Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 May 29 2005, 10:50 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687  |
Sex is Sex and Sex is good so just wrap it up and ure good to go =D
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May 29 2005, 10:57 PM
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bebeexbroken Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,383 |
do you know what premarital sex does to you? are you ready to take on the responsibilities from the consequences out of this? are you? do you know how many babies are put up for adoption because of this? are you willing to give up a life of fun just to raise a baby? do you believe in the Bible and God? when you answer all of these questions then think about it and then decide what to do, because i can't stop you but you can.
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May 29 2005, 10:59 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,757 |
like, premarital sex is pretty much the norm in the world of today...and there really is no difference whether or not a couple is married...if they love each other, let 'em show it!
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Jun 5 2005, 02:02 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
no. God gave sex as a gift to married couples...
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Jun 6 2005, 10:15 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
I dont plan on having sex before Im married.
But... Whatever happens, happens. |
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Jun 6 2005, 11:41 PM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
its too common and it happens everyday.
i guess i am neutral too..i mean sex has its good sides and bad. perhaps one more than the other, but its really up to how you value each side. Ofcouse sex has its concequences, everyone knows. and by making the decision to go ahead and do it you are saying that you are absolutely ready to take ANY possible concequences, kina like how xquizit argued. And when sex gets into a relationship it can complicate things too, like other members hav already said. Trust and all that crap come in. I wouldnt say its the smartest thing to do. However, you can be smart about it, if you are ready and think you are capable of handeling it. Sex is the opening of new opportunity and of emotional courting. It is a beautiful thing if done for the right purposes. As long as its not inflicting against your own personal or religious morals, i dont think theres too much of a problem, as long as you play it safe. |
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Jun 19 2005, 07:47 AM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
it is what it is. People do it.
When sex enters my relationships, I prefer to be for emotional reasons. Sometimes, though, physicality is a wonderful thing. |
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Jun 24 2005, 12:53 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
its depends
some people don't want to get married, so does that mean they can never have sex? i'm planing on saving myself until i'm married, but at the sametime...i'll do it when i want to if i'm like 40 and not married...well i'm prolly gonna do it as long as you really do want to...theres nothing wring with it |
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Jun 24 2005, 03:01 AM
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 I wanna be roman Group: Member Posts: 1,844 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 989 |
Maybe I've been in too many morality and religion classes for my own good, but i am anti premarital sex
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Aug 8 2005, 09:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 197,298 |
no nota not ok
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Aug 8 2005, 10:30 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
it seems wrong to those who have religions who disapprove of it. i guess it wouldn't really matter as long as you are ready to committ, and in my opinion no it doesnt seem okay.
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Aug 9 2005, 06:47 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
hmm... no... I'm not in favor... yeah, old-fashioned, but i'm raised that way
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 9 2005, 07:26 AM
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I'm not opposed to it. I think sex is fine as long as both parties are responsible. I'm not into casual or promiscuous sex, though, so as long as it is in the confines of a serious relationship, I don't care whether the couple is married or not.
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Aug 9 2005, 08:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,641 |
big NO NO ....but then u never know.. but i wish to be strong enuff to stay a virgin till i get married :)
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Aug 14 2005, 09:12 PM
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 mon cheri amour x Group: Member Posts: 2,349 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,530 |
personally, i'd rather wait `till marriage.. it makes me feel more respectable
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 15 2005, 01:24 AM
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Ditto on what Michael said.
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Aug 19 2005, 09:34 PM
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 **I am Hax0r** Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 192,907 |
u know at first i said yes...but now.. i realize..it isnt ok...reading this post has really opened my eyes and im not just saying that
hardly anyone here said it was ok..now i know it isnt, and b4 i couldnt wait to have sex with my gf again bc it feels so good and its like u have a connection.. but u know..thats changed now..and..if she doesnt like it tuff shit u guys helped me realize thnx appreciate it peeps... |
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Aug 20 2005, 01:30 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
no
QUOTE(ichigofan @ May 29 2005, 7:50 PM) Sex is Sex and Sex is good so just wrap it up and ure good to go =D  Even though a person have hiv/aids and not letting other people knowing it? |
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Aug 21 2005, 01:02 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
bleh.. i believe if you want to do it.. then go ahead..
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Aug 22 2005, 11:57 AM
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 You just let me die. Bastard. Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,197 |
it really shouldnt matter i mean sex is there to be enjoyed yah? its a consetual thing. share love? do it then or of course there is nother option but thats not good for ones consious
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Aug 23 2005, 01:17 AM
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 SAXY kathy Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Mar 8 2004, 7:49 AM) I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married. So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong. totally agree. i'm a born again christian. i dont even believe in high school relationships. 
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Aug 23 2005, 01:42 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
hmm, I donno. For me I might wait till after mariege...I just don't know. But most deffinitly I am waiting till I'm at least 20 before I have sex, and ofcourse I won't do it if I'm nto ready and if I havn't known my bf for at least a year...or at least long enough to know we really love each other. I donno, I guess I'll just see what I want to do when the time comes. But if I wait till marriege than that's great too, I agree with both a little I just donno...
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Aug 23 2005, 02:30 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
I voted who cares.
If the person wants to have sex before marriage then let them. |
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Aug 23 2005, 09:21 PM
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 HOY!!!!! Group: Member Posts: 268 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,098 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Mar 8 2004, 10:49 AM) I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married. So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong. praise God. 
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Aug 24 2005, 09:58 AM
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QUOTE(omg_melface @ Mar 28 2004, 1:04 AM) I believe in it... your choice... i think sex is overrated. amen. -- i'm atheist so i'm not into the whole "god" and "you're breaking rules". so many people have gotten knocked up at my hillbilly of a school because they try the pull out method, but if you're ready for intercourse, be my guest. just be ready for the consequences, guilt and regret. coming from your b-r-a-i-n* *"Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... -- just wait till college you won't be sticking to those "promises" to yourself. beer is one hell of a difference. |
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