Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 Feb 25 2005, 07:12 PM
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if your up to it. ur choice.
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Feb 25 2005, 07:13 PM
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I won't know because i don't go to church. but i would save sex 'til marriage.
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Feb 25 2005, 09:37 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
yes im all for it =D
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Feb 26 2005, 05:14 AM
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 I watch you while you sleep. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,068 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,685 |
<-- Straight-edge
xo, Pauline |
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Feb 26 2005, 02:23 PM
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 the Ray... it filters through Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 |
I think it's probably wrong, but I'd jump at an opportunity to have sex. What if I never got married?
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Feb 26 2005, 09:32 PM
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I think sex is the most intimate, precious thing you can give to anyone. Your virginity is, really, the ONLY thing you have complete control over. It's the only thing you own. I'm not saying that you have to wait until your married, but I think you should save it for the right person, when you're completely ready to deal with all of the 'after' effects. Just make sure it's not something you'll regret later.
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Feb 26 2005, 10:18 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
well i did have premarital sex, but now that i have, i wish i hadnt, and also, considering the fact that i have, i dont think..well..i dont think its right, but i dont think its wrong either..i think if the two people really thought about what they were about to do and they took in ALL the considerations and didnt think "it would never happen to me" and they used protection..it would be somewhat okay..hm..i guess i dont know how to explain myself too well..and this is contradicting itself, but
i dont think its right, but i dont think its wrong either |
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Mar 23 2005, 04:28 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Mar 8 2004, 10:49 AM) I had been having sex since I was 16 and I've recently decided to become a born again virgin because the bible says that that is God's intention. Sex is God's gift and it is not meant to be used until you find that perfect partner and after you are married. So I say, no, premarital sex is not ok. And I think two people can be even more intimate and more trusting of each other if they hold off on sex. Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong.  Awwww =] I completely agree with what you said. |
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Mar 23 2005, 05:01 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i know i'm probably not gonna wait till marriage, cause for me, i just think it's absurd to wait till i'm 30/late 20s/whenever i get married. i know i'm not gonna during high school; that's just my personal morals. but i don't put down those who do wait, i don't care. just wait till whenever you want.
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Mar 23 2005, 05:14 PM
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pffft whenever you feel your ready.....
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Mar 24 2005, 01:01 AM
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sex... wow. i'm a christian and have always regarded premarital sex as wrong and against the bible. but lately, although i don't think it is right, it's just sort of like what's the point in waiting? i can't die a virgin and i know i don't want to get married or have kids. and, i don't really regard sex as "making love." sure, it's intimate, but if i were to have sex, it'd be for the pleasure of it, not to express my love to someone else. but i also know that you shouldn't be really young when you lose your virginity because i've heard how much it can effect you.
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Mar 24 2005, 10:51 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
Wrong wrong wrong
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Mar 25 2005, 11:09 AM
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i'm not religious so i don't really care for that "sex after marriage" thing
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Mar 26 2005, 06:49 AM
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im with the who cares crowd...
but i agree... sex will complicate things so its best to do it when you can be responsible for your actions |
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Mar 26 2005, 12:19 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
as long as you dont get pregant.
i want to try and save it for marriage though |
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Mar 26 2005, 01:48 PM
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 Like a rhinestone cowboy. Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,431 |
the answer for me is who cares? i mean, yeah, the world would probably be a bit less crowded, and a lot less concerned about aids if we all chose to wait till marriage. but then the divorce rate is above 50% and most divorcees get married again. so it really wouldnt matter.
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Mar 26 2005, 01:48 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
Yes of course it is
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Mar 26 2005, 02:07 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
I think premarital sex is fine, but then again, I have no beliefs in anything, so thats just me..
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Mar 26 2005, 02:54 PM
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If you think the person's right for you, go for it.
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Apr 4 2005, 03:22 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
In my opinion, abstinence is the way to go, but that doesn't mean I think ppl who choose to engage in premarital sex are going to hell.
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Apr 4 2005, 03:52 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i'm for and against it. i think you should if you're truly in love with that person & know what could happen as a result of your actions. Not puppy love but, REAL LOVE. i think waiting as long as you can is the best. i wish i would have because i regret my first time...not my 2nd or 3rd though
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Apr 4 2005, 03:57 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
No it's not okay. I believe you should hold off the sex until you get married to the person you love. Of course tempation is always there, but it means alot more when you wait.
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Apr 4 2005, 05:42 PM
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personally, i dont believe in waiting until youre married to have sex. sex is something special that you should share with someone you love. (that was a lot of s words) but the first person you love, and want to share that with, isnt going to necessarily be the same person you marry down the road. as long as you are having safe sex and understand the responsibilities and consequences, i think its ok.
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Apr 10 2005, 04:48 PM
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mhm.. drugs are bad, mmkay?
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Apr 10 2005, 06:11 PM
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 just chillin Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,562 |
personally, i dont care. i really dont have a stand on it. if u really feel like it, then go ahead! if not, well thats ur choice...
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