how far have you gone?, and how long did you guys last? |
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 Aug 24 2006, 05:03 AM
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All the way, first time was 15 years old.
My own rule is (and not every guy does this, but I'm one of the rare ones alive) never ask for sex the first time, let the girl tell me that she wants me. I have this time line kinda thing, if a girl wants to sleep with me within a week, I will not bring her home to mom. Why? Because: 1. I didn't ask for sex 2. I never get on that level within a week of dating 3. She wants to sleep with me within a week, can you imagine how many other men she was this easy with? As far as relationships and how long they last even if you have sex, listen in this world morality basically doesn't exist when it comes to respectin one self and especially their body. Now a days with these radio stations, MTV, and BET playin music that basically brainwash children and teenagers into having doin drugs, sellin drugs, fighting, and sadly sex... alot of sex without truely respectin their partner. So now a days sex isn't a big thing, having sex with your partner is not gonna make the relationship last longer, that's no longer an element in the status of a relationship. I've slept with girls within a week or two and find myself sayin, "hey you know what? no way I could have a serious relationship with this girl... it was just too easy". So listen, while you're in a relationship.. do not think about sex. Do not think sex is an important factor in a relationship. Sex is an important factor when you're "MARRIED", especially when you want to have children. Trust me I used to be almost addicted to sex, now I find it needless. Don't get me wrong it happens, but I no longer ask for it... now it's all about how passionate and how hot and heavy it gets when I'm with my lady. Anyways, I'll shut up... I just re-read this and I feel like I'm actin like a love doctor lol |
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Aug 24 2006, 08:18 PM
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Three & a half months. In the midddle.
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Aug 25 2006, 12:36 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
9 months and we've gone let's just say, really far.
 I'm fourteen, but please don't judge? |
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Aug 25 2006, 03:36 PM
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 Giggdy-giggdy-giggdy Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,815 |
I cant pick anything , to shy >.>... [ never really had a gf..]
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Aug 25 2006, 06:59 PM
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4 months and I'm 19 and we've gone far,but no oral sex or sex..so yeah..
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Mar 23 2007, 04:05 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
My boyfriend &I have been dating for almost a year, [T-5 days].
We didn't kiss until we were together for a week, although we wanted to. I think it was about a little over a month before we did any feeling up, or anything like that. A little under three months before we .. preformed oral sex? Lawlzz. That's about it. No penetration, until we're married. =] He's the first guy I did anything with, too. |
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Mar 24 2007, 02:23 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Umm..he fingered me.
5 months, nearly 6 months =] |
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Mar 24 2007, 05:39 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
All the way.
About four months. |
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Mar 27 2007, 01:34 AM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
hm, handjob/fingering.
length: (ohgod) two weeks? it was a hookup.  haha but it was fun while it lasted. don't judge. thanks :] |
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Mar 27 2007, 12:08 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm. half a virgin? lol. 3 months.
//edit. whoops i failed to mention that we're still together. lol :) |
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Mar 27 2007, 06:33 PM
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went all the way almost a year ago when me and my boyfriend were going out for 5ish months... we're still going strong at 1yr 4months. =]
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Mar 28 2007, 10:31 AM
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We've only hugged and held hands. We've been going out for about three weeks now.
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Apr 21 2007, 12:07 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
With my ex, we went all the way after 3 months. It was long distant to start off with so i'm sure it would of been alot sooner if she was local.
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Apr 22 2007, 01:10 AM
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 Eastcoast Andy Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,471 |
we've had sex. . . alot.
and we've been together for 4+ years. |
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Apr 22 2007, 12:02 PM
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with my last boyfriend
sex. we lasted a few weeks i'm not much of a long-term relationship type of person. i actually prefer short relationships over the long ones. i guess i have to wait until a boy comes along who changes that. i haven't been in love. yet |
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Apr 22 2007, 12:30 PM
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four months.
making out. |
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Apr 28 2007, 10:37 PM
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first & only boyfriend so far lasted 5 weeks :X
we started going out right after new years. he kissed me on new years day & it was really romantic. two days later he asked me out. we made out a lot, but nothing more. no clothes off or anything. we broke up but i really wasnt attached. so no broken hearts here =] i'm 14 btw & he's 17. |
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Apr 28 2007, 11:01 PM
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sex. about a year and 3/4 months. stopped keeping track.
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Apr 29 2007, 01:26 AM
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make out; clothes off; feeling. but i dumped him
 oh well.
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Apr 29 2007, 10:22 PM
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QUOTE(ola says hola @ Apr 29 2007, 2:26 AM)  make out; clothes off; feeling. but i dumped him oh well. Did he not throw enough D's for you? |
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Apr 30 2007, 01:50 PM
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 L!NDA :D Group: Member Posts: 16 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,046 |
Me & my bf have been together for almost 5 months and we've gone just a little tiny bit further than making out..not oral sex though :]
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May 1 2007, 06:53 PM
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We've been together for 6 months, 1 week, and 4 days.
We just started making out about a month or two ago. My theory is: If things happen, they happen. Whether we got all the way or not, I'll be happy with him. 
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May 3 2007, 01:59 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,080 |
sex almost everyday.. and no i'm not a slut. i'm 18 and he's the only guy i've ever been with. and i've been with him for 2 years and were engaged for 1 year until today
 but who knows what might happen between us.
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May 27 2007, 08:14 PM
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 i less than three you. Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,773 |
It will be 5 years for us this October and we didnt even have our first kiss til after we had been together for a little over a year and we didnt first have sex until after 2 - 2 1/2 years. i was a virgin and he wasnt.
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May 27 2007, 08:16 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(concreteangel @ May 27 2007, 08:14 PM) It will be 5 years for us this October and we didnt even have our first kiss til after we had been together for a little over a year and we didnt first have sex until after 2 - 2 1/2 years. i was a virgin and he wasnt. D...damn... |
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