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post May 17 2009, 12:01 AM
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I'm just wondering how territorial you are.

Honestly I think I'm very territorial, especially if its around people I don't know. For instance, if I'm in line, I hate when people get too close to me. One lady was all up on me one day. Every time I would move forward to get a little space, she move forward. _dry.gif Another example is I like to sit one seat apart from people. This dude came and sat by me, so I moved one seat over next to my friend.

Am I the only dude like this? What is your personal comfort zone before a person starts to invade it?
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:05 AM
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It depends if they're a girl and how attractive they are. Other than that, if there are other seats open that give them space and give me space, why not give space for everyone? Why crowd a certain aspect of the class/bus/w.e has seats when you can go elsewhere?

But KC, I know how that line thing is. Bitches always be all up on me like shit boy f*ck you mean.
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:06 AM
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if i can smell someone they're too close. i don't like it when people i don't know touch me or brush up against me. like on the train, i feel so dirty when i ride the train or airplanes. airplanes too. i try to sit a seat apart from people when i got to the movies and stuff. i've had some bad experiences with letting people sit next to me in the movies.
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:07 AM
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did they take a poop on you?
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:13 AM
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lol, no Steven. i went to see Don't Mess with the Zohan. and this guy comes and asks if he could sit next to me. being the nice person i am, i say yes. so this guy laughs at every single joke (i kid you not), jumps and kicks in his seat when he laughs, repeats what the people in the movie are saying, reads the stuff on the screen out loud, and is nowhere near quiet.
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:13 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 17 2009, 01:05 AM) *
It depends if they're a girl and how attractive they are. Other than that, if there are other seats open that give them space and give me space, why not give space for everyone? Why crowd a certain aspect of the class/bus/w.e has seats when you can go elsewhere?

But KC, I know how that line thing is. Bitches always be all up on me like shit boy f*ck you mean.

Hahaha if the girl is attractive, not going to lie I get nervous and a bit aroused. If they ugly then I start to feel uncomfortable. But yeah, I never understood why dude came and sat by me with all that space open.

Hahahaha thats what I'm saying. I be like shit boy can you give me space? I'm pretty sure if I said that they would be like f*ck you mean?


QUOTE(smash @ May 17 2009, 01:06 AM) *
if i can smell someone they're too close. i don't like it when people i don't know touch me or brush up against me. like on the train, i feel so dirty when i ride the train or airplanes. airplanes too. i try to sit a seat apart from people when i got to the movies and stuff. i've had some bad experiences with letting people sit next to me in the movies.

LOL @ feeling dirty cuz someone touches you.
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:26 AM
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QUOTE(IamLegend @ May 17 2009, 12:13 AM) *
LOL @ feeling dirty cuz someone touches you.

have you ever been on the train? you'd feel dirty too if a bunch of people you don't know were bumping up against you and you don't know where they've been.

at least i'm kissable.
 
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post May 17 2009, 12:29 AM
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QUOTE(smash @ May 17 2009, 03:13 PM) *
lol, no Steven. i went to see Don't Mess with the Zohan. and this guy comes and asks if he could sit next to me. being the nice person i am, i say yes. so this guy laughs at every single joke (i kid you not), jumps and kicks in his seat when he laughs, repeats what the people in the movie are saying, reads the stuff on the screen out loud, and is nowhere near quiet.


Oh god darn that is so annoying. I've had my fair share of those people :|
I'm pretty strict with the space thing.. I hate sitting next people on public transport, especially on buses when an overweight person sits next to me and they're all rubbing up against me.
This one time I was on a bus, the only person on, and this old fat smelly lady chooses to sit right next to me when she could've chosen out of 20+ seats where she could've sat all by herself. Awwwwwkwaaaard.
 
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post May 17 2009, 01:25 AM
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post May 17 2009, 07:24 AM
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The only place I ever really feel like that is at the movies. Like, I feel uncomfortable when some stranger just sits next to me and I have to go through that for 2 or 3 hours so it's like so awkward. mellow.gif
 
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post May 17 2009, 07:28 AM
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Ugh, used to hate being crowded. Really claustrophobic when it comes to people entering my personal bubble. But idk, you get used to riding the subway during rush hour and suddenly, getting your personal space invaded when you're in line just doesn't seem so bad anymore.
 
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post May 17 2009, 05:18 PM
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i go to a lot of concerts, so i have gotten used to gross people invading my personal space.

i just hate it when people lean in really close to your face when talking to you. :/
 
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post May 17 2009, 05:19 PM
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QUOTE(IamLegend @ May 16 2009, 10:01 PM) *
For instance, if I'm in line, I hate when people get too close to me. One lady was all up on me one day. Every time I would move forward to get a little space, she move forward. _dry.gif

That so happened to me the other day. Except it was this weird middle-aged man.


I won't throw a bitch fit if someone gets too close but I'll get really uncomfortable. When someone gets too close, I just move over next to my brother or whoever is there with me.
 
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post Jun 13 2009, 04:29 PM
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I catch your drift...I need my elbow space. I have a friend that gets too close and when I step back for space, he steps forward and I start to fell claustro. Elevators ugggghs
 
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post Jun 13 2009, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(IamLegend @ May 17 2009, 01:01 AM) *
I'm just wondering how territorial you are.

Honestly I think I'm very territorial, especially if its around people I don't know. For instance, if I'm in line, I hate when people get too close to me. One lady was all up on me one day. Every time I would move forward to get a little space, she move forward. _dry.gif Another example is I like to sit one seat apart from people. This dude came and sat by me, so I moved one seat over next to my friend.

Am I the only dude like this? What is your personal comfort zone before a person starts to invade it?


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post Jun 13 2009, 11:46 PM
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Very territorial when I go out and stand on lines too and people get too close to me i just grill them . It bothers me D= i don't want no one breathing on me.
 
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post Jun 15 2009, 04:34 PM
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Personal space is nothing to me.

I just hate when people stare at me.
 

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