how do you get to kno ur crush?, i have a problem |
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 Dec 20 2005, 12:13 AM
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Dont feel bad.. i am the same way.. i cant do anything about my crush.. i cant even befriend his friends because well i have a good reason for that... and also its because ur kinda using them in a way.. and dats not nice..but hey its ur choice.. u gotta do what u gotta do right?
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Dec 20 2005, 10:10 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
Well he was in my fifth period but I got to know him by AIM-just so the first convo. wouldnt be as weird for me..if I were to talk to him in person. And it just went from there, on aim and in person.
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Jan 18 2006, 10:04 PM
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Do you know any of their friends? Find a reason to talk to his friends, so it won't be wierd looking and talking to them at lunch, then when he looks at you smile and say hey.
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Jan 21 2006, 11:03 PM
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well if you catch him looking at him more than like 10 times, it probably means something.
i can't talk to my crushes either. we don't have any classes together. our friends don't really connect with each other. it's just like a secret between us. then pretty soon the guy gets tired... we both move on and i tell myself it wasn't meant to be. LOL so as you can see, no communication will get you nowhere. smile at him. AIM him. go to a dance together. hook up. |
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Jan 23 2006, 09:56 PM
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That's like me. But if you have classes together, get this chance to be in his group or something. If not, try to find out if any of your friends know him. I really don't know either because I'm always too shy to approach my crushes. Luckily, this time he approached me but partially because we were playing a game of Truth and Dare during class.
I know I'm not much help, but I agree with anubis on the drop something "accidently". |
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Jan 25 2006, 10:29 PM
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uhhh` yeah if hes like smilingg , or likee waiting fo you` in the hall or ummm , iono when u guyss pass each otha` he/she walks slower... smiles ! of course , asks you out ! haha lmao =]
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Jan 26 2006, 08:50 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love. Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095 |
okay, get his AIM sn or something... then when you are done talking to him over AIM, tell him that you'll wave to him the next day at school, or sit with him at lunch. Then when you do it, he'll be expecting it so it won't be weird.
At first with the person I like.... I couldn't talk to him either. Then I realized that I had 5 classes with him, so I started to talk to him. Then we got to become pretty good friends and stuff. And then I was sick one time so I asked for his number so he could give me my homework, and now we talk on the phone for an hour or more a day! It's not hard, once you start with the "hi" and "What's up?" it all goes up from there. He won't think you're weird unless you give him a good reason. If he smiles at you, wave or act flirty! Show him that you like him, if he doesn't like you... it tells you that he isn't the right one, and if he does like you, he'll tell you that he likes you back (in most cases). Try to become his friend! |
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Jan 27 2006, 07:09 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well this is how i got to know my now boyfriend.
I told a friend that I liked my crush (my current boyfriend) and I KNEW he would tell my crush. he did and i found out that he liked me too and we talked and started to get to know each other. |
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Jan 27 2006, 08:00 PM
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smile to him:)
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Jan 28 2006, 08:23 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
smile at him. first become his friend. i did that once..then we were together for a while. then he moved.
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Jan 28 2006, 08:35 PM
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tell him. --
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Oct 29 2007, 07:04 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Think of it this way...
What if he were thinking, "Omg should i smile at that girl? What if she thinks i'm retarded?" And then he smiles at you, and you look away. What will he think? 
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Nov 4 2007, 05:00 PM
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oo reall
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Nov 4 2007, 11:47 PM
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I'm the same, I have no idea to talk to my crush either.
But my last crush, who I had no classes with and made it even harder to talk to, I had my friend get his number for me.. and I never had the guts to actually call him until my guy friend called him for me and we just talked about nothing on the phone, we invited him over to hang out with us and he did, surprisingly. We hung out more after that and we became friends since he had a girl, we're still friends. He moved though. So.. in conclusion, my method was having a friend being gutsy enough to talk to your crush first. Just become a friend and let it escalate from there. |
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Nov 5 2007, 12:07 AM
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i know what you mean, it can be hard to get to know someone you like,
but it helps if you have class with him just talk about school, that's easy, and it is something you can relate to, and just try and be outgoing, be confident, and don't think too hard |
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Nov 5 2007, 06:57 AM
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QUOTE(anubis @ Dec 19 2005, 11:54 PM)  go up to him. drop something "accidentally" and then bend down... and SNAP  This post is epic. We have a winnar! |
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Nov 5 2007, 09:19 AM
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 Hey, I'm Mike Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,241 |
just be like... hey boy hey and make out with him
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Nov 6 2007, 10:44 PM
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i would just say hi or w/e , like wave or smile , if i had a class with him him id ask to borrow some paper or notes or w/e things like that , borrow a pen or pencil lol. If its more of a random cute guy in the hall way i would just wave , smile or say hi , and maybe say somthing like " ive seen you around whats your name?" also , i might ask a few freinds if they know who he is or ask about him , thats what i do about my crushes so i know if i actually will like them haha
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