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 Apr 8 2005, 05:53 PM
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 SimpLy_MystikaL  Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,608  |
i use to think 2 was my max.. but now my babi is 5 years older... but everythingz ok when ur in love..
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Apr 8 2005, 06:32 PM
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 tHa siiNgLe LiiFe Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,926 |
for now itz 2 yrz.. but it`ll prolly change maybe later on i mean im only 13..
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Apr 8 2005, 08:26 PM
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This is an issue that constantly resurfaces with me and my friends when we discuss relationships.
As a freshman, I was rather popular at my old school and, without knowing how old I was, I began dating an 18 year old senior. Eventually, I told her that Iw as a freshman at the time (14) and she was cool with it. Now, I'm a senior, ready to graduate. Age difference is tricky at this point in my life because a girl can be stacked like a woman but have the mind of a child. Conversely, a girl can be a child and have the mind of a woman. High school is the biggest dilemma because many people, especially girls, are caught up in the drama and nonsense of everyday social contact. Twice more, many can be smart girls but habitually make dumb-ass choices, say dumb-ass thigns and sacrifice their individuality to be dumb-asses. Once I'm in the ladder part of my 20s, I wouldn't sneer at a girl 4 years younger than me. I'd welcome it. As for now, the older, the better. |
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Apr 11 2005, 08:50 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
I think age is something that matters less and less the older you get.
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Apr 11 2005, 08:53 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(Ballpointpencil @ Apr 11 2005, 7:50 PM) I think age is something that matters less and less the older you get.  Thats basically the point I made. 
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Apr 12 2005, 09:25 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
I dont think age really matters i could date someone 10+ years but thats only when i turn 16 lol. I would never go out with anyone old enough to be my dad though, it would be totally gross.
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Apr 12 2005, 05:48 PM
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QUOTE(tungtwista @ Jan 3 2005, 10:47 PM) as of right now 2-3 years.. but im pretty sure when i get older, age wont seen so important, and maybe even 4-7 years? Thats exactly what I was gonna say I'm 17 now, and I say I would date a guy 3 yrs older, 3 years younger, but I think when your older is doesn't matter as much, like once you hit the 25 - 30 range have any of you guys seen that couple on Maury the boy was 13 and the woman was 40 and they got married. I could never be 13 and date someone that old, of course they broke up afterwards. |
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Apr 13 2005, 01:17 PM
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i dont think it matters as long as the two loves each other, and the difference shouldnt be TOO sarcastic..like over 20 years
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Apr 13 2005, 07:33 PM
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i think 3-4 years is good enough. im 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 20.
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Apr 13 2005, 08:41 PM
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Meh i just want someone to care about me.
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Apr 15 2005, 10:03 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
i think 4 years is the best couple year. because my mom n dad is apart by 4 yrs.. and dey had fights, but recovered fast and moved on .
but i think right now for me... its 2 years. =)
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Apr 15 2005, 10:15 PM
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five to six years is okay.
but it just depends on how mature you are. |
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Apr 17 2005, 02:44 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
doesnt really matter as long as the love is real
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Apr 17 2005, 03:46 PM
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i voted for 1 year because
i'm in 8th grade but have gone out with my share of 7th graders. gotta love 'em <3 |
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Apr 22 2006, 02:52 PM
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I'm not interested in older guys, so I guess under a year or two or same age would be fine.
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Apr 22 2006, 02:55 PM
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i honestly could care less
of course i draw the line at over 25-30 year age difference >_< 20 ive gotten used to though stepmom=25 dad= 43 or older >_< |
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Apr 22 2006, 08:35 PM
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I think for me, it's like.. 2 years. Hahaha, but for younger people, 1 year. I think. Blahhhhhh.
Suckaaa |
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Apr 22 2006, 08:54 PM
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It really depends what you want, and how mature you are. If you're 14, and you're some "OMG I'm like SO totally upset that my mom didn't let me go to that party" kind of girl, and you're dating a 21 year old ................. uh, that would be wrong. I see it all the time too. I probably wouldn't go over 5 years, and I'm 17.. My boyfriend's 21, and we've been together for a year and a half.
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Apr 22 2006, 09:33 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
right now at 14 2 years is pretty big. a 16 or 12 year old... how about no to the younger.. and 16...thats not really a good idea...
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Apr 22 2006, 11:10 PM
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 CHRiSTiNA Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 292,717 |
2 year older than me. taht's the limited. 1 year younger than me . that's the limited.
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Apr 22 2006, 11:24 PM
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I dunno..3 years I guess.
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Apr 23 2006, 12:03 AM
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2 yrs. Soooo much happens during your teenage years that anything above that I think the maturity/experince level is different no matter what.
(plus the going away to college thing is tricky...esp annoying when ur a junior and 1/2 yr older means they are either going away in the fall or are already away  ) but ideally any age should work...as said above, the older u get, the less it matters. like a 22 and 28 yr old dating seems pretty ok...a 19 and 13...errr...it happens but not the healthiest thing ever. |
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Apr 23 2006, 01:34 PM
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I think that it depends on your age. In my opinion it's okay for a 20 year old to date a 25 year old. But, it's not okay for a 10 year old to date a 15 year old. It just depends if you are comfortable with the age difference. It's all up to you.
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Apr 27 2006, 12:11 AM
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3 to 4 years.
depends on the person though. |
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Apr 27 2006, 04:25 PM
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The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
My biggest age gap has been 2 years I think but age doesn't bother me .. when I'm 16+ I could date someone 20 years older than me .. as long as you love the person there should be no boundaries but when it comes to people under 16 [thats the age of consent of here] I think they shouldn't date people like who are much older than them .. cause it's strange seeing a girl of 13, dating a guy of 17/18 .. thats just my opinion.
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