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post Oct 5 2004, 04:55 PM
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I dunno it there's a topic on this already (if so sorry >.<). But I was wondering how do you guys answer the question. Even if you didn't like her like that and she asks you.
I had a guy friend that would go out with girls when they asked him even if he didn't like them because he didn't want to hurt their feelings... Do alot of you guys think that way?
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 05:21 PM
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what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round. happy.gif
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 06:00 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Oct 5 2004, 6:21 PM)
what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round. happy.gif

That's what I said to him!!
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 06:12 PM
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no, thats totally f-ed up, thats just basically playing with them
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 07:48 PM
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ill definetely say yes. if im attracted to her shifty.gif
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 07:50 PM
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if im attracted yes.. but if i just felt sry i would just say no.. because leading them on saying you like them and such would hurt them x10 more at the end.. so i would just say no
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 09:31 PM
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My best friend almost did that to me. Because he thought that he could learn to love me and he didn't want to hurt me or make me sad. But when i found out, i put a stop to that. He's still my best friend... and always will be _smile.gif
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 10:11 PM
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I think sometimes that if people dont like the person and still say yes they dont want to hurt them and they try to like them make themselves think they like them. ive done it before didnt work out too well though
 
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post Oct 5 2004, 11:18 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Oct 5 2004, 2:21 PM)
what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round. happy.gif

huh.gif I wouldn't do that I agree with him ^
 
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QUOTE(Jason61992 @ Oct 6 2004, 10:48 AM)
ill definetely say yes. if im attracted to her shifty.gif

what if you werent then huh... huh.gif
 
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post Oct 6 2004, 01:08 AM
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i believe everyoen should have a chance :] ... but if im really not attracted to them in anyway...ill just let them down easy...leading people on is wrong...and it hurts more ;/ ..
 
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post Oct 6 2004, 04:36 AM
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im never this lucky to even have a girl ask me cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif
 
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QUOTE(dahding @ Oct 5 2004, 11:21 PM)
what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round. happy.gif

LOL...that rox...LMAO
 
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QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Oct 6 2004, 10:36 AM)
im never this lucky to even have a girl ask me cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif

hunnie dun get sad....i can ask u out if ya wanna...
 
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post Oct 6 2004, 04:47 PM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Oct 5 2004, 3:21 PM)
what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round. happy.gif

Ding ding ding!! We have a winner! I think that's the perfect way to handle it. *Nod, nod.* happy.gif

sandra6645 - Please don't double post. There's an edit button for a reason. kthnx. happy.gif;;
 
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post Oct 27 2004, 08:36 PM
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no never, im not gonna go out with a girl i dont like
tell her that we can be close friend, if shes a nice girl.
 
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QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Oct 6 2004, 5:36 AM)
im never this lucky to even have a girl ask me cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif

Yes; I can see why.
 
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post Oct 28 2004, 07:39 AM
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If I had a slight attraction to them then I would go out with them. But, if I really was turned off, I would probably just say...Whats your number? Ill call you when I free up sometime in my busy schedule. Or something in that way....
 
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post Oct 28 2004, 08:08 AM
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I did that once.. mellow.gif
Don't do it, guys.
 
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post Oct 28 2004, 08:10 AM
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i think that guys should just say "no" but that's my opinion, as a girl. if he didnt want to hurt their feelings he must have had some kind of feelings towards her, because if guys don't care about the girl then they would just say "no", just saying "no" is fine, it's better than being all into the relationship and hurting their feelings more that way.
 
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 27 2004, 7:48 PM)
Yes; I can see why.

ohmy.gif don't be mean. tongue.gif

just say no if you don't like em. if you make them think you do, it'll make em more sad.
 
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post Feb 7 2005, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(MusicalAngel @ Oct 5 2004, 9:31 PM)
My best friend almost did that to me. Because he thought that he could learn to love me and he didn't want to hurt me or make me sad. But when i found out, i put a stop to that. He's still my best friend... and always will be  _smile.gif
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if my best friend did that to me... I don't even know what I'd say to him. I'd feel really.. dumb >.<
 
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post Feb 8 2005, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(dahding @ Oct 5 2004, 5:21 PM)
what the heck? if u go out with a girl and u don't like it because u don't want to hurt her feelings, aren't u gonna hurt her feelings a lot more when u can't take it anymore and break up with her? geez..if that ever happened to me, i'd most likely say that i only think of her as a friend. and then if she gets sad and mopy, i'll give her a hug and cheer her up. hugs make the world go round.  happy.gif
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now why cant all guys think like you????

well.. i'd never have the guts to tell a guy anyways...
 
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post Feb 8 2005, 02:38 AM
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dis happened 2 me.. recently.. she thought she was my gf.. n i told her.... jus friends.. yeh i did hurt her feelings n she cried.. but i didn't wanna hurt her more by breakin up wit her.... mebbe i shud've given her chance.. wutz holdin me bak..? (we still talk..)
 
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post Feb 8 2005, 03:39 AM
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if she asks you over the phone..

hang up and turn it off

if she asks you in person..

yell moose and run away



or.. just.. be nice about it you know? i mean the moose does work. the next day she sees you, you can be like wow that was some moose! almost got me
 
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