how do u know if a guy likes you Options

[iced__cappucino]

they go "I like You! "..lol i dunno. never had a bf

[lbasketball1423]

Depends what kinda guy they are. I tend to attract that are either assholes, or really really shy guys. The assholes critize everything you do and treat you like crap, thinking somehow that'll attract girls. It's stupid really. Then there are these really sweet guys that keep quiet and never say anything to you. They either bottle it up or write these sappy little poems, but you eventually find out. Lots of examples, I could go on for hours, but basically it really depends on the guy.

wat if he's popular?

[lbasketball1423]

i'm not sure how to know if a guy likes you.

me either
lol

[CUTEBUNNY160]

me either
lol

me too....

[lbasketball1423]

Hey, all you guys out there can you reply as quickly as possible..

Last week i was stuck at home and i started talking to a guy Ive known for a long time but have never really talked to on IM, we talked for close to 3 hrs. He mentioned a couple times how he was sad that he was single for valentines day.. On monday at school he mentioned our 3 hr convo a couple times and waited to walk with me after our class together, we talked before he left to his locker....the next day was semiformal day and i was wearing a fairly short skirt and he said "belt skirt" referrign to a part of our convo because i had said i tried it on, he thought it was funny.. when i got home i went on IM and he started talking to me and said thats one short skirt..etc. and we talked for awhile and we got talking about food (haha yah i know :P) and he said oh were all dressed up we should go out...he was joking of course (it was the middle of a snowstorm) but i still thought it was cute...later he asked me if i had ever had a b/f, i said no becase i havent and hes like REALLY, why, i gave him various reasons as to why i thought so  and he tells me he still doesnt know why because im smart pretty funny and nice...later he said we'd have to change that with a wink face  we talked for awhile longer and kinda wandered away from the topic... our last couple convos he hasnt said much on that topic hes been away from school for a couple days now and he hasnt been on IM, i think his gramma died, he had told me she was really sick   but...do you think he really likes me, i dont know i think so but this guy is really outta my league..

i was single on valentines day too

[lbasketball1423]

he flirts constantly and gives you direct hints.

are these signs that he likes me? He flirted with me, wrote hi on my binder, slapped my hand, prank called me well he didn’t his friends did, made a face at me so I would laugh or he was inside and I wasn’t or something like that, asked for money and didn’t pay me back yet, argued over me, asked for a pen a few times, probably talked about me, read my paper for me, kept me from falling a sleep in class, he’s always showing off when I am around, he embarrassed me, he thought my scare was cool, smiled from the cross the room, made eye contact with a smile, teased me, was happy to hear that I wanted him to come to my party, invited me to a fake party with only guys well he didn’t his friends did, HE WAS AN JERK, asked what was our L.A homework, also said come on don’t do that to me, went to sit next to me, either he gave his peppermint to me or it was someone else but I’m almost positive it was him, he walked behind me on the way home, I think he and his buds whistled or yelled out yeah at the prep rally, he asked what the L.A homework was again, said hi to me and he was a chatter box today when I was trying to do homework but he was cute while he was talking I think it was kind of flirting with me, he said my name a few times and I smiled, borrowed another pen again, he was @ Rec-hall checking me out and was following me,was at school & waved at me, and looked at me twice. :dry:sum1 reply plz

[Litt0_TeeZy]

like everybody says...it depends on the person, you can't say one thing for everyone kuz not everyone's the same. basically the only thing you can trust is when he tells you he likes you....

[_confuzed_]

i would say all of them mixed together. just look for the hints and when you catch more than a few, tell him how you feel. or, if you want to play smooth, drop some more dramatic hints.

[Teesa]

yeah, it's all of the above..because everyone flirts and hugs, but when it's combined with shyness and things like that, it's different.

[yukichan]

well it really depends on his personality. Like last year i used to be really shy around girls, and then i started to like this 1 girl and when we were together i got really shy. But, now i like the same girl and i'm not shy around her cuase shes one of my best friends. anyway what i think is that the guy will prolly try and impress you or ilke act differently around you. smiling doesnt mean anything, could be just being friendly and hugs doesnt really mean much since there usualy friendly hugs to people.

i agree...it depends on the personality..and please dont double post...

[Elvis_IzBack]

yeh i think smiling with eyes, a lot of eye contact, is definately a sighn he likes u, and when ure nearbye he gets all coy and shy he cant look at u anymore, because he doesnt want to make it obvious. ;P

[xOx_aGnEs]

i wud say flirting, becuase if i like a guy i flirt with them

[Laotian_Doll]

well...I think it's all of the above. But i'm not so sure about the flirting thing. Cuz what if the guy is a flirt? He just likes to flirt with girls? I guess it depends on the guys personality, how he usually acts.

