Premarital Sex, Yes or No? Options

[thecolorpink016]

if you are comfortable with yourself and who you're having sex with and you're safe about it.. having premarital sex is fine. waiting until you're married shouldn't matter.. you may end up getting divorced after your prime and wish you had done it when you had the chance.

[twelveislands]

personally, i dont believe in waiting until youre married to have sex. sex is something special that you should share with someone you love. (that was a lot of s words) but the first person you love, and want to share that with, isnt going to necessarily be the same person you marry down the road. as long as you are having safe sex and understand the responsibilities and consequences, i think its ok.

Said it in one.

[kryzcoak47luv666]

u should test drive the car before you buy it!
i thinks its ok as long as u know u won't regret it

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married.

So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong.

Amen to that!

you took the words right out of my mouth girl! but people still do it...no matter wat the bible says.

No it's not okay. I believe you should hold off the sex until you get married to the person you love. Of course tempation is always there, but it means alot more when you wait.

soooooooooooooooooooooooooo true!

[yeseulx3]

no, i don't think premarital sex is okay.
it's better if you keep your virginity for that perfect someone.
then, you won't have to worry about regrets...
and it could be perfect.
of course there would be temptation; there always is.
but it helps us to have self-control.

[xMayleex]

I dont think its okay but i dont think its bad either, people make false promises by saying they will stay virgins until they are married but they end doing it before that.

[yeseulx3]

people make false promises by saying they will stay virgins until they are married but they end doing it before that.

only some people.

[belg]

always remember .. everytime u have sex, u give a piece of u... ur soul.... so it isnt good to have sex when you havent celebrated the sacrament of matrimony... sex is lovelier when u share it with your God's-Will.

[WhiteLotus*]

I don't think pre-maritial sex is alright.

I'm Catholic here, so I'm going to crack out the bibilical-ness terms.

God gave our sexual pleasures so that we can use them for a person whom we deeply love, and marriage is the sacrament that binds two people together to become one. Sure, there are temptations, but sex is a lot more meaningful when it is saved for marriage.

Plus there are bunch of good reasons why people that aren't married shouldn't have sex, such as pregnancies, STDS, etc.

I beliee that if you're going to have sex, you're going to have to be ready for any consequences that come up. I'm not saying childbirth is a bad thing; it's a beautiful thing, but it can be a consequence if you intended not to have a baby.

So in full regard, pre-maritial sex in my book is a no-no; it's a bad thing.

[Rachel]

I think I have posted in here before but I will say it again

If you know that you are in real, true love and you trust this person completely and you are ready and willing to have sex, then go ahead. While in some relationships sex may ruin everything, in the strong ones, it doesn't. It made my relationship stronger. I love him even more now.

[d0rkbaby]

i believe that sex should be saved for when your married. and if your being pressured then obviously there is something that you and your partner have to work on. cause i dont believe that sex should be forced. it should be something that you both want to do.

[canny]

Surprised to see so many NOs

[Kiss_me_Im_Irish]

I think you should wait until marriage because alot of people in this country throw the word love around, and you can still get STD's even if you use protection, not to mention the fact that after you break up with the person it'll be alot harder to move on.

[Kneuklid Romance]

I'm 21 and still a virgin...go believe that. Im' very proud of myself...I'm very moral and very upbrought and I blame that on the fact that my body treats me well...

I am for waiting until marriage as well.

-Kevyn

[HoodieObsessed]

well...I said "maybe" because...well...if you know you are going to marry someone it'd be kinda hard to wait woudln't it? . ....hmmm, I dont' really care about the religion thing in the bibble cause, dun dun dun I'm athiest, so that doen'st have any effect on me, either way I'm going to hell (I don't actually beleive that obviusly because there is no heaven or hell, I just say that to make other religious ppl go ) but I think it is important to wait...or at least dont' jsut jump into sex as soon as you start a relationship with someone, wait till it evolves and you know what your'e doing, wait till you're ready

bu tI'm a virgin and 14 so I Guess I dont' really knwo yet waht I Wanna do...I'm jsut not sure...

personally, i dont believe in waiting until youre married to have sex. sex is something special that you should share with someone you love. (that was a lot of s words) but the first person you love, and want to share that with, isnt going to necessarily be the same person you marry down the road. as long as you are having safe sex and understand the responsibilities and consequences, i think its ok.

I should ahve jsut quoted you at the begining, th'ats EXACTLY what IW as trying to say, you just said it better

[Kneuklid Romance]

Surprised to see so many NOs

Suprised? That's the #1 problem this teenage society faces...you have no idea how many girls say "yeah right Kevyn." when i tell them I'm a virgin...and that's sad. It's very sad and depressing to see such a society going down in flames morally.

-Kevyn

[gladz612]

well i'm fine with having sex before marriage... it's part of life i think.

[TheloniousMonk]

Damn straight sex before marriage. Make love not war.

[Ballpointpencil]

I don't think it is okay.

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

There are certain exceptions to the rule of premarital sex.

But my main focus is homosexuals.

For those of you that keep up with what's going on in America, there have been great issues on the deal of same-sex marriage. Now, obviously, if it is illegalised in the States, there really is no marriage to look forward to because you are homosexual, and therefore: no sex. Premarital sex on the neutral side.

[MetalChick77]

I think its okay.

[bad_girl]

i chose who cares. people do it anyway, no matter what others or the bible says. some people just cant put aside their sexual needs till after their marriage.

[Shana_Kru]

the fact is sex is good wetha the bible says wait or not....

[gothicdork]

I voted moo.....just to be silly. *sweatdrops* I would have to agree with some of the people who voted no...but that would make me a hypocrite. Its really a choice to the person giving it up. Yes it is a special thing when you first have it ..but for the girl(s) (like myself and others) the first time always has some pain to go along with it. It kinda makes your "partner" nervous becaue they're trying not to hurt you but also trying to please you at the same time. BUT THE CHOICE IS ULTIMATELY YOURS!!!!!

[dreamerOi]

i'm just neutral i suppose but i guess i would like to save it. but if i am ready i guess it happens but i dont know. but the person i have sex with is the person i know ill love for as long as i can.