I'm 18, attracted to older guys.., i mean, 30+ |
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I'm 18, attracted to older guys.., i mean, 30+ |
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![]() don't call me shirley. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Oct 2008 Member No: 689,028 ![]() |
Geez, i don't know, haha. Just through experience, I hate guys in my age. I could honestly tell you why I love older guys, but i still haven't found a good reason yet. Maturity? That can't be the only reason...i-is that weird? Or dangerous?
When i was in high school, i was automatically dragged with people around with guys. & i did have a few guy friends, but they were so immature. Then i figured, not all guys this age are like this. But it convinced me well enough for 18 years. |
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how do you know if you hate guys "in your age" if you don't even leave your house?
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
At least you're legal. Have you tried being with someone around your age?
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I have a friend like you and while she's a great girl, she got burned by boys our age. So she's dating older guys but she's starting to realize they aren't any better than immature guys.
I don't get the appeal of a little teenage girl going after 30 year old guys. It's two completely different worlds. An 18 year old girl shouldn't worry about maturity when she herself isn't exactly the most mature type. I'm attracted to some older men and I've flirted with a 30 year old doctor but I'd never seriously date them. I'm worried about my next Chem exam while he would be worried about getting audit. Could not relate ![]() |
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Geez, i don't know, haha. Just through experience, I hate guys in my age. I could honestly tell you why I love older guys, but i still haven't found a good reason yet. Maturity? That can't be the only reason...i-is that weird? Or dangerous? When i was in high school, i was automatically dragged with people around with guys. & i did have a few guy friends, but they were so immature. Then i figured, not all guys this age are like this. But it convinced me well enough for 18 years. go and give it a try.. this way.. you kill 2 birds with one arrow.. 1.you go out n try n look at guys age... 2.you smile n flirt.. soon u aint afraid da go outside and u can go college n not afraid people.. ![]() |
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I just have a hard time believing that to many normal thirty year olds look for 18 year olds to date. So when it happens I instantly think "Whats wrong with this guy to wear he can't get a girl his own age?" So I don't know if dangerous is the right word, but yeah be careful.
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
I just have a hard time believing that to many normal thirty year olds look for 18 year olds to date. So when it happens I instantly think "Whats wrong with this guy to wear he can't get a girl his own age?" So I don't know if dangerous is the right word, but yeah be careful. this is exactly how i feel. i can't help but wonder why a 30+ year old grown man would even mess with 18 year olds. to me personally it's just ironic that someone would want a "mature" man and think that a grown man who dates children is the definition of mature. |
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this is exactly how i feel. i can't help but wonder why a 30+ year old grown man would even mess with 18 year olds. to me personally it's just ironic that someone would want a "mature" man and think that a grown man who dates children is the definition of mature. Im gonna have to jump on the bandwagon. Like seriously, what can a 18 y/o offer a 30 y/o man besides whines and complaints that mom is finally kicking them out? A 30 y/o man has had about 12-13 years of experience as being an independent adult, who has possibly been married, had a few kids, a nice house, car, career, and maybe even on his way to being a powerful congressman or some successful stuff [imagination is great lol ![]() ![]() |
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![]() poison ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 ![]() |
i thought you had super anxiety around people and have been house-bound for 8 months...
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im the same way!
its just that i have more in common with older. me and my boyfriend who is 12 years older than me are really happy togeather. some times thats how its meant to be <3 just be happy! |
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I don't know....like sometimes they just want some quickie action. Just be careful, sometimes its more emotional
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depends on what u mean by older, like 18-25 ok, 26-30 depends, 31+ is just plain wierd
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I'm 42, attracted to younger women.
But you're too old for me. I need like 12. |
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#21
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uhmm a 18 year olds and a 30 + together ? that's kinda gross !! do you go for older guys for their money ? lol
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