Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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#326
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![]() banana ham! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 ![]() |
who cares?
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#327
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maybe..
If you think its the time for this to happen.. If you lov ethe person that much go for it if not dont. Its all up to you... Free will is a bitch.. I know. |
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*Uronacid* |
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#329
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 ![]() |
It's okay if you're willing to take the consequences after that. If there are any, that is.
Taylor`` |
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#330
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Well i think it depends on how the 2 people feel, me and my girlfriend dont care much about sex after marrage i dont think, were just more of a "when where ready and have our own place" i wouldnt mind after marrage nor would i mind when were settled in, but id rather us be ready before anything. Yeah it depends anyway
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#331
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...you didnt read my journal entry yesterday did you? i specifically saidddd! when we're married and settled down, andd financially stable :)
as you can tell, sex isnt one of my priorities people =P |
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^ Oh.. Are there consequences to.. me typing this? =P
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*This Confession* |
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^pshh yeaaa
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#335
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Darn.
I was hoping to get away with it. ![]() Wow, is there a few new smilies or is it just me? Oh, I already answered this topic, so.... I couldn't really stay on it =x |
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#336
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![]() the bird and the bee sides! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 ![]() |
It all comes down to your values. For me, I'm abstaining until marriage. But that's just what I believe in.
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#337
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your values. your lifestyle. your choice. put me down as a maybe.
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#338
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It's a hard decision. It really is.
i always told myself that i wouldn't do it until i get married.... i didn't keep my word... it was an act of love... it's kind of like... it's now or never.... it sounds very immature but... what if you'll never be able to show him how much you love him? i'm sure there are other ways to express one's feelings but for me.. this is it. *hides* I'm crazy in love with my guy. And we recently set up a couple appointments- to see if we had anything transmittable and to get me on birth control. But even with all that in the works, we're still unsure if this is really a step we want to take. I recently read an article about premaritial sex and how its on the rise. A contributing factor to that was that people are getting married later. When people were getting married around 17 or 18, teenage sex was acceptable. But now most kids put off marriage to finish their studies. So while your grandparents can say they stayed abstinent till they were married, if they married at 18 and they're telling you this when you're 19, it doesn't really help, does it? |
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#339
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I think it depends on your beliefs and opinions and on your maturity. I personally believe the bible on how its wrong and ya know all that stuff...but just because I believe it doesnt mean that is the right way...I think maybe when your ready your ready. married or not. Just an opinion
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whoa..old topic.
I say no because the relationship gets based on sex rather than love or whatever emotion is felt for each other. |
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#341
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In the Western Civilizations, generally society doesn't care. In the Eastern Civilizations... they have morals, family values, respect for one another, and especially most importantly faith in their religions.
Having sex before marriage is a pretty serious thing... but hey in the U.S. alone, sex sells... just watch some MTV and BET you'll see plenty of sexual acts. Bring that shit to the Middle East and Lil Jon would have his head cut off :D Islamic law is a beautiful law I voted no, though I have and still do... if I could start over, I would stay away from sex and pay attention to more important things in life. Once I found the girl I'm currently with... then I would only because she's gonna be my wifey anyways :) |
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It's not for me but I am not here to judge you or tell you what is right for you. I don't know why but I would rather wait.
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if you want sex, have sex. If you think youre gonna go to hell for it. Then I'd advise you not to. One day you might land on a gospel channel and hear a song that sounds like it was made for you to feel bad, and you will regret it.
^ Oh.. Are there consequences to.. me typing this? =P lmao, you probably just wasted 10 seconds of your life. lol In the Western Civilizations, generally society doesn't care. In the Eastern Civilizations... they have morals, family values, respect for one another, and especially most importantly faith in their religions. Having sex before marriage is a pretty serious thing... but hey in the U.S. alone, sex sells... just watch some MTV and BET you'll see plenty of sexual acts. Bring that shit to the Middle East and Lil Jon would have his head cut off :D Islamic law is a beautiful law I voted no, though I have and still do... if I could start over, I would stay away from sex and pay attention to more important things in life. Once I found the girl I'm currently with... then I would only because she's gonna be my wifey anyways :) Uh oh I see you |
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#344
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Even though I am going to wait to have sex with my boyfriend until we get married, I chose that premarital sex is okay. In my opinion, if you are going to have sex, you just have to love someone. And love is not defined by marriage, it's just defined by, well, the love that you two share. For part of my life I wasn't even thinking about getting married, I would just have a boyfriend and not tie either of us down (I was really just paranoid about the divorce rates, plus I did not want to have a wedding and get my relatives all riled up). I think part of it is that if you get married, people think that you are dedicated enough to the person and that marriage means you are in love, but that simply isn't true. Just look at how many people get divorced. And just because you wait until marriage to have sex it doesn't mean your relationship will be better for it.
I believe that premarital sex is okay if you have been with the person a long time, know them very well and their history, and love them very much. The reason I'm waiting until marriage with my boyfriend is because we want to wait until we are older and mature enough, and our marriage will mark the point when we are mature enough. I'm not doing it simply for religious beliefs or anything. Basically, sex is about love, not marriage. Some people just have a very, very distorted view on what love is, so sometimes waiting for marriage is a better choice to make sure both of you aren't doing it simply for the sex. Haha, I guess you could say it's a good way to wield out the jerks ![]() |
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#345
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I say who cares. If you love the person..lol then go for it..if your in highschool..dont go for it.
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#346
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It depends on what you call it a marriage.
Is it when you fall madly in love with another person and vow to love him/her and cherish him/her... or When you have a typical fancy ceremony and collect a certificate from the government? HMMMM YOU DECIDE. I think you know what I think. |
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#347
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Let me spill this out to all of you who read this..
I am getting alot of the same questions and thoughts on this, and for my thoughts on this.. I understand the causes of sex, and what will bring.. Personality as for the readings about doctors and religion and all this stuff I hear people talking about, and studies..The only way you will be effected or get aids and all that stuff is if your not protected or your not using a condom, yes sometimes things happen it may break if your not careful, but before you do anything like having sex.. Make sure your partner is clean, make sure you go to the doctor and get a check up and see if you are effected before you do so.. The best way to be safe is to protect yourself, use a condom and make sure your partner is clean and you are to, these are ways and steps to protect yourself.. If you want information and ways to be safe.. You can read about it on sites and ways to show you things you need to learn.. The reason why people do what they do is because everyone does it..Also they don't protect them self's, and that is why people are pregnant and then also jumping from partner to partner doing the same stuff, also spreads disease and other things.. You honestly don't know the facts and what really shows.. Also about religion.. I know if your a Christian and want to follow God's rules and do what is right.. I think saving self for marriage is good and yes its in the books and all that, but sometimes in life..We make mistakes, things happen and so God said in the bible he will forgive you for your sins or for what you done wrong.. We all make mistakes, where not perfect, and some people who go around to have sex for the hell of it, by meaning doing it because they want to and not really being safe or protected about it..Chances are.. You live up to the reasonability to go through consequences in the actions you did by not doing what was right.. That is what is shows.. If you read what it talks about the causes and studies shown.. You will know the true facts, its all in there.. You just have to be wise and have wisdom and know what your doing.. -Annah |
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#348
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i think it really depends on the relationship and if you're ready for it and it's possible not consequences. but that's just me. the purpose of sex in marriage (according to the Bible) say its for procriating.. and if youre not going to do so.. then what are you waiting for?
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#349
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moooo???
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#350
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Well me this is going to sound so weird but i think its ok i mean who cares it sex yu going to have it anyways one way or the other .But i would reccomend you wait for the right person.
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