[runforfun529]

Usually a guy gets shy around me if he likes me.

[Elvis_IzBack]

I found all this from sum mad site, but its quite intersting so check it out-


Most experts agree that it takes us less than 5 minutes to decide if we are attracted to someone.

55% of the message we get from someone comes through our body language


38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice


and a pathetic 7% is from what we're actually saying!


'If you're not feeling self-conscious by now, you should be. To make you completely paranoid, here's another frightening thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80% of their first impression of you! '



-Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger - it widens at the bottom to include the the body. The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from one eye to eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.

If someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it's very, very sexy because you can't help but think I wonder if they're imagining what it would be like to kiss me. Which is usually exactly what they are thinking, if they're looking intently at your mouth!


The eyebrow flash -
When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they are equally attracted to us, they raise their eyebrows in return. Never noticed? It's not surprising since the whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second!

The trick is to watch for it when you meet someone new you are interested in. Even better, tell them you're interested on a subconscious level by extending your eyebrow flash for up to one second - deliberately raise them while catching their eye for full impact.

Blinking

If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases and so does their blink rate. If you want to up the odds in your favor, try increasing the blink rate of the person you're talking to, by blinking more yourself. If the person likes you, they'll unconsciously try to match your blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other!



hope sum of this helped!

[coughdroppaddict]

i think it's when he treats you differently than he does other girlrs, and when his friends act differently also. plus, he'll try to impress you.

[smyleefaceangel]

I found all this from sum mad site, but its quite intersting so check it out-
Most experts agree that it takes us less than 5 minutes to decide if we are attracted to someone.

55% of the message we get from someone comes through our body language
38% is from the tone, speed and inflection of our voice
and a pathetic 7% is from what we're actually saying!
'If you're not feeling self-conscious by now, you should be. To make you completely paranoid, here's another frightening thought. Before you've even spoken to the person you've got your eye on, the way you've walked and stood is more than 80% of their first impression of you! '
-Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger - it widens at the bottom to include the the body. The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from one eye to eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.

If someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it's very, very sexy because you can't help but think I wonder if they're imagining what it would be like to kiss me. Which is usually exactly what they are thinking, if they're looking intently at your mouth!
The eyebrow flash -
    When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they are equally attracted to us, they raise their eyebrows in return. Never noticed? It's not surprising since the whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second!

The trick is to watch for it when you meet someone new you are interested in. Even better, tell them you're interested on a subconscious level by extending your eyebrow flash for up to one second - deliberately raise them while catching their eye for full impact.

Blinking

If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases and so does their blink rate. If you want to up the odds in your favor, try increasing the blink rate of the person you're talking to, by blinking more yourself. If the person likes you, they'll unconsciously try to match your blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other!
hope sum of this helped!

wow that really helped!!! Thanx!!!!

[bbyunique]

its all of the above but mostly, if he flirts with you and gets shy around you. if he treats you differently than other girls and when you see him across from you talkin to his boys, and they all look at you and turn away and say something and have no mean faces. lol

[becomingAWARE]

he will have a nice, genuine smile, and single you out from your friends. He will try to make you laugh, and call you for no good reason, just to ask how your day was and say funny little things and make you tell your sister you are talking to god [okay, maybe not that part].
He will give you hugs just because it is friday, and make his conversations with you more interesting than with the rest of your friends.
well, thats how I knew anyway [sorry, im a high from from seeing this boy today].

a give away for every girl: He will smile alot, and try to make you laugh. He will pay more attention to you than other people. And most of the time, people will tell you.

[sheepy]

because it's obvious.

[AnnahhbeL]

i think hugging you and acting shy around you. trust me, i KNOW.

[ktsou11]

i think its when he flirts with you and when he always finds a way to touch you. not like in a sick perverted way but like hugs and stuff.

[technicolour]

You can't really point out one thing..you just KNOW

[shrikeuk]

You ever tryed looking at his package?

Im a guy and well lets just say when ever i see a girl i like im like walking round with a tent down below! - my gf then punishes me for looking at other girls! lol

[mmhmichelle]

i wouldnt know to answer to that poll but i have one. this one guy liked me ALOT so he starred at me everyday..it was freaky. then i got him not to like me by saying i already liked someone. haha.