My best friend comes from an Asian woman/black man relationship.
I haven't seen another Black/Asian relationships since then, but then again, I don't have that many black friends here.

The closest I've been to being in a relationship with a black guy is one date.
Generally, I try to be up front with my feelings for a guy. I don't waste their time the same way I wouldn't want them to waste my time.

My grandmother is very racist. She has no problem using the N word anywhere. Good thing I don't see her anymore, cause she's quite a bitch.
My mom, well, when she sees a black person on TV, she'd be like, "Hey, Mel, it's your friend's cousin." or something like that. I just sigh and move on. There's not much I can do.

Oh! One time, we were at an Indonesian restaurant, and I talked about taking my friend with us next time [the one from the relationship above]. My mom said no because she thinks that the Indonesian people at the restaurant would stare.

Bottom line is, Asian parents are very strict and quicker to judge than other people. This means that once they're introduced to a certain stereotype, they tend to stick to that and refuse to budge.
Dating itself is a weird subject between parents and kids, and interracial dating is even more...complicated, so to speak.

There's a black/Asian couple (black guy, Asian girl) in the grade below me at school, and honestly, I sometimes think it's weird seeing them around school together. I guess it's because I haven't seen that many black/Asian couples around, even though it's New York City. Maybe I just haven't been looking closely enough.

As for the whole "Asian parents being biased/racist" thing, my mom dislikes black, Indian, and probably Middle Eastern people; not sure about Hispanic people. So I'm pretty sure she would be unhappy if I were to date someone from any of those ethnic groups.

Because people tend to date up, meaning they don't date below their racial hierarchy. Why would white men want black women when they can have the Asian women or their own white kind.

Debate? Debate this? Why?

LOLWUT?

I dunno, hard to explain this, but Asian women are definitely higher than Black women in the interracial dating scene. Asian men though? They are on the bottom of this hierarchy. It's not just one racial hierarchy, but it's two sets which is gender based.

If you look at the male's racial hierarchy, I would say it would go in terms of

1. White
2. Black
3. Latino
4. Asian

while for females

1. White
2. Asian
3. Latino
4. Black

but that's just my opinion and what most of my 400 of so classmates came to an agreement in my Human Sexuality class.

I don't care for this hierarchy either, but you can't deny that it doesn't exist in our society.

95% of white males have at one point in their lives, experienced yellow fever. Many factors have contributed to this phenomenon such as guilt from head taxes, internment camps, dropping the Nuclear bomb and the Viet Nam War . This exchange works both ways as asian girls have a tendency to go for white guys. (White girls never go for asian guys. Bruce Lee and Paul Kariya’s dad are the only recorded instances in modern history). Asian girls often to do this to get back at their strict traditional fathers. There is also the option of dating black guys, but they know deep down that this would give their non-english speaking grandmother(s) a heart attack.

White men love asian women so much that they will go to extremes such as stating that Sandra Oh is sexy, teaching English in Asia, playing in a coed volleyball league, or attending institutions such as UBC or UCLA (please note that both schools’ colors of “blue” and “yellow” are intentional also the “A” in “UCLA” stand for “Asian” while the “B” in “UBC” stands for “Billion” try and figure out what the rest of the letters stand for). Another factor that draws white guys to asian women is that white women are jealous of them.

Take for instance the fact that asian women well into their 30s and 40s retain teen / college girl looks without the help of botox, yoga or a trendy diet (future posts). Asian women also avoid key white women characteristics such as having a mid life crisis, divorce, and hobbies that don’t involve taking care of the children (also future posts). Should white guy / asian girl marry, they produce hybrids that are atheistically pleasing, but are very annoying. This practice is also a means by which white people can catch up to the asian peoples in the population race, as most of the hybrids often act white rather than asian.

I for one, is biracical and I love ALL races. I was raised in the city and the suburbs and I understand the the relevance of class, and culture..which in my opinion is far more imporant than race. I was wondering what people thought about black women dating white men. Most white men claim they are "open" to dating black women, however; statistics show that this is a rare case. of course, interracial realtionships is nothing new, but; it is more likely a black man and white women in a relationship rather than the other way around.

I love to date outside of my race for the following reasons: open my world to new cultures and backgrounds,etc. Also, the statistics of available black men are frightening. Half of them are in jail, the other have a load of illegiment children, or they are murdered from sensless crime (I'm just stating statisitcs. I know that this is not the case for EVERY black man, so please don't misunderstand me). Even though I date outside of my race, I still feel it has its challenges. What do you think?

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