Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 Sep 25 2005, 03:49 PM
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no...girls weren't intended to get pregnant during school or at a very young age, and also have the guy leave her cuz they're not married.
plus if everyone had sex with only their wife only after marriage...there wouldn't be any STDs and millions of ppl dying. |
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Sep 27 2005, 09:10 AM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
i dont think you should have sex before ur married. thats just something i believe.
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Feb 10 2006, 08:21 PM
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 I really love her when she < Smiles > Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,228 |
well....no. But then..maybe? I'm not sure. For me? probably not. unless...hmmm.
I'd say try to hold off until marriege, cause what if some mistake happens and you get pregnant or what knot? plus wouldn't it be nice to only sleep with one person your whole life instead of knowing you slept with someone else and living with that guilt? I'm not sure tho, so I answered maybe. |
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Feb 10 2006, 11:07 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
It's when you're ready that counts.
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Feb 11 2006, 06:07 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
^that's true, but someone might think they're ready but they're not really ready...haha ah well that's their fault now isn't it? i just...would rather wait...haha
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| *mipadi* |
Feb 11 2006, 07:45 PM
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QUOTE(|_ittle flying cow @ Feb 10 2006, 8:21 PM) I'd say try to hold off until marriege, cause what if some mistake happens and you get pregnant or what knot? plus wouldn't it be nice to only sleep with one person your whole life instead of knowing you slept with someone else and living with that guilt?  Why should you feel guilty for sleeping with someone else? |
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Feb 11 2006, 10:05 PM
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As a christian I thnk it's wrong. If you sleep with more than one person your going to natually compare. I wouldn't want to do that to my future husband because I wouldn't want him to do it to me.
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 18 2006, 01:24 PM
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yes yes yes yes yes.. just love the person. ♥
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Feb 18 2006, 02:28 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
No, premartital sex isn't okay. It just causes more problems.. like pregnancy, trust, STDs, etc. Plus, in the Bible
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Feb 20 2006, 12:12 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(xl0stxThoughtx @ Feb 18 2006, 12:28 PM) No, premartital sex isn't okay. It just causes more problems.. like pregnancy, trust, STDs, etc. Plus, in the Bible 1. If you practice safe sex, you can eliminate the risks. Things like condoms and birth control are there for a reason. 2. The Bible shouldn't determine your life. |
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Feb 20 2006, 11:22 AM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I think it's ok as long as you actually love the person. I'm not religious so all of the married and god crap doesn't matter to me, just the people's feelings for each other.
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Feb 21 2006, 12:41 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Yes, it's okay IMO. It varies from beliefs and such, and I could understand saving until marriage, but IMO safe sex before marriage is alright.
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Feb 21 2006, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE Heh, sorry for you guys and gals, I dont want to dabate or anything, i only have some words, Lets say you didnt have any contact with anyone before marriage, you found Mr. Perfect he makes you happy and it seems to be the perfect man in your life, you do marry with him but he doesnt make you feel like a Woman in bed, he is not so good in bed, what you will do? stay with him because you married ? go out and seek for someone else to satisfy you in bed? this are things that DO happen, that's why even its not a good idea, to make yourself an idea about this "sexual life" and those you have to have contact with other men's before marriage so you know better how to choose your husband, and this way you wont be in the sittuation to cheat your husband with someone else so you can feel better or to have the satisfaction that your husband should give you and nor anyone else. Heh, some things can't be explained in words ... Right, but a husband could just as easily leave a wife. I say if you're ready, like you know 100% that you won't regret it the next day and you know the consequences of it, then why not? I've done it. I'm in love, and I know that wasn't meant for anyone else but him, so why should I regret it? I don't plan on doing it with anybody else, so I don't see anything wrong with it. It was my own personal choice. |
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Feb 22 2006, 12:24 AM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
....it destroys.
I've dealt with people both male and female emotionally and psychologically about this subject... ...still a virgin here....and happier than ever. I'm in no rush. I have a career to work on rather than my skills in bed. ^_^. LHHRS Kevyn @-)------- |
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Feb 22 2006, 01:02 AM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
Hmm. Too late for some of us. In my opinion it's all good. I'm not married yet, and I'm kool lol. As long as you wrap that willy.
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Feb 22 2006, 09:30 AM
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im 17 and im not a virgin at all!! theres nothing wrong with that at all the way i see it. but you also have to think about the effects of it too, like a kid and other things, i said i wasnt gona have sex until i was married and i did. my biggest regret to be honest.
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Feb 22 2006, 04:17 PM
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 Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
hell yea if its what you want!!! just be safe and hav fun!!!!
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Feb 24 2006, 11:37 PM
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errh maybe.
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Feb 25 2006, 11:28 PM
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i dont really think itz dat wrong but no matter wut i think other ppl still do it
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Feb 26 2006, 03:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,584 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,748 |
i used to believe sex only after marriage but since all my friends are doing it...its ok as long as its w/ a person you love who u know wont hurt you ..heh..even tho my friends are just having sex w/ whoever =\ ..but im not gonna have sex until i actually like/love the guy..blahblah ..whether its before or after marriage..
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Feb 26 2006, 06:20 PM
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 the one lol Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 |
whats with the mooing? as one of our answers?
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Mar 3 2006, 07:14 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
when one is ready when should have it. it may be at 16, 18, 20, 35... or whenever. or one may never want to do it.
imma virgin. |
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Mar 5 2006, 01:12 AM
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i always knew about the risk of getting hiv and stds but i didnt realize how EASILY it was until sex ed-- changed my whole perspective so i told myself that i would wait until marriage but if not then i would wait until i'm in a good and solid long term relationship with someone. oh, and remembering to get any possible partners tested before anything like that happens!
stay safe, guys! 
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Mar 5 2006, 07:51 PM
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 Call me C.Annie Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 |
For me, it really just depends on my religion. Im Catholic and we believe that sex is suppost to be saved for marriage. So no, to me, premarital sex is not ok.
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Mar 5 2006, 07:57 PM
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 i'll be just fine Group: Member Posts: 322 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,428 |
Personally for me it's a no, but if someone else were to go and have sex before they were married I really wouldn't care. It's there own choice.
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