missed this post. Yes, lightly. I was referring to something I was once told - that viriginity is the greatest gift you can give your partner on your wedding night and it should not be 'given away lightly' - without due consideration. I can't say what divorce has to do with it all though. Yeah, but most marriages these days end with divorce. So chances are, you're not going to be with the person you save it for and marry forever. So why save it for marriage? Save it for love. |
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Oct 22 2007, 10:20 PM
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 An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
I dont think premarital sex is ok you should be committed to who you have sex with because you never know weather or not they are just useing you.
but if I did have sex before marriage it would ONLY be if I met Daniel Radcliffe  or Milo Ventimiglia  |
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Oct 23 2007, 02:23 PM
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 miss morbid. Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 563,317 |
What if you got married when you were, like, thirty?
You'd have such a boring life if you didn't have sex..... not that I'd know  But seriously, some people are with their partners for years and years before they get married. I don't see why it's such a big deal having sex before you're married. And I'm Christian, although not a really strong one. |
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Oct 23 2007, 03:49 PM
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An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
QUOTE(heyohereiam @ Oct 23 2007, 03:23 PM) What if you got married when you were, like, thirty? You'd have such a boring life if you didn't have sex..... not that I'd know But seriously, some people are with their partners for years and years before they get married. I don't see why it's such a big deal having sex before you're married. And I'm Christian, although not a really strong one. ok if you have been with them for a couple of years with the STRONG intent of marriage then that is ok. but if it is just a couple of months you should be cautious because you never know if they are just using you. |
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Dec 12 2007, 12:55 PM
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I don't usually have a sexual relationship with a girl before were dating, but after we've been dating...in short, yes I do practice pre-marital sex, I'd rather know if the person I'm with can please me before I marry them, plus I'm only 16 and I've only got one life to live, I'm gonna live it up before I settle down.
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Dec 12 2007, 01:28 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Premarital sex = <3
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Dec 12 2007, 07:04 PM
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Why not?
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Dec 12 2007, 07:08 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Why yes?
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Dec 12 2007, 07:41 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Why maybe?
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Dec 12 2007, 07:54 PM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
I don't believe in premarital sex. I think the best gift you can ever give your husband/wife is your virginity. It's special because they're the only ones who've touch you in a sexual way. It show that you respect your body and you don't let anyone mess on it.
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Dec 12 2007, 08:01 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Guys can always lie about premarital sex.
To every girl that I haven't banged...they think i'm a V. Most girls get a rush out of taking a guys flower. |
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Dec 12 2007, 08:26 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(reptilia @ Dec 12 2007, 06:01 PM) Guys can always lie about premarital sex. To every girl that I haven't banged...they think i'm a V. Most girls get a rush out of taking a guys flower. WTF are you talking about? I don't want no one minute man. |
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Dec 14 2007, 12:02 AM
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QUOTE(1angel3 @ Dec 12 2007, 07:54 PM) I don't believe in premarital sex. I think the best gift you can ever give your husband/wife is your virginity. It's special because they're the only ones who've touch you in a sexual way. It show that you respect your body and you don't let anyone mess on it. Yeah, but what if you're in love? Actually in love, not one of those idiotic teenage relationships where you're together for three months. You may not always end up marrying the one you were crazily in love with. Maybe some people won't get married at all. Why dictate a specific lifestyle? People are different. |
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Dec 14 2007, 07:27 AM
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 {ctrl+alt+defeat} Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 528,863 |
But if you REALLY loved someone wouldn't you wait and get married? It's not worth it... the ultimate expression of love is giving someone your virginity... and then you break up eventually?
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Dec 14 2007, 08:46 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Oh sweetheart, sex rarely ends up being the "ultimate expression love". You only live once, don't deny yourself pleasure to give a guy (unlikely he will be a virgin too)your "sacred" gift.
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Dec 14 2007, 08:46 AM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Oh sweetheart, sex rarely ends up being the "ultimate expression love". You only live once, don't deny yourself pleasure to give a guy (unlikely he will be a virgin too)your "sacred" gift.
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