i seem to want attention from boys
like i want them to be looking at me

does this means i'm gay?/

&& by the way.. i do like girls!
I am a boy, 15 years old.
What do you think. i want you honest opinion . Thank you

P.S. when i was about 11
i was browsing and playing online games on the net
when i saw this gay ad and this is how it all started
i clicked it and i think i got more and more into it
i was never able to be aroused when i look at a guy all my life\in fact i used to look at a couple of victoria secret magazines but
i guess something changed and i was able to get aroused by boy in a couple of months
and besides i have been called gay tons of times and when i saw the ad
i was curious
this is the part i kinda left out

Please Post a picture of yourself.

What kind of attention from boys? Like, you want friends? Or you want them to grab your ass?

i am really not comfortable putting my picture on here
especially with a topic like this

but i am an african american
5'7
masculine, sometimes feminine but indoors only- not at school or anything
more decriptions needed??

and when i say attention
i mean attention in a "they like me or want me" kind of way
if you get what i am saying

Can I <3 yours?

btw.

Dandre, just act normal, if they come close to you, take out a gun and shoot them.

i know
i mean i don't want them grabbing me
although that would be a way to know they want me

not necessarily. i know a lot of guys who thrive off of attention from their fellow males and are in no way gay.

or, perhaps you are bisexual?

i really think this 'problem' is something you should be asking yourself and analyzing... i do not know you and could not possibly give you an acceptable or right answer to your question.

Do you have a good relationship with your father? Honestly?

okay thanks.

Thanks for skipping my question

You know I wasn't being serious, right?

Here's me being serious: You're still young and are probably just learning about your sexuality. Just because you may look a guy and find him a attractive does not mean that you are sexually attracted to them. There's a lot of girls that I find sexy, but that doesn't mean I want throw them into my bed. There isn't anything wrong with you finding a guy attractive, but if gets to a point where you desire them in the way that you desire females then you questioning your sexuality is warranted.

my father....
i am not really close to my father
i haven't been for as long as i could remember
i have been living with my mom all my life
my dad wasn't really there for me and my brother
it's a long story

well sometimes i do think about having sex with them
i have had tons of thoughts about it
i usually ask myself- how does it feel? is it good?
and i should mention i do watch gay porn
to be specific i usually watch solo gay porn - only one person
not two men having sex

Professional analysis:

You seek attention from other males because you never had a father figure in your life. You need to know the feeling of being needed from a male in order to grow and develop. This in no way makes you gay.

All you need is love. Love is all you need.

*sings*



Since you never gave the replies to those answers, I can only analyze what you did give me.

It is possible that you are gay, but watching gay porn doesn't necessarily make you gay. Does it gross you out? Does it draw you in and make you want to keep watching?

You could just have homosexual fantasies, which go away as you mature, unless, of course, you are gay.

so you are saying it is normal for this to happen??
but i have heard about the father thing && i am still having doubts
about if this is really true

I'm sure your momma would hate me for saying this, but you don't know until you try it. If you're thinking about being with a guy and end up in a healthy relationship with a woman you may always having feelings towards men that wish you would've acted upon. You may be gay, or it may just be the "what if..." and no one here can tell you which one it is.

It's usually present in people who had abusive fathers or people who have never met their fathers.

In your case, you never really had one? Didn't like him much? It would make sense that you require the attention of a male since your father was never there to give you that attention and love.

edit:



This is good advice.

i really don't like watching two men having sex
because i sometimes get nervous and shaky
but if it is just one person doing his thing then it is fine
i tend to watch porn videos with guys touching their butts -
their butt- thats what attracts me
please let me know if i am giving way too much info.

Give away as much as you are comfortable with. There aren't that many limitations on these forums .. Just don't post porn or links to porn.

okay but i don't think i am ready for any acts with i guy
i mean like i said i fantasize about it
but as for now i am 15
and i am not into the whole having sex at my age right now
to make things worst with a boy
but it is something to think about

okay
like i was saying
i really have a huge butt fetish
even with girls
and i tend to watch videos with boys shaking/touching their ass/ butt
it really turns me on

You sir, are gay.

okay
thanks for your opinion

Reminds me when I used to watch gay porn. I just saw gay porn for like.. 5 seconds? 4-5 seconds? its done.