Shyness..., ruins it |
 Jan 22 2005, 02:16 AM
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There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.
I've told a couple of people that aren't in my school about this and they told me to get a mate and...ask him who he likes and sorta do the trick- get him ask me out, but I REALLY can't do this 'cause in my school it's just...almost like a crime to tell people who you like. It spreads to the whole school in less than a day and it's just embarassing...if I do that it'll probably be dead end 'cause he'll freak out- and I don't know if I can deal with all that pressure of people teasing and shyt. The problem though, is we're both shy...and I just hope he could...y'know ask me out or something. Sorry ithis sounds so confusing -but I really dunno wat to do 
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Jan 22 2005, 02:47 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe you should write him a note...or call him. this is hard, cuz i'm not shy.
edit// 1000 post!! yay 
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Jan 22 2005, 02:51 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
^ congrats!!
Well, yeah. Write a note. Or talk to him on AIM? I'm shy, too. But when it comes to the guys I really REALLY like.. I flirt.. a lot. And basically he lets me bother him and draw on his stuff.
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Jan 22 2005, 02:53 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
yeah, it goes around our school in less than a day too. so i never told
 .hehe.. u guys have really got to get over ur shyness. maybe yeah.. get a friend to ask him who he likes. but dont tell the friend that u like him, maybe ask ur friends if any of them knows? |
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Jan 22 2005, 04:09 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 21 2005, 11:47 PM) maybe you should write him a note...or call him. this is hard, cuz i'm not shy. edit// 1000 post!! yay  agreed. a note or poem would be cute stick it in his desk or locker 
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Jan 22 2005, 06:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Is it really lame if I ask him out? I mean is there like a rule or anything that say it's embarassing for a girl to ask a guy out? *shudders*
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Jan 22 2005, 07:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
like the above said, write him a note. no it is not lame if a girl asks a guy out, it's perfectly normal, most guys prefer taht
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Jan 22 2005, 08:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Thanks loads for the advice, guys. I'll try...to write him a note, buh what should I write on it? :satisfied:
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Jan 22 2005, 09:22 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 22 2005, 2:47 AM) maybe you should write him a note...or call him. agree!!! lf your shy, just give him a call. You can make sure that no will know about it, just the two of you. l feel uneasy if my crush was near |
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Jan 22 2005, 10:08 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no..girls asking guys out is NOT lame...ahhaah that's probably cuz i've asked guys out.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:14 AM
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call him or something..aim him..theres lots of stuff you can do
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Jan 22 2005, 03:40 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 21 2005, 9:47 PM) maybe you should write him a note...or call him. this is hard, cuz i'm not shy. edit// 1000 post!! yay i agree...well except for the shy part... |
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Jan 22 2005, 05:17 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
tell him...face to face..
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Jan 22 2005, 05:27 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i'm really shy too. but when i'm with a guy i like, i flirt a lot. i agree- write a note or call, or tell him on AIM.
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Jan 22 2005, 05:50 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Jan 22 2005, 9:22 AM) Thanks loads for the advice, guys. I'll try...to write him a note, buh what should I write on it? :satisfied: Write to him that you like him.. so what if the other people laugh; it's not like they're brave. |
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Jan 22 2005, 06:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
shyness really sucks, like you lose great opportunies and such and yeah it seems like girls always have to make the first move nowadays. but yeah a note is cool.
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Jan 22 2005, 07:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Why don't you just ask him, or call him up? I hate boys that are really shy, then the girl would have to make all the moves.
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Jan 23 2005, 05:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
Thanks for y'all replies.
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Jan 23 2005, 11:31 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
It's never lame to ask someone out. It just shows supreme courage :D
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Jan 23 2005, 12:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
I am shy too, but try to go over your shyness like have a moment that you two would just have a LOT of fun, and that is where you make your move
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Jan 23 2005, 02:55 PM
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yeah i used to be shy, but not so much anymore. if you really like him just try to call him or talk to him or something. just go for it
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Jan 25 2005, 09:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
I said I'd try what you guys said, hey. Thanks but I'm sorry I didn't...i'm just that pathetic you know. It's so hard 'cause after the holidays we had he seems..a little different to what he used to be. Not that I mean it in a bad way, but he seemed to act a little different around me.
Today he talked, flirted a little with me, and for the 3rd time I've known him he's told me my hair is beautiful. I mean, who the hell would say things like that to a girl? I dunno if I'm taking this personally but I just don't know if i should let go or not... It seems like he's more in love with my hair than actually liking me myself.
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Jan 30 2005, 08:04 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
well maybe he really likes u but he duznt really no what to say cuz hes getting nervous so he compliments u about ur hair ya know? :)
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Jan 30 2005, 08:06 PM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
QUOTE me u!
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Jan 30 2005, 09:19 PM
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 its jonny the homicidal maniac!! Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,235 |
QUOTE(xSWEETxCANDiix @ Jan 22 2005, 4:09 AM) agreed. a note or poem would be cute stick it in his desk or locker yep i agree too |
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