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lilJdawg
post Jan 6 2005, 08:35 PM
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I think you should dump him. I mean he did CHEAT on you & what makes you think he won't do it again? WORDS don't count, it's the ACTION that does.
 
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post Jan 6 2005, 11:35 PM
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since he apologized, i think u suld stay with him. if u leave him, it will make him extremely depressed. who knows what happens to him after? ermm.gif

DONT DO IT. WHO SAID PPL DONT DO IT ON ACCIDENT OR SOMETHING? WERE'S THE FORGIVENESS? YOU GUYS ARE SO HARSH.
 
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post Jan 7 2005, 12:55 AM
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everyone deserves a second chance... i wouldn't dump him if i were you. i mean, if you really love him then don't dump him.

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post Jan 7 2005, 02:51 AM
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if you want to give him another chance.

boys are so horny and perverted though sometimes. they just don't understand the true meaning of love and purpose of a relationship. but if he is like mature and all, and you can't "live without him", then yeah go for it? just be careful and dont assume it will never ever happen again because it is possible for it to happen again.
 
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post Jan 7 2005, 09:55 PM
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i guess you should dump him.. but ierno he kinda seems so sincere ><
 
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post Jan 8 2005, 08:41 AM
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this happened to me like a few months ago too. but in my case it was sex he did.

well i think you should give him a chance. think about it. it took him a lot of guts to tell you that he actually cheated on you and i think he really was sorry and truly regreted doing so. if he didnt care for you, he wouldnt have told you.

but if he does it again, then dump him. once is forgivable but twice is never.
 
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post Jan 8 2005, 09:04 AM
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I think you should give him another chance. He sounds really sincere.. 'n if he didn't really like you..he prolly wouldn't have told you in the first place. If he cheats again, however, get rid of him. =]
 
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post Jan 8 2005, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(xtremeliquid @ Jan 6 2005, 10:02 AM)
How old are you?
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I'm 13. I know I'm young but I am more "mature" than regular preppy snobby 7th grade junior high f**kers. Sorry, I hate them all.
 
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post Jan 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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tell him u need a break. then you are ready and when he seems date-able, date him. if you think he's changed and learned his lesson, keep him. he'll never cheat agian.
 
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post Jan 8 2005, 06:54 PM
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who told you....if he told you he is a real man....but if you had to find from someone else then fallen.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 01:00 PM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jan 8 2005, 6:54 PM)
who told you....if he told you he is a real man....but if you had to find from someone else then fallen.gif
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He called me crying. It took him about 30 minutes to actually tell me though. But yeah, he told me. sad.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 02:44 PM
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wow im sorry...well he cheated, and he feels bad about it...but if you feel like you can build a bridge and walk over it and are comfortable then i would say stay together...but none the less hes a creep for cheating reguardless of how bad he feels after wards... do what you want to and make sure your comfortable with it also flowers.gif thumbsup.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 04:49 PM
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so what happen so far?
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 06:02 PM
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hahahaha minda.

i dunno, it was only feeling up...it's not like he had sex with her or something. if my bf did that i'd probably give him a second chance.

and wow, you're in 7th grade feeling eachother up? blink.gif what's happening to you kids these days..
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 06:39 PM
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QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jan 9 2005, 6:02 PM)
hahahaha minda.

i dunno, it was only feeling up...it's not like he had sex with her or something. if my bf did that i'd probably give him a second chance.

and wow, you're in 7th grade feeling eachother up? blink.gif what's happening to you kids these days..
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Har har har. He is in the 10th grade. I know you think I am little inmature junior high girl who doesn't know what love is and shouldn't be dating a tenth grader, but screw you. I know perfectly well what love is.
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 06:44 PM
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The boy obviously aint feeling you. He cheated on you, "he who does not feel me is not real to me" he obviously found that girl to be better than you at the time.... he's not into you... kill 'em off... better yet just kill him... no im just kidding that wouldn't be legal. Severely torture him in a sexual kind of way getting him excited then let him go... >=]
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Jan 9 2005, 6:44 PM)
The boy obviously aint feeling you. He cheated on you, "he who does not feel me is not real to me" he obviously found that girl to be better than you at the time.... he's not into you... kill 'em off... better yet just kill him... no im just kidding that wouldn't be legal. Severely torture him in a sexual kind of way getting him excited then let him go... >=]
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Thanks. That just made me feel so good about myself stubborn.gif

EDIT// Why are you in the girls locker anyway?
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 08:06 PM
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well, my opinion doesnt matter because you already did but anywho- what i wanna know is, what your "Friend" has to say about the matter?
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(miss barnes @ Jan 9 2005, 8:06 PM)
well, my opinion doesnt matter because you already did but anywho- what i wanna know is, what your "Friend" has to say about the matter?
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My "friend" didn't say anything. I called her and asked her, and she just hung up on me. Everytime I confronted her, she walked away. So I guess she has nothing to say.

And Loren (the guy) hates her guts. I don't know why he did it. His friends say its just a guy, his heart corrupted and his hormones took in. She was persuading him to do it anyway. stubborn.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2005, 08:44 PM
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QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Jan 9 2005, 7:05 PM)
Thanks. That just made me feel so good about myself  stubborn.gif

EDIT// Why are you in the girls locker anyway?
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Im in here because... I am in here! Besides it's the girls locker room.. what ugy doesn't want to be in the girls locker room? wink.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 03:27 AM
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I'd say to give him a second chance...if he wasn't a good guy, he'd have hid the truth from you. But he told you the truth and apologized, and from what you're saying, he sounds sincerely sorry.

I think you should kick your "friend" where it hurts and curse her out in public. Seriously, I think you should do that.

Give your bf a second chance...but twice is not acceptable...if he does it again, dump him without hesitation.
 
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post Jan 10 2005, 08:05 AM
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QUOTE(ApocalypseAelis @ Jan 10 2005, 3:27 AM)

I think you should kick your "friend" where it hurts and curse her out in public.  Seriously, I think you should do that.

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Already been done. happy.gif Got a weeks suspension for it, but oh well.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 07:09 PM
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hahahahha ^^ rock on! did you dump him or are you still thinking about it? just out of curiousity
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 09:24 PM
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QUOTE(roberts_pink_drums @ Jan 11 2005, 7:09 PM)
hahahahha ^^ rock on! did you dump him or are you still thinking about it? just out of curiousity
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I dumped him... whistling.gif























But I just couldn't live without him. cry.gif
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 10:20 PM
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QUOTE(TreesTurnMeOn @ Jan 9 2005, 7:40 PM)
My "friend" didn't say anything. I called her and asked her, and she just hung up on me. Everytime I confronted her, she walked away. So I guess she has nothing to say.

And Loren (the guy) hates her guts. I don't know why he did it. His friends say its just a guy, his heart corrupted and his hormones took in. She was persuading him to do it anyway.  stubborn.gif
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great "friend"

hmm, i don't care what you say, but to you.. dating an older guy might sound like not such a big deal. but if you're a 10th grade girl and you know a guy in your grade dating a 7th grader, you're gonna think he's weird and you're gonna know that all he wants is booty. i know that because i'm a girl in 10th grade and i know a lot of guys my age that date younger girls because they're easier. but then again... sometimes that's not the case. i'm just saying... be careful.

but i guess if you've been going out a long time and he didnt try to screw you yet, you're safe...
 

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