How men f*ck up relationships thread |
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 Apr 23 2009, 11:19 AM
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 Ley <3  Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894  |
QUOTE(synergy @ Apr 23 2009, 03:00 AM)  how men fuck up relationships: by acting like women. truth. QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 07:26 AM) Go make thread.  Good idea! Lets see...well im sorry if i dont wanna talk to you all day and night about everything and nothing. I mean shouldn't the guy be happy im not all on his nuts all time? |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:39 AM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships.
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Apr 23 2009, 11:43 AM
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 Mel Blanc was allergic to carrots. Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,371 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,291 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 12:39 PM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. This. 
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Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 11:39 AM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. True. Concidering i dont act like most women i really am not offended by this. I believe most women like pointless drama in their lives just to be entertained. Then again most (men) seem to imitate the actions that they hate so much. |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
you suck at making topic titles
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Apr 23 2009, 11:48 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 23 2009, 12:39 PM) lmao what I love about this is that you guys are saying we (men) f*ck up relationships by acting like you. so therefore, women's actions f*ck up relationships. My name is Brandon Saunders, and I support this post. |
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Apr 23 2009, 11:58 AM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(doughnut @ Apr 23 2009, 11:46 AM) you suck at making topic titles are u talking about me or WarMachine or wait did u not catch the part where i quoted him? |
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Apr 23 2009, 12:00 PM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
How men f*ck up relationships by acting like women
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Apr 23 2009, 12:07 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
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Apr 23 2009, 12:37 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
lol well this thread crashed and burned.
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Apr 23 2009, 12:51 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
men f*ck up relationships by not having jobs and not having any direction in life so that I can sit there and support them until i had enough and kicked you out of my house
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Apr 23 2009, 01:26 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(hypnotique @ Apr 23 2009, 12:51 PM) men f*ck up relationships by not having jobs and not having any direction in life so that I can sit there and support them until i had enough and kicked you out of my house Wow! |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:10 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
I edited/updated the title. ;)
As many times I hear of women f*cking up things because of jealousy issues, I've seen many men f*ck it up in the same fashion. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:10 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(leyvacu @ Apr 23 2009, 01:26 PM) Wow! Heck yes. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:13 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
I dont think i could ever support a guy..
then again most guys i date r the mexican macho man that has to pay for everything or else they feel less like a man. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:13 PM) Why can't men admit that they're wrong sometimes? Men are afraid that women will take that, run with it, and never let it go. Ex: Why were you such a jealous ass to that guy?! He doesn't even like me. Me: He was all over you! Ex: ***hole, he's my cousin!!! Me: Damn, I'm sorry, I really am. ... Me: Are we still hanging out with your friends from work? Ex: No because you might get all jealous like you did that one time? Me: What one time? Ex: That one time when I ran into my cousin at Club 210 and you freaked out because of him picking me up. Me: That was last year. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:28 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Apr 23 2009, 02:23 PM) Men are afraid that women will take that, run with it, and never let it go. Ex: Why were you such a jealous ass to that guy?! He doesn't even like me. Me: He was all over you! Ex: ***hole, he's my cousin!!! Me: Damn, I'm sorry, I really am. ... Me: Are we still hanging out with your friends from work? Ex: No because you might get all jealous like you did that one time? Me: What one time? Ex: That one time when I ran into my cousin at Club 210 and you freaked out because of him picking me up. Me: That was last year. lmao! If i had a dollar for every one of my exs that thought one of my cousins was hitting on me..well lets say i could buy some new shoes :) |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:38 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
You know, I'd rather see a thread that addresses how/why people, in general, ruin relationships:
QUOTE How to Ruin a Perfectly Good RelationshipBy psychscribe Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship: Control everything and everyone Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong Make it a habit to spend more money than you have Win every fight, even the ones you couldn’t care less about Keep score Use threat often Find your partner’s weak spot and use it against him/her When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts Hold fast to the belief: “If you loved me you would know what I want” Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs Use silence as a weapon Pretend that you don’t hear When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints Refuse to give information When you realize you haven’t given your partner some important info, insist that you did Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship Never ask for help Confide only in friends Take it personally when your partner wants time alone Discount your partner’s physical complaints Give advice where it isn’t welcome Never pick up after yourself Refuse to seek help for your depression Refuse to talk Focus on changing your partner Focus all your needs on sex Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work Put your friends before your partner Keep romantic gestures to a minimum Focus on your partner’s faults and deny your own Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture Practice verbal abuse Do not listen to your partner’s ideas or suggestions Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted Let disagreements fester Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please http://psychscribe.wordpress.com/2007/12/0...d-relationship/ f*cking up relationships isn't gender specific. Most of us have done things to f*ck up relationships and most of us have been in a relationship with someone who f*cks up relationships. |
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Apr 23 2009, 02:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
We cheat on you women... whether you like it or not.
 Except for me.. I'm not a primitive human. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:18 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
Utilizing JC's tool (no pun intended) to indicate which behaviors men execute far too often. To make it easier for men to read, I too have highlighted (in red) the identified areas of concern.
QUOTE How to Ruin a Perfectly Good RelationshipBy psychscribe
Several years ago Pat Love Ed.D. and Sunny Shulkin Ph.D., two Imago trainers and therapists, published a book titled How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship. Below is part of their list of some behaviors they identify which can, indeed, ruin a relationship: Control everything and everyone Never take the blame yourself; instead, make your partner wrong Make it a habit to spend more money than you have Win every fight, even the ones you couldn’t care less about Keep score Use threat often Find your partner’s weak spot and use it against him/her When your partner tries to please you, find fault with their efforts Hold fast to the belief: “If you loved me you would know what I want” Demand your partner remain faithful but refuse to meet his or her sexual needs Use silence as a weapon Pretend that you don’t hear When your partner tries to apologize, bring up more complaints Refuse to give information When you realize you haven’t given your partner some important info, insist that you did Claim to be the only one interested in the relationship Never ask for help Confide only in friends Take it personally when your partner wants time alone Discount your partner’s physical complaints Give advice where it isn’t welcome Never pick up after yourself Refuse to seek help for your depression Refuse to talk Focus on changing your partner Focus all your needs on sex Take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work Put your friends before your partner Keep romantic gestures to a minimum Focus on your partner’s faults and deny your own Let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture Practice verbal abuse Do not listen to your partner’s ideas or suggestions Ask your partner to share feelings and when s/he does, EXPLODE Start conversations when your partner is busy, or better yet, exhausted Let disagreements fester Say what you think your partner wants to hear, then do as you please |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:20 PM
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Remember my battle of the male/female superiority threads? I think someone needs to bump them.
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends?! cause that ruins the fun of these threads |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 04:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends?! Because weed hasn't been legalized. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(Tori-Ann @ Apr 23 2009, 03:22 PM) Why can't we all be friends with benefits?! Fixed. |
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Apr 23 2009, 03:25 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(superstitious @ Apr 23 2009, 04:22 PM) Fixed. Because our society frowns upon promiscuity (that and I'm stingy; I don't want to share). |
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