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need help big time, really need it |
Dec 20 2004, 08:29 PM
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![]() damn u got owned! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
ok so yeah on friday i was at this party. and this one girl i liked was there but i didn't do any thing cause i thought she had a b/f cause she did have one. but i found out that she didn't have one. so i really do like her but im really scared to do any thing cause we are really good friends and i think she does like me but no one is really sure cause she talks about me a lot to other people and stuff. but i want to ask her out but if i do ask her out and she says yes i don't think it's really going to work. cause i only some times see her and also her parents are really strict and i moved but i come down to my old house every week end. but i really don't want to ruin our friendship. so wat should i do?
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Dec 20 2004, 08:32 PM
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I have no life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
What her parents don't know won't hurt them
Go for it and Ask her out, and try to work it out if her parents find out If she says no..............life sucks |
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Dec 20 2004, 09:16 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Go for it. :P
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Dec 20 2004, 09:17 PM
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![]() whaaaaaaat? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
1. smack urself across the head and stop going back and forth with two different ideas.
2. ask her out, what have u got to lose? well, besides ur dignity, but u don't need that, now do u. 3. if she says yes, "word." if she says no, "its all good." |
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Dec 20 2004, 09:20 PM
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![]() whatever d00de ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
just ask her out before someone else does, then you'll regret not asking her first.
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Dec 20 2004, 10:47 PM
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![]() Love hates me ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,805 |
QUOTE(xbr0kensmil3 @ Dec 20 2004, 9:20 PM) just ask her out before someone else does, then you'll regret not asking her first. true true..."broken hearts are often caused by unspoken words" so tell her, and work things out later...you can still be friends if things dont work out |
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Dec 22 2004, 03:22 PM
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
ask her out. But also make sure she's comfortable around you first..
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Dec 22 2004, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE(cocoalightning27 @ Dec 20 2004, 8:32 PM) What her parents don't know won't hurt them Ha, thats what I thought when I was going out with my ex ex boyfriend. Long story..... Look, if you want to ask her out, then go for it, most of my past boyfriends after we broke up are still buddies with me. If she says yes, then try to keep in touch and try to make the relationship work out. Best of Luck. |
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Dec 22 2004, 04:19 PM
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![]() The Bone Collector ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Know at least 80-90% that she likes you.
Ask her out. Date behind her parents back. Call her,write, email, whatever it takes to keep in touch. Go out every weekend so keep the relationship tight. |
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Dec 28 2004, 03:00 AM
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
i think you should take a chance. you never will really know what could happen and if you don`t ask her out and take that chance, you might regret it and you might end up always wondering "what if..."
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Dec 28 2004, 12:41 PM
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![]() Prez of Student Council 04/05 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
well you have to GO for it to know what will happen!! what IF it doens't get ruin? gee don't think too much and go with the flow, when you plan too much it never works out
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Dec 28 2004, 12:47 PM
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![]() none of it seems real ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Go for it , don't miss your chance ;]
As for the parents thing.. My parents are like that too so just keep it on the down low. You could probably pull off saying you're best friends now so that's why you want to hang out so much. |
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Dec 28 2004, 02:13 PM
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[*]i AM your star!![*] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
I agree just go for it before you miss your opportunity
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Dec 30 2004, 02:25 AM
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![]() Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
take the chance, ask her out.
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Dec 30 2004, 06:42 AM
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![]() High Voltage!∞ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Dec 20 2004, 6:17 PM) 1. smack urself across the head and stop going back and forth with two different ideas. 2. ask her out, what have u got to lose? well, besides ur dignity, but u don't need that, now do u. 3. if she says yes, "word." if she says no, "its all good." haha agreed |
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Dec 30 2004, 10:02 AM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Dec 20 2004, 9:17 PM) 1. smack urself across the head and stop going back and forth with two different ideas. 2. ask her out, what have u got to lose? well, besides ur dignity, but u don't need that, now do u. 3. if she says yes, "word." if she says no, "its all good." WHO THE HELL SAYS "word" WHEN SOMEONE SAYS YES TO YOU?! And yeah, go ahead and ask her out. And if it doesn't work, then it doesn't work. |
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Dec 30 2004, 10:03 AM
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![]() Dark Lord of McCandless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
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Dec 30 2004, 02:06 PM
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mmm....beer.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
1. Neutralize her parents.
2. Blame it on one of her Ex's (assuming she has one, if not, blame it on her best friend) 3. Break her legs 4. Ask her out and tell her you'll kill her if she doesn't say no. ^.^;; |
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